I have one friend who his parents aren't the nice to him. His gets very abused in his house. He will get beaten with a belt or hanger if he doesn't obey his parents to their standards. I am worried very much for him, but I also don't want him to move away and never see him again. What should I do?
2007-03-03 12:46:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell your parents or someone else that you trust. You can't keep letting your friend get hurt. If he moves away you won't be able to be there for him. Nobody will know that his parents are abusive and something BAD could happen. Sometimes people go too far. I don't know how serious this is, and I know it sounds like a broken record but you NEED to tell someone. Anyone, not a like child or anything but your parents or someone else who is an adult that you can trust.
2007-03-03 12:51:07 · answer #1 · answered by SarangHaeyo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe talking to a teacher at school or a minister or priest would help. Tell them what you know. This is abuse and he shouldnt have to go through that. Dont just leave this situation. Don't stay out of it. Sometimes people want help but are afraid to make a move. Dont let anyone tell you **** happens. TELL SOMEONE BEFORE ITS TOO LATE.
2007-03-03 20:52:06 · answer #2 · answered by itybittykitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's so wrong to get beaten like that. I'm worried for him too. If this keeps up you should tell one of your parents (don't mention his name though) and see what they think.
2007-03-03 20:50:53 · answer #3 · answered by resse 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should tell your parents and they will be able to help him.He can probably come live with you 4 a while that has happened to my friend b4 and now she has been living with me 4 already 2 to 3 years. Maaybe this way you will be able to help him. Good Luck!!!
2007-03-03 20:51:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anna=) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents, or a teacher, or a school counselor immidiatly! Even if he has to move far away, it'll be for the best, and you'll see him again, please get help for him! He'll be very thankful in the future!
2007-03-03 20:49:30 · answer #5 · answered by Mimi149 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
very sweet of you but unfortunatly you can only help someone who wants help, so if asks you for it then jump right in. But if not just be patient and wait, because if you get involved there are a lot of consequences!!!
good luck!
2007-03-03 20:51:42 · answer #6 · answered by CarmenDelRio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a video of the abuse and post in on myspace.
2007-03-03 20:51:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell the police, and tell him to stay at your house until things get figured out.
2007-03-03 20:50:42 · answer #8 · answered by Acinonyx j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shitt happens. it's life. i know so many people who are in abusive houses. but the fact is, there isn't a whole lot we can do. just be there for him, care about him, remind him that he will get out of there eventually, and he just has to stick it out.
2007-03-03 20:49:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Report it! So what if he has to move away...at least he will be alive!
2007-03-03 20:55:58 · answer #10 · answered by Mallory 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋