okay my mom used to be totally normal. but now.........
since my dad died shes been crazy
and i cant blame her. but ive been dancing since i was in 1st grade (hip hop, tap, ballet, lyrical, and jazz)
my moms now making me quit and move to texas. but the reason im not allowed to go back to dance is that (ready for this?) she wants me to be a model like she was and she thinks my butt will get to big.
can u believe her?
thats what i want to do with my life. i kno it. when i do my hip hop dance i just feel like confident which is something im not.
what should i say to my mom to make her understand shes being insane?
thanks xoxox
2007-03-03 12:50:51 · 5 answers · asked by DanceForJoy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
oh ps. she just told me shes getting me a personal trainer, i have to stop eating sweets, and according to her im quiting soccer which ive played since i was 4 and i was team captain.
now shes making me join CHEERING.
i hate those girls. youve gotta be kidding me right?
im 13 how much more can i take?
2007-03-03 12:57:32 · update #1
You need to put your foot down and say NO! at some point, or this problem will keep gettin' worse. Just say ''NO I want to dance, NOT modle! I don't care if my butt is too big for modeling, cause you can't make me!!!"
2007-03-03 12:56:06 · answer #1 · answered by ****** * 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry to hear about your father.
I think that you need to really have your mom sit down with you and have a heart to heart with her. If this is what you want to do with your like than you should . Maybe you could make a
deal with her you can model once in awhile if you are allowed to keep dancing. I guess she feels that she only has you and and she thinks she is doing what's best for you. It's really tough to want to do something and your mom won't let you. I went though it when i was young.
She wanted me to follow in her footsteps I needed to make my own footsteps!!
2007-03-03 21:37:14 · answer #2 · answered by janet 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's time to stand up for URSELF!!!
if this is not the path u want to take in life, then so be it, and DO NOT, whatever u do, DO NOT let anyone stop u from doing what U want to do in ur life
hope this helps =)
2007-03-06 20:33:53 · answer #3 · answered by The_Pink_One 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seak help from another adult in your life. grandparents, a religious official preacher/preist/reverend/rabbi, teacher, friend of the family whatever.
2007-03-03 22:01:01 · answer #4 · answered by Coyote81 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to stand up for yourself. PUT YOUR FOOT DOWN and say NO!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-03 22:24:57 · answer #5 · answered by Karate Gal 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋