Family & Relationships - 3 March 2007

this guy i have a crush on said "i just took the biggest crap" and talked about dieareeuh and now im disgusted and cant look at him thesame and i keep picturing it

help

2007-03-03 12:51:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Would you turn down a decent guy, with a job(not a great one but a paycheck everyweek), no kids, lives in a 4 bedroom house, owns a car of his own, has insurence, doesnt smoke or do drugs, doesnt treat a woman like **** or want a mother like figure, and has never been in jail for.............

a guy that is unemployed, refuses to go out and seek work, has two kids by different women, wants to live with you at your place(whatever that may be) because he has no other place to live at, has no means of transportation accept if you drive him yourself, asks if he and his name cane be put on your insurence, he smokes, drinks, does drugs, has been in jail for possesion and drunk driving, wants you to be his "second mother", and has most recently been in jail for writting over $1500 worth of bad checks.

would you turn down Guy A (the first one listed) if he asked to take you out sometime, for Guy B (the second one listed)??????

and if you wouldnt, what would you call a woman who did?

2007-03-03 12:51:06 · 17 answers · asked by Count DiMera 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-03 12:50:58 · 4 answers · asked by hailymae 2 in Singles & Dating

okay my mom used to be totally normal. but now.........
since my dad died shes been crazy
and i cant blame her. but ive been dancing since i was in 1st grade (hip hop, tap, ballet, lyrical, and jazz)
my moms now making me quit and move to texas. but the reason im not allowed to go back to dance is that (ready for this?) she wants me to be a model like she was and she thinks my butt will get to big.
can u believe her?
thats what i want to do with my life. i kno it. when i do my hip hop dance i just feel like confident which is something im not.
what should i say to my mom to make her understand shes being insane?
thanks xoxox

2007-03-03 12:50:51 · 5 answers · asked by DanceForJoy 3 in Family

must be HOT able to cook clean and please women in ****** ways.im rich and im 16 my dad says my bf will get anything he wants as long as im happy.ive got three cars and i dont have my perment yet! one week and three days i'll take my test.

2007-03-03 12:50:00 · 19 answers · asked by The Runner 2 in Singles & Dating

Ask someout out you havent spoken to in awhile?
(Awhile meaning over a month)

2007-03-03 12:49:56 · 14 answers · asked by stephenjlb 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-03 12:48:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-03 12:48:34 · 17 answers · asked by advicemom 4 in Singles & Dating

no hataz plz

2007-03-03 12:48:08 · 29 answers · asked by sadi carnot 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so i was at a store n this guy was packing my groceries. n i was leaving n he said: have a great nite. n i didnt say anytihng back....i mean he said it in a really low voice n he looked down when he said it. n i guess i didnt catch it . i feel really bad bout it now =(
do u guys concider dat being rude if u say somethin to a girl n she doesnt say anything back??

2007-03-03 12:47:09 · 7 answers · asked by honney bunny 4 in Singles & Dating

My ex and I hate each other at the moment, I hate him because he cheated on me and abused me, he hates me because I did not treat him nicely towards the end. Will we ever stop hating and become civil to each other one day? We were out first loves and there was a connection there once, I hope that one day in the future that we could be friends, and I know that right now it is not possible...

2007-03-03 12:47:04 · 18 answers · asked by Jasmina 4 in Marriage & Divorce

and u know what lately a lot of guys are using it like they must be sooo metrosexual imagine if ur boyfreind spends more time in the bath than u then he get to the point where he starts using ur make up then ur lip gloss then i wouldnt be suprised if he starts wearing ur undies like oh my god has the world gone mad
im so happy we have no of that crap in somalia coz most of us have straight hair any way

2007-03-03 12:46:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have one friend who his parents aren't the nice to him. His gets very abused in his house. He will get beaten with a belt or hanger if he doesn't obey his parents to their standards. I am worried very much for him, but I also don't want him to move away and never see him again. What should I do?

2007-03-03 12:46:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

He’s 10years older than me, single, not attached, and always introduces me to his new colleagues that I’m important. At times, he will ask me out. Whenever I need advices, he will help me. He always addresses me as ‘Dear Ashlyn’ or ‘my dear girl’ in emails and SMSes. Perhaps he did have a liking for me few months back, but somehow I didn’t reciprocate as I’m quite slow in getting hints. But now I love him, and I’m not sure if he still cares for me? He did ask me out still, he did introduce me as important, but no longer the closeness in emails or SMS. He seldom flirts around, so I don’t think he’s flirting with me. And I’m just an average looking girl. There are many prettier ones around.

2007-03-03 12:46:17 · 1 answers · asked by Ashlyn Ash 3 in Singles & Dating

I am lucky enough to be dating a man who is a hopeless romantic. I love doing romantic things for him and I know he loves and appreciates it. I am planning a surprise ho air balloon ride for his birthday. I know he will love it, but I cannot afford to do stuff like that often. Any idea on inexpensive ways to sweep my man off his feet on the regular? Thanks in advance!

2007-03-03 12:45:30 · 10 answers · asked by pearl_of_your_ocean 2 in Singles & Dating

Dont know him very well yet to know if this is a habit or what.

2007-03-03 12:44:35 · 4 answers · asked by COblonde 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm 19 and so is my boyfriend. I am very carreer oriented and want to be a doctor and will only marry after I'm finished with school and have a career, and am waiting for sex for religious reasons. I love my boyfriend so much and want to be with him long term. All my friends don't think we can last long without sex. Do you think the relationship can last long - years perhaps without sex? Realisticlly speaking. Thank you!

2007-03-03 12:44:25 · 43 answers · asked by skiingturtles 1 in Singles & Dating

Hes name is Fornando and every time i think of him my stomach hurts. And we both like each other and on monday hes going to have his "anwser". What the heck do i do?
And what if he says no???!!
-6th Grade girl GOING TO HAVE FIRST BF!!!

2007-03-03 12:44:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-03 12:44:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have heard that when people drink it brings out thier true honest feelings of how they feel and think. well...if that is the case, last night he was groping and flirting with a woman right in front of me and this is the 3 rd time he has done this in 3 1/2 yrs and i feel hurt and embarrassed. is he doing this cuz he is not thinking straight or is he doing this cuz deep down he wants other women but when he is sober he will not reveal that to me?? he openly asked this girl out and told her how hott she was and kept hugging and grabbing her infront of me!! the girl got upset and walked off but he followed her and another girl saw it and said to him that it was not right and said hey look u got a WIFE who is pretty and she is right here and he said yah i know but i want this hott girl right here. oh i was soooo embarrassed !! what do u think?

2007-03-03 12:43:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have found that we have way more arguments when I am honest about something I didn't need to let out. When I said, "I think it's ok to flirt", it started the biggest argument we have ever had and I was being honest. Don't ever mention they are gaining weight. Finally, never answer the "How pretty am I on a scale of 1 to 10" question unless you are gonna say "10". Trust me. I said "8.5" and for a while, everytime she saw a pretty woman, she wanted me to rate her on a scale of 1 to 10. God forbid I said 9 even if the woman was a 9 or 10. So, do you believe a man can be too honest?

2007-03-03 12:43:04 · 11 answers · asked by jax0817 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I've live with my parents and I got pregnant! But My parents own the house that we live in, me in the top duplex with my snotty lil sis. They are at the bottom duplex. I never had the chance to actually make choices 4 myself, unlike my friends who moved out at age 18, but no i have a baby I dont want to be embrassed with filling out a questionaire if I may step out the house,ect. Although, my mom and father doesn't work, and they said they will be babysitters, I wanna move out 2 be a real adult. I understand I wont be receiving much from the father, and moving out or staying at home would have its bitter-sweet consequences, but Im unsure whats best. My plan was to wait 4 my baby to turn 1yrs, but in the meantime...SAVE and pay off credit card bills!!!

2007-03-03 12:42:58 · 16 answers · asked by MissNewMommy 1 in Family

There is this guy and we have been flirting with eachother now for about a year. Well I am a travel agent, and I have been trying to get him to take a cruise for the longest time. Well today I texted him and said, "I have some great specials for a cruise for you and your girlfriend", He responed back and said, "No girlfriend, but maybe I will go on a cruise to find one". He knows that I go on them a lot, do you think he was referrring to me and wants to date me?

2007-03-03 12:42:50 · 7 answers · asked by Kemma 3 in Singles & Dating

I don't like wearing make-up because it's uncomfortable and I like wearing loose clothing. My step-mom says that I "should" or "need" to wear tighter shirts to show off my body when I don't really want to. I'm not saying that I don't like my body, I do, but I just can't stand it when my step-mom can't really accept me for who I am. I've tried talking with her, but she says that I "need" to look nice for the boys. Is it really that bad for a sixteen year old girl to wear clothes that are comfortable?! What would you do in this situation? (Rude comments will be ignored).

2007-03-03 12:42:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

do anyone know why a guy would go back to his ex ..he did say he never loved her and he would tell me bad things about her...they were only together for 6 months

2007-03-03 12:42:36 · 6 answers · asked by whatever 1 in Singles & Dating

What is this

2007-03-03 12:42:21 · 4 answers · asked by J S 1 in Family

My friend says I need to play and joke and basicially act more like a kid. I agree. What can I do?

2007-03-03 12:42:05 · 2 answers · asked by Origami Fan 2 in Friends

I have been interested in a Pisces boy for 2.5yrs and he has been interested in just as long (so he says). We have been hanging out more and more in the past 8 or 9 months but things have been going really slow (relationship wise). Recently, I noticed that he was starting to back off so I approached him about it, he said that he wasn't ready to jump into it the way that I am, and that he isn't ready to have a girlfriend, but in the same sentence told me that if there was any girl he thought about everyday, it is me. I told him I would back off completely and leave whatever happened between us, in the past. He said thats not what he wants at all, but he's just not ready to date me because he wants to get his life together, and i have a couple of kids. (I think thats part of it too) He said he still wants to hang out with me "on occasion" but want to keep it light for now. My question is... is he just keeping me around for sex or is he actually genuine?

2007-03-03 12:41:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what is a beautiful name,-- or petname...or nickname.--..you can give a female (not the same old..Honey, babe…etc..but in another language perhaps--something romanitic...)…..i would like to know.

2007-03-03 12:41:18 · 12 answers · asked by Midnight Rain 2 in Singles & Dating

My brother was threating me all day and my mom said no he has been good all day and gave him 100 dollars.I asked my mom what about me she said you were being a bratty *****.( The B word).Is that good behavior?

2007-03-03 12:40:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family