I know him since I was a young girl and he always treated me like his sister. We didn't had a chance to get together more oftenly because he was away at the university {he is a marian enginer} . Now I can't bare the thought of losing him forever. And we had created a bond that has never been there. It was because of my brothers engagment that was held last wednesday. We got friendly like never before and now he is sending me text messages, wich made the matters worse. There just some normal text messages but The thought of him getting married is haunting me. OH, please tell me , what am I suppose to so?
2007-03-03 12:35:30 · 10 answers · asked by ash 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you first need to talk to your brother. see if he thinks it will do you any good and make sure he feels comfrontable with his little sister dating his best friend.. if all goes good there, then tell him how you feel about him before his wedding. good luck and be careful!!
2007-03-03 13:27:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you supposed to do? Wake up to reality. There was no bond between you two, other than him treating his friend's little sis like a little sis. You're not losing him forever, you never "had" him. You even say that the messages he sends you are just normal friendly messages, nothing romantic or anything like that. You have built up this fantasy world in your mind, where this guy and you are somehow destined to be together. But it's a fantasy world, nothing more. He has chosen his life partner, and it's not you. Get over it, start living in the real world, and wish him all the happiness in the world for his upcoming marriage.
2007-03-03 20:43:34 · answer #2 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over him he is marrying the woman that he loves and wants to spend the rest of his life with . Someone else will come along. And more than likely you just have a major crush on him. Since he ALWAYS treated you like a sister that should be an indicator that thats all you ever meant to him. Move on.
2007-03-03 20:42:17 · answer #3 · answered by . 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The anwser is simple. Tell him how you feel and how long you've felt like this. Then everything else will fall into place. He might realize that he loves you and not his fiance and he was scared to do or say something about it because you are his best friends little sister.
2007-03-03 20:42:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is not good. first off he shouldnt be sending you those messages if he was getting married. think about it. what do you think his fiance would do if she knew this? if you think she wouldnt like it then its probably not something that should be happening. and i think you should really decide how strong your feelings really are? are they strong enough to jeapordize someones relationship and possibly future wedding? or is it something that could dissolve if you werent around eachother? take some time away from him...dont see him to think about this...see if your feelings change when your not around him,....if not then take it from there and stay true to you....if they do change and its better when your not together then move on, the best way you know how.
2007-03-03 20:45:40 · answer #5 · answered by nonyerbusiness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time to grow up, what you have is a crush, and it's obvious you are still very young. He sees you as his little sister, and that's not going to change. He'll be married soon, and there is nothing you can do.
Find a boy, your own age, and enjoy life.
2007-03-03 20:41:07 · answer #6 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im so sorry dear.... but the reality of it is that he's too old for you and you still have to time to see what other guys are like and what not. he's already taken...
2007-03-03 20:43:39 · answer #7 · answered by hawaiian_lover1313 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you love him
2007-03-03 20:40:29 · answer #8 · answered by William C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you love him
2007-03-03 20:38:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, I think you're screwed...
2007-03-03 20:41:58 · answer #10 · answered by petroelb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋