Family & Relationships - 3 March 2007

Well there's this senior at my school that I like a LOT (i'm in 10th grade)
I asked him out since we were really good friends and I thought he liked me and he completly changed.. he wasn't nice at all like he usually WAS.
I just talked to him last night and I asked him in Feburary
Weirdly, he was giving me mixed signals. I told him I couldn't sleep and he said "I can help you sleep, i'll come over" and I don't want to waste my time on him anymore... Help please?

2007-03-03 12:39:36 · 8 answers · asked by Fe 2 in Singles & Dating

I was seeing a guy I fell in love with over a study abroad trip; we both knew the relationship was going to end when I went home. I left but didn't want to, called and told him, bought him a ticket out. Three days later he was with another girl. I spent two months horribly depressed.
Now, he (and, for some reason, his mother) have called me and said he wants me back, he loves me, and that he has realized what a horrible mistake he made. He sounds pretty sincere; I told him he had to break up with the girl first. He said he would but jumped off IM when she showed up and when I called him today his roommate said he'd left with her. His mom called again this morning to tell me how much he has cried over me, how much he loves me, and how miserable he is with this girl.
I also know the girl he is with has threatened physical violence to those who were going to leave her. I know as well that nobody likes her very much because she's threatened them and bragged a lot. Now what do I do?

2007-03-03 12:38:28 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My beautiful mother died at home 3 months ago. I helped take care of her right until the end. In the hours before she past she talked about seeing beautiful white butterflies. So beautiful she said they were that there was no words to describe them. She started to cry when I told her that I couldn't see what she was seeing. She kept repeating "you have to see this........ they are gorgous"
I remember one afternoon while I was sitting with her.She asked me who the man was at the kitchen table. I told her that I didn't know there was no man there , we were alone. "No" she said "there is a man there and all he say is "I'm waiting" I thought maybe it was medication induced but she quit taking meds 4 weeks prior.
She passed the next morning looking out her bedroom window at one of the most beautiful sunrises with me holding on......... to a woman that I never thought I would have to say goodbye to. I love you mom now and forever

2007-03-03 12:37:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-03 12:37:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I like my ex still but there is also this new guy. I really like him soo but I dont know if I'm over my ex. How do I know if I am truley over him and ready to move on?

2007-03-03 12:36:58 · 5 answers · asked by Jessica :) 2 in Singles & Dating

THANKS to all thoughs who 'Answered' my Y-Messenger friend Story.

I WONT send $$$ to her to get her back home from Africa to USA.

Thanks again, thoughs who Answered my Question 15 minutes ago : )

2007-03-03 12:36:07 · 1 answers · asked by SteverZ 3 in Friends

Please i wanna see her now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
i havent seen my neighbor nancy since christmas. i really miss her. i cry every night and i can never sleep. im so depressed. after christmas,she went to hawaii. she came back two weeks ago. i was calling her everyday and it seems like she can never do anything with me. she said her mom was dying. then the roads were bad. then she said she was having friends over. everytime i calling her, there's always something in the way so i can't see her. help me. i miss her dearly. what would you do if you were me. this is the longest i have ever gone with out seeing her. she isn't related. im 15 and she's 55. but she is a good friend. im scared to call her because i called her a lot. she never calls me. once in a while. if i call, there's going to be an excuse. i guess i gotta wait until april. please help. what should i do?

2007-03-03 12:35:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know him since I was a young girl and he always treated me like his sister. We didn't had a chance to get together more oftenly because he was away at the university {he is a marian enginer} . Now I can't bare the thought of losing him forever. And we had created a bond that has never been there. It was because of my brothers engagment that was held last wednesday. We got friendly like never before and now he is sending me text messages, wich made the matters worse. There just some normal text messages but The thought of him getting married is haunting me. OH, please tell me , what am I suppose to so?

2007-03-03 12:35:30 · 10 answers · asked by ash 2 in Singles & Dating

The more you love a woman and the better you treat her the worse she treats you. My wife says she loves me but doesnt show it actions speak right. Is this ever going to change or should i get out now.

2007-03-03 12:35:06 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I don't want to hear about getting on with your life.

What are the funniest/wickedest ways to get even with your ex?

I want to hear what wicked and funny things you've done to get even with your ex in the past

2007-03-03 12:34:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

are so concerned about me when I have a problem yet they never bother to call me to see how I been feeling. I just don't trust people anymore should I just ditch my friends. They claim they care about me but they mock me or be condescending. I just told one of my friends that everytime they call me when they have problems I listen with care,but when I have problems they start talking down to me. I told him last night if you want to call me and talk stop disrepecting me and stop gossiping about me and my issues. That is a worse thing to do. I am better off talking to my betta fish than with my friends.

2007-03-03 12:34:53 · 7 answers · asked by Contessa 2 in Friends

2007-03-03 12:34:52 · 13 answers · asked by VICKY A. 2 in Weddings

I have been with my boyfriend for six years and he is the best, but I cannt stop thinking of my xboyfriend who was mean to me...what should I do?

2007-03-03 12:34:44 · 6 answers · asked by flyangel1118 1 in Singles & Dating

i've been somewhat flirting with this girl who works at the place i buy coffie at like everyday, i'm friends with all the girls who work there but anyways, as i was leaving 2day i asked if she would like to go 4 coffie one day (original i know) and she gave me a half smile and said "possibly"... ummm.. is that a bad thing?

2007-03-03 12:33:23 · 23 answers · asked by Casper Sparks 1 in Singles & Dating

well im 13 and my sister leah is 16. leahs really mean to me. and i dont mean just mean, shes brutal to me. i think my moms to scared to say anything cuz leah will be mean to her to. shes a brat. she gets what she wants. and she is nice when our other older siblings arent around but once they are home she will consantly put me down. im extremely sensative and cry during comericals about shelter dogs or children in africa. im having a hard time with my dads death and i dont no what do espically since im moving from the jersey shore to dallas texas.

what should i do?
please help me..
thank you so much

2007-03-03 12:33:03 · 2 answers · asked by DanceForJoy 3 in Family

I recently had a boyfriend that made my heart skip a beat when i saw him. We lost touch after a while and my phone with his # in it got stolen. I miss him terribly, but i can't seem to find him. I used to see him when i worked at walmart, but since i am not there anymore and he lives in ct which is where i worked, i have no way of getting in touch with him. What do I do?

2007-03-03 12:32:22 · 7 answers · asked by Amanda M 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been thinking a lot lately about getting married, all I know it will be within 5 or 6 years and although it may be a long ways away a thought came across me. I am going to need a gong for the father daughter dance that relates to a person who is like a fater where my real dad passed away. I don't want to have to think about it in the future wher it hurts to much so if anyone knows any songs that may reflect this please let me know thanks!

2007-03-03 12:32:21 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

well i just realized that this girl liked me and i like her back. i was planning on asking her out.but shes moving in two months which sucks because its before school ends. should i still ask her out even though shes moving? i've been kinda depressed lately and don't know what do

2007-03-03 12:32:16 · 5 answers · asked by mugiwara luffy 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay here goes,
I'm a junior, and I'm just ready to crack. I've started visiting colleges, my parents are arguing right now about where I should go and I want to scream really loudly. I'm a good student, I do all the right stuff but I don't want to freak out about getting in someplace yet. My family doesn't have a lot of money so I need scholarships pretty badly or awesome financial aid. I just want to forget about the SATs and all of the other things oriented towards college. I mean I am concerned about college, and over the summer I'll have to start working on college apps but I mean right now I just want a break! I want to do stupid stuff, and not worry about everything. Then to top it off, my Mom just told me that Bennington would be a reach for me if I wanted to get in, and she said that it was because of money. Something like 80% of the people going there get some form of financial aid. Nearning a melt down point, someone please help.

2007-03-03 12:32:11 · 3 answers · asked by infusionismusic 2 in Family

My husband and i seperated 6 weeks ago and i have been depressed so my friends took me out last night my husband found out and started msg me that im out on a date that im going to have sex with someone else to get over him im nothing but a mole he does not care what i do or say nothing is going to hurt him all i did was go out with my friends i didnt even drink he msg me all night and called me names he was the one who cheated on me what is his go

2007-03-03 12:31:52 · 4 answers · asked by feelingstupid 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I understand that relationships between two become more comfortable and at ease after awhile. . . Yet, why do many (not all) women stop being so attentive of their appearance after she has 'acquired' the guy ?

Many women will not care so much how they look in front of their special guy...will begin fussing at him more...being less sweet and patient of her guy...why is this ?

Whether after several months or several years...why would your guy be any less special to the point where you don't try to focus on your appearance as much or fuss at him more. Is he any less of a 'catch' or 'jewel' just because several months or years have passed.?

In all fairness...I asked a similar question of the guys...as I really wonder about this and find this frustrating and unneccessary. A ' jewel' is a ' jewel ' to grow in value...not to be taken for granted or let ' dust ' collect on it.
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Appreciate any thoughts or insight.
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2007-03-03 12:31:41 · 8 answers · asked by onelight 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

My ex continues to instruct the kids not to reveal their whereabouts when I call them.It is within my parental right according to the state I live in to know where they are even when they are with their mom. It was written in the divorce agreement as well. I filed for sole custody and I am assuming she is giving me a hard time becuase I have excellent grounds to get custody. Could this be the reason?

2007-03-03 12:31:17 · 17 answers · asked by paco 1 in Marriage & Divorce

recently my boyfriend signed up for a MySpace account. since he had at I keep inviting him into my friends. but, he seems to never respond in accepting my invitation. He tells me that he would rather talk w/me on the phone. We only spend time in the afternoons, very rarely do I spend the night at his house. I suspect that he might be cheating with me by talking with other girls on the internet. I ask him if I can use his computer to check my email and he makes up all kinds of excuses so I need up just saying never mind. When I confront him, he says that I being silly, and that I don't trust him. but, if he isn't hiding anything, then whats the big deal?

2007-03-03 12:30:22 · 17 answers · asked by chatterbox 1 in Singles & Dating

what is it like the first time you have sex with a new boyfriend...i have it before but that was my first and m boyfriend i think wants to but im more nervous than ever too! what is the best way to go into it? also how do you know how to act the first time with someone new? hes had his plenty share of women...so thats make me nervous too..please help!!

2007-03-03 12:30:15 · 4 answers · asked by margrl1 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a 33 year old guy. I'm 6'2 and in great shape. The problem I have is that I love to have fun. Mostly traveling to various theme parks, which can be very romantic in the evening. When I was in highschool I would take my sweaty to a nearby theme park every month. I never outgrew it, is this normal?

2007-03-03 12:30:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-03 12:29:37 · 19 answers · asked by WhyNotMe 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-03 12:26:37 · 17 answers · asked by MoneyMike 2 in Singles & Dating

Been friends with her for 13 years friends with him for 10

2007-03-03 12:26:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

well i have this problem whit girls... that I dont know what to say to them.. Im a senior in high school and i need help.. well im good looking and everything I been told a million times u know but i just dont know how to start a conversasion with a girl i do want to have a girlfriend and erything... but I just blush and when I blush i just dont want to talk to them.. i just need help talking to them.. can anyone help

2007-03-03 12:26:09 · 10 answers · asked by leinad_0000 1 in Singles & Dating

if a guy tells me that im amazing, incredible, cute, and that he is very lucky to know me and to be talking to me, wat are the chances of him liking me? this is very important!!!

2007-03-03 12:26:05 · 4 answers · asked by clumsydevil 1 in Singles & Dating