she wierdly and randomly sucks up to me she says like your so pretty & she even admitted to me when i was in 7th grade she was jelouse of me but now that were in high school she seems like she treis to make me jelouse.like i like this kid and SHE KNOWS i like him & wanted his number just cause i like him its pretty obviouse even tho she doesnt admit it.she always pretends to call him,like today she told me im calling jeremy (the guy i like) & i was like ok..,so my ride came to pick me up and when i walked away she was shouting jermyyy jermyy.she hangs out with my ex boyfriends & flirts with them.ALSO if i like something & im good at it she loves the thought of it & when she tries it she sucks at it & shes like well this is better than that.for example, i skimboard i love riding the waves & when she tried it she couldnt do it & fired back atme saying oh well i like surfing better,so i got mad because it seemed like she was trieng to getme jelouse.WHY DOES SHE DO THIS? HOW CAN I STOP IT?
2007-02-28 08:12:05 · 11 answers · asked by emeralcoastsurfgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
it sounds like she is really jelous of you try to talk to her and ask her why she is doing this to you.
2007-02-28 08:16:04 · answer #1 · answered by lucas m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 20:47:12 · answer #2 · answered by mordehay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically this girl is still jealous of you. She wants to be you. She can't handle you getting what you want, so tries to take everything off you. You should try to act cool and calm about everything. If she goes out with a boy you like, act like "yeaaa I don't like him anymore. He's not my type" and act like you're into someone else. If she tries to go for that guy instead, make her feel like an idiot, basically expose her in front of people somehow.
Just always act calm and cool about everything. Don't get angry and most of all don't make it seem as if she's making you jealous - that's what she wants.
She's basically like a child - they look for attention by being naughty, but she's looking for attention by trying to make you jealous, and by showing that it's affecting you, she thinks you are getting jealous and it pleases her.
2007-02-28 08:20:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend just like that in high school. What I did was told my friend that she was constantly attempting to make me jealous and flat out I was sick of it. That we're friends and on the same team so there’s no reason to compete. Of course she realized I caught on to her and we're not friends anymore.
But it's really not healthy to have a friendship like that, that girl is not really your friend...BELIEVE ME. Sometimes, girls keep the girls their jealous of or they hate close to them so they can control their every move or even know what their up to and out due them. Just tell her how you see the situation and then let things fall in their place. Good luck!
2007-02-28 08:31:21 · answer #4 · answered by MichiganRocks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend like that. Our friendship give me the feeling of its a compition, which a friendship shouldnt be. I have stopped talking to her many times, then she gives this sob story and we start to hang out agian then she does the same crap all over again. My guess is .. either put up with it, or leave. Good luck.
2007-02-28 08:19:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's not your friend you know maybe she just trying to get back at you or maybe she is jealous of you and wants you to be jealous of her
tell her to leave you alone
2007-02-28 08:16:35 · answer #6 · answered by Cristy77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new friend.
SHE IS JEALOUS, so you can't stop her from TRYING TO MAKE YOU JEALOUS.
It must be working if your getting mad. Just let it go and know your better.
2007-02-28 08:15:57 · answer #7 · answered by blondieinlove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably hotter than her and she is jealous. Why not find a new best friend?
2007-02-28 08:15:53 · answer #8 · answered by Jennifer 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she does this cause she don't like the way she is and wishes to be you!
2007-02-28 08:21:42 · answer #9 · answered by Saber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's a female...get used to it!
2007-02-28 08:22:08 · answer #10 · answered by Bryan's Wife 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋