m i acting paranoid, or is my relationship w/my b/friend falling apart?

Question

recently my boyfriend signed up for a MySpace account. since he had at I keep inviting him into my friends. but, he seems to never respond in accepting my invitation. He tells me that he would rather talk w/me on the phone. We only spend time in the afternoons, very rarely do I spend the night at his house. I suspect that he might be cheating with me by talking with other girls on the internet. I ask him if I can use his computer to check my email and he makes up all kinds of excuses so I need up just saying never mind. When I confront him, he says that I being silly, and that I don't trust him. but, if he isn't hiding anything, then whats the big deal?

Answer 1

I'd say listen to your gut feeling. Based on what you describe, it's difficult to form an opinion either way. It could be your own insecurity, but it also could be something more than that.

Answer 2

The big deal seems like he is hiding something. You can always go to his myspace page and view the comments that other girls leave him and comments he leaves other girls and see if the are inappropriate and also see if his status says relationship or not. What ever you decide to do Good Luck.

Answer 3

If he isn't hiding anything, he has nothing to worry about by letting you use his computer or accepting/responding to your invitation. If he won't accept your invitations or even respond to them, keep an eye on his page. Most likely he is cheating on you or hiding something. Him accusing you of not trusting him is just his way of lashing out and responding to your accusations of him being deceitful.

Answer 4

He could be hiding something..... or he can feel the mistrusting vibes you are putting out there and is just trying to stop you from spying on him. Obviously, you don't trust him though so you might as well break up with him because if you dont have trust then you dont' have anything.

Answer 5

RED FLAG


if you are my g/f, id try as hard as i can to spend time with you. if he is making up a reason why he cant let you use the computer, what the hell is up with that?

does he have you as "my girl" on his my space, i doubt it! let alone doesnt want you as a friend. i think your barking up the wrong tree with this clown. find a guy that will shout his love for you from the highest mountain and not a guy who wont even put you on a web page

*he's a joke*

Answer 6

Just by asking the question you have your suspicions and i think you are spot on. If he had nothing to hide he would have let you use the computer. Confront him about it and see for yourself. If it's true move on you deserve better.

Answer 7

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Answer 8

No, he is not good enough. If I were you I would distance myself from him asap. I am not sure if I would even have time to talk to him on the phone. And tell him not to call you "silly", by the way, before you tell him "As ta la vista, baby" :)

Answer 9

Listen, it is typical kid stuff to get all hot and bothered by the stupid things boys do---if he is cheating or you even think so--find another guy--why waste time with all of this--don't you have school work??? Find a nice guy--that loser won't be around forever--so start looking and end all of this kid stuff---read your own letter--it does sound sort of nutty--what do you think??

Answer 10

Easy to check. Just try to talk to him using a different screen name.