Family & Relationships - 28 February 2007

My GF is pregnant and now i came to know she cheated on me, the kid id definately mine, but i dont wanna marry her. She told me she will sue me, i have to pay whole life 33% of what i earn. She will drang me in court.

I am international student and does not elong to usa, i am from poor family and have lots of loan to pay, if my parents will know all that they will die, i need money to pay my loans and home and to feed my family, but she said she will take my all money and tell my parents and drag me in court.

What should i do, i feel like commiting sueside, i dont see any option if anyone in my family knows this they will also die, i am already poor and under debt, she cheated on me i cannot even accept her, the kid is mine, what should i do

2007-02-28 08:19:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm tired of always being agreeable and holding my own frustration and resentment inside. do i need to speak up, step on people's neck, and get nasty to get what i want? i already know the answer to this, doesn't matter what you all say, y'all say "be nice" so you can take advantage of me. just want to announce this to the virtual community cuz you're all my friends!

but i admit it'll take some time to adjust my attitude, this new me. but i'm determined and if any of you get in my way, i'll call you out, and bust a cap in your butt! ha ha. kidding. maybe...

xoxo

2007-02-28 08:19:17 · 16 answers · asked by JB 1 in Friends

I really don't like the guy. i was drunk and it was just a stupid thing for me to have done. but now i don't know how to talk to my bf about it.

2007-02-28 08:18:12 · 7 answers · asked by LaLa 2 in Singles & Dating

i've been with my fiance for almost 4 years & we're getting married in 7 months. but there's this guy from the US who kept on telling me that i'll be happier if i choose him. he was my classmate from college, we never really get to know each other when we were in college. he went to the US & i went to Canada after grad. we began chatting, he said that he fell in love with me bcoz i was really friendly & sweet. he was single that time but i was with my fiance that time. i told him that i "liked" him. we even call each other from time to time. but that actually stopped coz i realized that i was doing the wrong thing.

last week this guy from the US & i chatted for almost 4 hours. he said that he still have feelings for me. i already told him that im getting married. he asked me why i never gave chance to the feelings that i had for him. im confused, i don't know what to do. am i cheating? what do i do? i love my fiance so much but i like this other guy.

2007-02-28 08:18:04 · 18 answers · asked by kailanganktia 1 in Weddings

So the other night i was talking to this guy i kinda had a crush on and we kinda just met. He told me that he guarentee anything will happen between us, he just wants to hang out.
So i said to him maybe i should just move on

nowwww he's kinda like flirting, like last night i was like "my neacklace just broke" and he said "if i was there i'd give you a kiss to make you feel better" and things like that

what does all of this mean?

2007-02-28 08:17:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-28 08:17:27 · 4 answers · asked by chichona 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband is in baghdad and i dont have any friends to really talk to. Im in the army too so its really lonley with just me and my 4 month old son. I need some adults to talk to.

2007-02-28 08:16:58 · 21 answers · asked by hottymines 1 in Friends

I cook, clean, shop, do laundry, iron his clothes, repair the house, do yard work, entertain his friends and family. He takes others out before he takes me out. He comes and goes and does not tell me. I hate grocery shopping because I have to do the whole thing- haul bags in and put it all away, and then cook it all for ungrateful people. Ideas? By the way- I am pretty and give it to him whenever he wants- I totally satisfy him in every way- so don't go there.

2007-02-28 08:16:47 · 28 answers · asked by northville 5 in Marriage & Divorce

This is something that she did shortly after she turned 18 and only for a couple months. She says she usually made over $100 an hour and the most she ever made in a night was around $2,500. It was $20 a dance and a dance lasted a 1 song, which is approx. 4-5 minutes. By my calulation thats 20-25 minutes of dancing. What happens during the other 40 minutes? First she said she never let anyone touch her, she never touched anyone, and never took her bottoms off. Then her story changed to she only took her bottoms off on the third stage for "like a minute" and she would sit in a good looking guys lap and talk to them. What are the tricks of the trade to make this much money strictly "air dancing"? Can you do it? I don't think she went home with anyone or anything like that. But I'm a good looking guy and I've been to strip clubs years back, and almost everytime the dancers touch my crotch with at least one part of there body and asked me if I wanted a dance.Did she do these things?

2007-02-28 08:16:45 · 10 answers · asked by na 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I’m 29 & have talked online & by phone with a guy (age 35), for 1 yr. Each day he emails me 1st. We’ve shared 3,000+ emails. Shared pics & talk about everything from families, growing up, goals etc. He caught his ex fiancé in bed w/a guy 4 yrs ago – it hurt him bad. He told me hundreds of times how he feels about me. He made it clear that he wants to meet. He even initiated discussions about us one day getting married & having kids. That scared me b/c we haven’t met. He wouldn’t set a date when to meet. Said he’s afraid b/c he’s never met anyone in person b4. He's asked me many times if I wasn’t attracted to him in person, would I tell him. Said I don’t care about his looks– we’re adults. I didn’t reply to his last email Fri, about having "dessert" after lunch (joking). He's talked a lot like that lately - now I get blocked calls to my cell. I think it's him - he left JT's "sexy back" song. No emails - I don't want to call, email him - waiting for him to do so

2007-02-28 08:16:44 · 4 answers · asked by SC29 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay, so me and my friend lets say shes "Jen", well me and Jen have been friends for like 6 years and now shes being all weird. She always ignores me now and I used to be 1 on her top 8 and now I'm 5, I know it sounds stupid but it hurts. Anyway, everytime I go to say hi and we have eye contact she just walks away. Me and her have a mutual friend "Sasha", and her and Sasha have been hanging out like everyday, and they always leave me out. Me and Sasha have been friends since pre-school, and now shes acting very different. And at some point me and her thought Jen was acting very different and snobby, and now Sasha is acting this way. They both have totally changed. Maybe I have too, but I'm not as snobby and fake/popular as them. I have no idea what to do can someone please help, I would really like to be best friends with them like we used to be. We used to be the three muskateers. And I'm afraid if I stop being friends with Jen, Sasha will completely disown me. Sasha is a good person!

2007-02-28 08:15:37 · 7 answers · asked by Izzy™ 2 in Friends

I had my stuff in storage in someone's shed. When I can finally move it, the person helping me breaks my TV. Ok, they let me keep my stuff in their shed for free for about a 1yr. But they broke my TV. Do you think we are even? I'm only asking because this person always cries broke but The person just bought a new SUV. Should I ask for them to replace my tv or let it go?

2007-02-28 08:14:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-02-28 08:14:36 · 1 answers · asked by promiseitsnot_me 1 in Singles & Dating

She could make it really easy to cheat on her. I'm still thinking about it. Should I do it?



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2007-02-28 08:13:59 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm in high school,my boyfriend used to come see me every monday and wednesday.So last wednesday he came to see me at school,but the problem is I was with my cousin,and I got scared.I didn't know what to do,I just talk to him on the phone telling him that I'm not coming near him cause my cousin were there.At first he was all right and after a little while he was still waiting for me to come so I didn't.He got mad and left,I didn't he left.I called him you know asking where he at,then he said that you saw me leaving now you asking where am I?By the way he talked to me that day,I can see that he was mad and I didn't talk to him during 9 days.Today,I finally call him to clarify certain things, and he said that he wasn't mad,he just don't like the way I did it.I really love him you know,it just that I don't want my parents to find that out right now.I know he understands that it just that day he left what he was doing to come see and I turned him down like this.I wanna know what to do.

2007-02-28 08:12:56 · 14 answers · asked by Sandra T 1 in Friends

we went out for a couple of months.

2007-02-28 08:12:42 · 9 answers · asked by corey b 2 in Singles & Dating

i am 12 yrs old and i hate boys they are very mean to me.i mean beat me up mean maybe because i am quit or wierd.i love naruto uzamaki and want him real to be bf is there a way to make him real?plus i really cant this quiet thing off my back never no matter how much i try?

2007-02-28 08:12:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she wierdly and randomly sucks up to me she says like your so pretty & she even admitted to me when i was in 7th grade she was jelouse of me but now that were in high school she seems like she treis to make me jelouse.like i like this kid and SHE KNOWS i like him & wanted his number just cause i like him its pretty obviouse even tho she doesnt admit it.she always pretends to call him,like today she told me im calling jeremy (the guy i like) & i was like ok..,so my ride came to pick me up and when i walked away she was shouting jermyyy jermyy.she hangs out with my ex boyfriends & flirts with them.ALSO if i like something & im good at it she loves the thought of it & when she tries it she sucks at it & shes like well this is better than that.for example, i skimboard i love riding the waves & when she tried it she couldnt do it & fired back atme saying oh well i like surfing better,so i got mad because it seemed like she was trieng to getme jelouse.WHY DOES SHE DO THIS? HOW CAN I STOP IT?

2007-02-28 08:12:05 · 11 answers · asked by emeralcoastsurfgirl 1 in Friends

What are some things that a fifteen year old girl would really like to talk about? The girl is athletic, uses the computer often, and loves those girly TV Shows. What specific things could I bring up that would really get her into the conversation? (ps. I like this girl, if that changes anything?)

2007-02-28 08:11:57 · 10 answers · asked by hahaha 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfrined and I were together for a year and 5 months, we recently broke up for stupid reasons, her friends hate me, why I dont know, what I do know is she says that she has given me alot of chances to prove to her that I love her, Its been about 2 weeks since the break up, I realized that I really do love her and need her, she says that I hurt her too bad for her to come back, I have completley changed and I am ready to treat her the way she deserves to be treated, but she wont come back, she has been out to a couple parties, I am worried that she is talking to somone else, how do I get her to come back to me?

2007-02-28 08:11:41 · 12 answers · asked by fas j 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it possible?

2007-02-28 08:11:40 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im not mean : )

2007-02-28 08:11:33 · 7 answers · asked by : ) love you 1 in Friends

You havent seen someone in years, out of no where they appear, they approch you and it seems like they are interested, Circumstances or someone kept you appart, there were some pretty major differences between you do you make a mends or close that chapter in your life. Has anyone been in this situation?

2007-02-28 08:11:27 · 3 answers · asked by Sweetie 1 in Friends

So, I know this two girls at my school they're both pretty hot and are fun to be with.One is more sporty, the other one is more girly and I know them both prety well.Im always flirty with them, and joke with them and stuff, but I can't decide which to pick.

2007-02-28 08:11:27 · 17 answers · asked by Curious Guy 2 in Singles & Dating

this should be easy answer quickly. Like say whats wrong and u would need to fix that problem. Like if u cant get the guy/girl of ur dreams then u would want a item {even fantasy} too attract them like a magic potion or something

2007-02-28 08:11:07 · 2 answers · asked by stayyoung 3 in Friends

sometimes they might think that iam "easy". i wear decent clothes... never had a boyfriend :P how can i stop guys from getting that impression that i might be easy? shall be mean or somethng?

2007-02-28 08:10:59 · 4 answers · asked by ღ 4 in Singles & Dating

okay, so I work at a clothing store...about to start..and so I'm trying to meet new ppl...so what if i say this at first to a coworker (as a joke lol break the ice instead of being too practical)..."hey im ____...i just started here...its my first day...smiling..and shell greet and then i'll say "u know im the manager here" actually i just a___ ..ahha just to joke around or i can say something like hey why dont i say something like " i heard ur really good at putting stuff away..so why dont u put this away.." haha idk does any of these lines sound lame?

2007-02-28 08:10:56 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm writing a novel and I've got stuck. The male protagonist has just realised that he's in love with this woman who is about to be married to someone else. He visits her room and the two of them share a "moment", so realistically speaking, would they go further and what exactly would be going through this guy's mind. I'm female so it's hard to think like a guy.

2007-02-28 08:10:48 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok my mom and dad really dont want me to have a boyfriend right now but do.I would like him to be frienly to him and very close and now him really well can someone just help me !

2007-02-28 08:10:40 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I asked my dad for some help because I've been struggling for funds and he told me he can't because things are tight for him as well. He advised me to ask my mom to help because he is still paying child suport for me.

I haven't lived my mom since I was 15. So, my mom has been getting child support for me for 7 years without me being there and when I asked for help she said no flat out. (we get along...honor thy mother..but don't have a relationship).

My dad said that by law, I can take her to court because I can prove that I've been living on my own and that she was not entitled to that money, but I wanted to see how valid that is.

FYI...I am only considering this because I am struggling and not at all out of spite. I do love my mom.

2007-02-28 08:09:49 · 11 answers · asked by Cita 2 in Other - Family & Relationships