i've been somewhat flirting with this girl who works at the place i buy coffie at like everyday, i'm friends with all the girls who work there but anyways, as i was leaving 2day i asked if she would like to go 4 coffie one day (original i know) and she gave me a half smile and said "possibly"... ummm.. is that a bad thing?
2007-03-03 12:33:23 · 23 answers · asked by Casper Sparks 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No,that is a good thing!!!Go for it!
2007-03-03 12:36:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It most likely means that she needs some time think your offer over. Maybe she is still getting over a breakup or she is kinda in the process of starting a new relationship with a different guy or she just wants to make sure it's what she wants before she agrees to the date. If it gets to be a week or two though and she hasen't even said anything else about it to you chances r that she's not interested and didn't want to be rude or hurt your feelings. It rly depends on the situation! Good luck figuring out exactly what she meant!
2007-03-03 20:39:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, don't bother people at work---it's low class not to respect their job --and risk trouble witha boss--even though it's only coffee. Be a man, ask her out--it's either yes or no-----it's no?? then move on--plenty of more women out there...possibly is a kid way of wasting your time---grow up and attack the problem with confidence---not some stupid conversation--she probably doesn't think you're man enough for her with the silly flirt game---just ask her out---and have stuff to do--be decisive--show her you can take charge--no pansy stuff----good luck, man !!
2007-03-03 20:41:39 · answer #3 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be a good thing. it does not hurt to ask her out again, only this time ask her if she would like to get to know each other better. if she says yes, then start with a lunch date and go from there.
2007-03-03 20:45:27 · answer #4 · answered by marimar332002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u may not be interested in u or she may feel thats a bad idea being as what if it didnt work out n she would have 2 c ur face everyday thats not cute
2007-03-03 20:39:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no thats a good thing. shes playing hard to get but also saying at the same time hey im available. shes flirting with you and thats a good sign!!!
2007-03-03 20:39:45 · answer #6 · answered by hawaiian_lover1313 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's a good thing. She's playing hard to get.
If she gave you a bad look, or if she started laughing and didn't give an answer, then you should forget it.
2007-03-03 20:37:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like shes uncertain. I suggest get talking to her more to improve your chances with coffee. Or possibly a date.
2007-03-03 20:46:35 · answer #8 · answered by stephenjlb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might be a good thing or she might just have to think about it maybe in a week or so bring her flowers or something like that and ask her to a movie or to dinner!! i hope it works out!
2007-03-03 20:39:36 · answer #9 · answered by brunet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably just playin' hard to get, girls like flirting that way. We liked to be chased! Don't worry, we'll eventually let you catch us.
2007-03-03 20:37:26 · answer #10 · answered by ღQueenღ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she was just flirting with you again! Maybe ask her in a week or so, "So, how about that coffee"
2007-03-03 20:36:46 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋