So the other night i was talking to this guy i kinda had a crush on and we kinda just met. He told me that he guarentee anything will happen between us, he just wants to hang out.
So i said to him maybe i should just move on
nowwww he's kinda like flirting, like last night i was like "my neacklace just broke" and he said "if i was there i'd give you a kiss to make you feel better" and things like that
what does all of this mean?
2007-02-28 08:17:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he's a total flirt. if you just wanna hang out with him, it's fine. but guys like this won't give you a satisfying relationship. maybe five years from now he'd make a good bf, but in the meantime i'd say find somebody else.
2007-02-28 08:22:07 · answer #1 · answered by purple 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it sounds like he is a player. What he is probably saying is that he would like to have sex with you, but that it would not mean anything.
What is wrong with you telling him what you are looking for in a relationship? but first you need to determine what you are looking for. Is it strictly sex? Or are you looking for a relationship. If he just wants to play around and so do you, go for it. But it sounds to me like you want a relationship and I don't think that is what he is telling you,. He says he just wants to hang out.
Don't kid yourself into thinking you can change his mind and that if you give him sex he will decide to have a relationship with you. He won't. You deserve better. Move on, don't spend time talking on the phone, you are living in an illusion, wanting something that will not happen. It is hard to have a crush on someone who does not reciprocate the affection, but there are plenty of more fish in the sea. Respect yourself, you deserve the best, do not settle for less.
2007-02-28 16:26:39 · answer #2 · answered by romeoshannon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you told you that nothing will happen between the 2 of you then I would take his word for it. Don't think you can change him. And that comment he made about kissing you...I would just ignore that comment and move on
2007-02-28 16:23:00 · answer #3 · answered by The girl next door 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to keep things casual and keep his options open. It's a matter of what you want. If he just wants to hang out instead of dating you, I think I'd find someone else to date and hold him to his word.
2007-02-28 16:25:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means nothing. It's just his atempt at being 'cool'. If you like him go for it. If there are things about him you don't like, move on.
2007-02-28 16:26:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants to be with u to only get in ur pants and then leave u after he is done with u. so i sya stay away from him and move on with another guy.
2007-02-28 16:22:01 · answer #6 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hate to say it...but if he liked you he would ask you out. when you hang out with him, do not let him have sex with you. when the night is over and he tells you he likes you and you have not had sex with him then i guess it could be safe to say he likes you. guys, will say anything or do anything to have sex with you.
2007-02-28 16:25:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe after hanging out with you he changed his mind... if i were you i'd just ask straight up about it, if you like him back of course.
good lucky =]
2007-02-28 16:23:01 · answer #8 · answered by brittaboo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Na, he's not a player. He just crushes a lot.
2007-02-28 16:33:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants the bang, but not the love.
2007-02-28 16:21:02 · answer #10 · answered by blondieinlove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋