I really don't like the guy. i was drunk and it was just a stupid thing for me to have done. but now i don't know how to talk to my bf about it.
2007-02-28 08:18:12 · 7 answers · asked by LaLa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow!!! Its amazing you still even HAVE A BOYFRIEND!!! But hey, you are the one who F**ked UP. Obviously your bf trusted you to go out and have some drinks, and obviously, you don't know how to do that responsibly! You can try mending his heart and tell him a crap load of stuff but the truth is, CAN YOU BE TRUSTED AGAIN??? He is going to automatically assume that every time you step out for drinks you will end up losing control and doing stupid sh**t like what you did... Hey I'm just being honest.... Question is HOW WOULD YOU FEEL IF HE DID IT TO U!!!
2007-02-28 08:29:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello well it is not going to be easy at all. Just be honest and tell him first before he hears it down the line from someone else.that will show him respect and honor by you.And he will respect you for this.And he is going to be a little upset.Being hurt by the truth is better than hearing a lie.You may lose him over it but if he loves you he will give you a chance. But you will haft to earn his trust back and that is not easy. OH and do not party with out him ok and do not drink when he is not there with you. Again the trust think ok.you have alot of self respect and pride.And you are a very big person to tell him.I admirer this ok.He will respect that ok.RAY
2007-02-28 16:25:44 · answer #2 · answered by ????????????????????? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The truth. Just say:
"I am really really sorry, i know sorry is a very cliche thing to say right now. But it's true. I was drunk, and I would have never done it if I was sober. I like you and care about you too much to ever do anything with another guy. Please believe me, and please forgive me. I am really sorry, and I hope we can forget about this ever happening, because I promise it will never happen again."
I hope that helps, and that everything works out for you adn your boyfriend.
2007-02-28 16:24:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you're sorry, and try to explain the situation calmly and rationally. Don't get all emotional, you'll only push him away. Let him know that you love him and not that other guy. and promise him that you won't do something like that again. Good Luck
2007-02-28 16:25:09 · answer #4 · answered by sugar & spice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say you're sorry and mean it. If you can't mean it, meaning you are likely to do the same "stupid thing" again, you don't deserve a boyfriend.
2007-02-28 16:30:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
SAY SORRY BABY I KISSED ANOTHER GUY I DIDNT MEAN TO BE A TRIFILING HO!!!!!!
2007-02-28 16:26:48 · answer #6 · answered by MADNESS!!!! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell him what you just wrote...tell him your sorry...and talk to him about it
2007-02-28 16:22:08 · answer #7 · answered by Hannah.Elise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋