Okay, so me and my friend lets say shes "Jen", well me and Jen have been friends for like 6 years and now shes being all weird. She always ignores me now and I used to be 1 on her top 8 and now I'm 5, I know it sounds stupid but it hurts. Anyway, everytime I go to say hi and we have eye contact she just walks away. Me and her have a mutual friend "Sasha", and her and Sasha have been hanging out like everyday, and they always leave me out. Me and Sasha have been friends since pre-school, and now shes acting very different. And at some point me and her thought Jen was acting very different and snobby, and now Sasha is acting this way. They both have totally changed. Maybe I have too, but I'm not as snobby and fake/popular as them. I have no idea what to do can someone please help, I would really like to be best friends with them like we used to be. We used to be the three muskateers. And I'm afraid if I stop being friends with Jen, Sasha will completely disown me. Sasha is a good person!
2007-02-28 08:15:37 · 7 answers · asked by Izzy™ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I TOTALLY understand where you're coming from! (That was basically my life last year.) I know that what I'm about to say seems like a really passive way to deal with it, but if I could go back in time and re-live last year, this is how I would do it:
1.) Just be nice. Not all sugary-sweet and all, but just an all-around friendly person.
2.) Don't gossip, especially about Jen and Sasha. Things have a way of getting around.
3.) Keep a journal. I don't suggest an online blog - Jen and Sasha can easily find it; I know that my own personal "Jen" found mine. Journals can help you straighten out your feelings and thoughts.
Hope this helps!
2007-02-28 08:22:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are acting like this, then how do you get that "Sasha" is really a good person and friend. GOOD friends don't just act like that, but either way you should talk to them both and find out what is wrong. If it is hurting you then say something, even if they tell you that they don't want to be friends anymore, closure really is important.
2007-02-28 08:24:50 · answer #2 · answered by yep-it-is-me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are talking about you behind your back. They think they're better than you. People like this are not worth being friends with. Ignore them and hang around with other people, and if they truly want to be friends, they'll come to you, if not, they're not worth it.
I don't think you should talk to them like everyone else does. Like I said ignore them, and see if they talk to you first, because that's what a true friend does. I'm sure you've tried talking to them already, so now it's time to let them go, and if they're true friends, then they'll let you know (wow I rhymed lol).
2007-02-28 08:26:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication is the key to any relationship.
Talk to them and let them know how you feel. If they care about you they will work on helping you to feel included. But talk to them and your question should be answered.
2007-02-28 08:25:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask sasha what going on
2007-02-28 08:21:21 · answer #5 · answered by andrea t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell them that you fell that way and this isn't a bad place to ask i do it all the time and if they are your friends really they will understand....trust me i know wat i'm talking about because my friend is the same way as this jen girl "alli" just avoided me untill i grabed her arm and turned her around and asked "wat was it that i did to make you run away from me all the time" and now we are tighter that ever
2007-02-28 08:23:23 · answer #6 · answered by delta3835 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry, what is your question?
2007-02-28 08:20:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋