Would you turn down a decent guy, with a job(not a great one but a paycheck everyweek), no kids, lives in a 4 bedroom house, owns a car of his own, has insurence, doesnt smoke or do drugs, doesnt treat a woman like **** or want a mother like figure, and has never been in jail for.............
a guy that is unemployed, refuses to go out and seek work, has two kids by different women, wants to live with you at your place(whatever that may be) because he has no other place to live at, has no means of transportation accept if you drive him yourself, asks if he and his name cane be put on your insurence, he smokes, drinks, does drugs, has been in jail for possesion and drunk driving, wants you to be his "second mother", and has most recently been in jail for writting over $1500 worth of bad checks.
would you turn down Guy A (the first one listed) if he asked to take you out sometime, for Guy B (the second one listed)??????
and if you wouldnt, what would you call a woman who did?
2007-03-03 12:51:06 · 17 answers · asked by Count DiMera 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd Pick YOU!
This woman is either:
1) very immature
2) out of her mind
3) looking for a little "excitement" (and man, will she get more of that than she bargained for .... this guy is bad news)\
4) is a "saver" and thinks she can save and change him - not going to work
5) making an honest, good intentioned choice that will cause her much pain and regret.
Don't fret, I know it sometimes seems like the "good guy always comes in last" (I have had that conversation with male friends MANY TIMES!), but this woman at this point in her life, is not the right one for you. TRUST ME - you will find a woman mature enough (that doesn't mean old - just wise) to appreciate the stability, love, and other things you have to offer. It may take a while, gems are not easy to find, but she is out there and will be WELL worth the wait! Don't settle for just anyone - someone who is going to appreciate you and make you very happy is out there and you WILL meet her!
PS Many great woman feel the same way. Why would a guy drool all over a woman who has slept with everyone and their brother, will cheat on them, and treats them like dirt instead of a good woman with values, and goals, and loyalty? It is all a matter of meeting the right person. And you can't meet the right type of person if you are spending time with the wrong type of person - so when "someone shows you who she is" and she isn't who you are looking for in a mate (for example the woman making such a poor choice that you are talking about above...) Move on, call it a lesson learned, and keep looking for the woman with the qualities you want AND the common sense to appreciate your good qualities.
2007-03-03 13:08:33 · answer #1 · answered by Just Curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't even consider the second guy on the list he is basically a little boy. I wouldn't be with a little boy when I could have guy A who is a man. Any girl that would pick guy B over guy A is just either extremely stupid or missing a few brain cells. And If a girl picked guy B over guy A then guy A should just move on and find a girl that can appreciate him as a man.
2007-03-03 20:58:37 · answer #2 · answered by reses 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guy # A!!!!!!! The women that goes for the second guy needs her head examined, I would call her stupid , and an enabler , she wants someone to "help or change", which will not happen with guy #B. If you are asking, because you are guy # A, then wake up, and forget this women, look a round, do you see how many women asking "Where are the good guys"?? Well guy # A is the fellow, so many women are trying to find, this is a guy who has a lot of choice women looking for him, so get out there, and let one of them "find" you. Coffee shops, grocery stores, night classes, are all good places, for them to find you.
2007-03-03 21:04:03 · answer #3 · answered by Kimberly H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i wouldn't turn guy A down unless I just wasn't attracted to his mind or body. As for guy B I wouldn't waste my time and I would call any woman who would an idiot. That type of woman believes they can change that type of man. The truth is people don't change. period. once a player always a player. They might control themselves for a few weeks maybe even a year but they always go back to cheating and being worthless.
2007-03-03 20:58:11 · answer #4 · answered by Beeper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely go for the first guy.. unfortunately I see many women dump a really great guy for guy B. Some say it is the bad boy thing, but I call it the stupid thing. A woman who would choose guy B over guy A must not think very highly of herself.
2007-03-03 21:00:51 · answer #5 · answered by KristinaMaria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you have come across proof that there are a lot of stupid women in the world. Hurray for you. Now stop wasting your time on morons like that and find yourself a lady who knows how to appreciate a good man.
2007-03-03 20:55:27 · answer #6 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoever turned down guy A for guy B certainly isn't worth fretting over. Maybe she is looking for danger or a risk? But certainly, guy A shouldn't worry because it seems that he is too good for said girl.
^_^
2007-03-03 20:56:51 · answer #7 · answered by Cakeisgood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I must choose between the two, I'd pick Guy A. A girl who chooses otherwise can be referred to as . . . Britney Spears.
2007-03-03 23:51:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look if you ask me most women would turn down Guy A for guy B because most women would go for hte hottest guy but I would defenetly go for Guy A if he were cute.
2007-03-03 20:57:50 · answer #9 · answered by Blueberry. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you talking about my boyfriend? You didn't mention that he also cheats on her with numerous different women while she's at work. She stays with him for their child. Like Tammy Wynette said, Stand By Your Man - even if it kills you.
2007-03-03 20:57:30 · answer #10 · answered by Your Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋