Family & Relationships - 23 February 2007

My girlfriend has never really had a boyfriend before me. In her last year of college, she was obsessed with a guy named Frank. Frank led her on and then turned her down on the last day of school. This guy is always on her mind as a mental obsession. All of her friends were in on trying to hook the two people up, but it still failed.

Today, I messaged the guy on instant messenger. I pretended I was a SPAM bot and apparently he thought I was someone else. He then messaged me from a different screen name and we talked (with me, not knowing who he thinks I am, guessing wildly at what the other guy thinks I would be answering). Long story short, it turns out that her obsession is a homosexual. He is really nerdy and has been "being mean" to girls as a sort of revenge of the nerds in person.

Question is, should I tell her all of this?

2007-02-23 06:00:47 · 14 answers · asked by fdsafd s 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi I'm a kid and am going to the mall this weekend, does any one have any advice for meeting girls, I know what to talk about and all that stuff I just can't think of a way to start talking to a girl. So if you have any advice on this please post it or, mail it to me. Also if there is a serten way to do something please, please, please tell me. Best answer gets all the points I can give.

2007-02-23 06:00:27 · 8 answers · asked by Sensei Boulder 3 in Singles & Dating

Is this a bad sign? Only a few guys have liked me as far as I'm concerned, and I have liked a fair share of guys. Although I have had many infatuations, I can never imagine getting close to anyone.

I have never been in love, is there something wrong with me?

Comments/Answers welcomed.

2007-02-23 06:00:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my girlfriends best friend is a boy. he dusnt seem 2 get the idea that we wonna be alone sum times yet he still buggs us. stuff like constantly telling us 2 kiss :S Because he is my girlfriends best m8 if i do somthing 2 him my girlfriend will b mad n might dump me.. aint a risk i wna take altho i wna stop him.

2007-02-23 05:59:48 · 13 answers · asked by Jizzy M 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so I pretty much am already over budget with my flowers for everything else so I decided I need table centerpieces without many flowers. Keep in mind, I have kind of a tropical/beacy theme going on. So I found this pic online that I liked but I want to tweek a little: http://www.japaneseweddingfavors.com/images/centerpiece_lily.jpg

I want to make the little wooden boxes myself and put a pink candle in the middle. I wanted to fill the box with sand and maybe stick seashells around it? What do you guys think? Any other suggestion on what to put in the box that would fit my theme? Or do you think the box is stupid? lol.. Let me know, I am open to all suggestions...

2007-02-23 05:59:31 · 27 answers · asked by Beffy 2 in Weddings

2007-02-23 05:58:21 · 28 answers · asked by Joey 4 in Family

I just read an article that says that blue-eyed men usually pick blue-eyed women. My husband and I both have blue eyes. How about you?

2007-02-23 05:58:14 · 20 answers · asked by Wendy B 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my boyfriend are going through changes with our relationship. He act like he wanna give up on us. He do little things like we can be on the phone , and he'll say let me call you right back, and never call back. So is he tryin to give me a sign?

2007-02-23 05:57:19 · 12 answers · asked by Brownie 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-23 05:57:19 · 16 answers · asked by hooman_civic 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a grad student about to finish. I am marreid from last 3 years. I met this guy is school, we became friends and everything was fine. I was being helpful to him and I am helpful to all my friends!! And now this guy seems to have some feelings towards me...he said he loved me!!!
I was shattered and dissappointed because all along i thought i had found another good friend! And how could he say something like that despite knowing i am married!! What should i tell him....now i feel so uncomfortable even talking to him!!! Gosh guys always spoil a good friendship.

P.S: I never flirtied with him. I have all along treated him like a good friend and thats it!!!

2007-02-23 05:56:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How do you stop from gettting into the friends zone with women? I mean im 21 years old,im a decent looking guy,nothin special but you get me,im a gud person,and im supposedly really funny ok,now thats not me talkin thats how ppl talk about me and im flattered by it to be honest but i seem to struggle with women,i mean i have alot of girl-friends but not enough girlfriends you get me..id like to know were im going wrong as ppl tell me im so great but yet cant get a decent woman and i know guys who are complete a$$ holes to women and they get them throwing themselves at them,doesnt make sense..i mean i just want a decent woman so i can treat her good and be the man she wants now i dont think myself thats to much to ask for in life is it? i need help anyway plz! thanks..your answers on my last question were brilliant and i thank you very much guys and girls!

2007-02-23 05:56:43 · 5 answers · asked by John A 1 in Singles & Dating

you know that small box that some people have to search things. I wanna delete the history

2007-02-23 05:56:14 · 6 answers · asked by [quarantine] 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm a 20 year old guy who wants to lose his virginity, problem is, I need a willing partner.

Any ideas where I can find help?

Please, don't recommend a prostitute. I want to lose it with dignity.

Cheers.

2007-02-23 05:55:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband told me that he was going hunting and didn't return until 6:30 in the MORNING. Well last night I foind out that he lied to me and went out to the bar. He acts stupid when he drinks so I have told him that I don't like him going to the bar without me. i know that sounds mean but if you knew him and knew that we had a 3 month old I might not sound like such a bit*h. Anyways he's lied to me about small things before and I just can't stand it. i have never lied to him. Is this something that i should be concerned about? I know he didn't cheat or anything but I think that trust is a big issue. And now I feel like I can't trust him. Is that how I should feel? Any advice?

2007-02-23 05:54:56 · 26 answers · asked by Regina D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I mean, come on, tell him something! Tell him he's annoying, ugly, or whatever it is that's keeping you from liking him! I really loved this girl once and she would say she didn't like me like that when I would ask her out (we were friends). She never ever could tell me a reason for not liking me or tell me anything she didn't like about me even after she got angry with me and would never talk to me anymore (so far it's been ten months).

I gave her a card a week ago(Valentines Day) letting her know I miss her and I would like to be friends again at least, and I have decided to try and let her go since she hasn't said anything to me yet. The only thing I don't get is why all her friends like me but she still doesn't like me anymore. I feel like I never even got a fair chance to, you know, prove myself worthy of her. Anyway, I've met someone else now and so far we get along great. But I still have feelings for this girl even though we're not talking.

2007-02-23 05:54:34 · 23 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-23 05:54:08 · 16 answers · asked by Joey 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-23 05:53:44 · 16 answers · asked by loopy lou 1 in Family

When I was in my teens and 20's most women wouldn't even glimpse at me. Now that I'm in my 30's, women 18 to 80 practically rape me with their eyes. I can't even go into a Starbucks without at least 4 women checking me out. Just the other day a woman sitting with her 2 kids asked me out.... What's going on??!! Don't get me wrong, I'm not complaining, I'm just curious.

Are women more hard-up these days?

Why are there so many single and desperate women around?

2007-02-23 05:53:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I remember when my boyfriend and I met, we used to be all over each other, we could not wait to meet each other, he used to tell me so many beautiful things.. we have been together 3 years and I feel that we are no longer this way. Is it normal? I wish we had some of this back? I wish my boyfirend would be like he used to be? I worry that he loves me less or he is interested in me less?

2007-02-23 05:53:17 · 9 answers · asked by Elisa N 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-23 05:52:59 · 24 answers · asked by Ashish 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you in a way dread having sex with your spouse because theyre lousy in bed?
I dont, my husband is phenomenal, just being nosey.

2007-02-23 05:52:46 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-23 05:52:39 · 7 answers · asked by Joey 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Well, a friend of mine (Carl) was annoying to me to no end, and he was using my laptop with asking and then he got upset at me because I got upset at him and he kept asking me why I was upset when he knew the answer. He kept on bugging me and was getting on my nerves and he finally got the bad side of me. So, when he got up and left to go check his mail, I decided to take his phone and to hide it in my purse. When he came back, he didn't even realize it was gone and he started leaving to go to work, when he got out the door, he came back in and asked if anyone had seen his phone. Of course, my friends (Sean and Laura) told him that they didn't have it and of course i was the only one left at the table. So, he left again. While he was gone, I took his phone and put back on the table. When he came back, he threatened to do something to the person that took his phone. So, I pointed to his phone and asked if it was his. He said yes and that it wasn't there before. Is that right to do?

2007-02-23 05:52:33 · 17 answers · asked by princesstocrown 2 in Friends

ok so i called my boyfriend yesterday and he was in his car and he was laughing with a girl and he was at work he is r rent a cop and he has lied and cheated on me in the past so i got up set and i told him he should have asked me if i cared if he drove with another girl he didnt tho so i broke up with him and to make me feel better i called his lady boss and told her that she doesnt know what is going on between me and him and she should have driven herself and that next time she BETTER what do u guys think???????

2007-02-23 05:52:20 · 8 answers · asked by evwetherell07 2 in Friends

Im sick of staying home all the time i want to go out more an have fun an make memories with my boyfriend.he dosent take me anywhere so i go w/ other friends an he gets jelous. how can i get him to under stand an take me out....

2007-02-23 05:52:07 · 23 answers · asked by rebel girl 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I are separating for reasons that you can see if you read my last few questions. He's a wonderful man and a good father and I truely want what's best for him and myself but physically we just don't work. He's gotten me an Appartment and we will have joint custody of our children. I know this is the only way but why do I feel so selfish? Aren't we both entitled to happiness?

2007-02-23 05:52:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-23 05:51:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok I just met this guy a week ago and he asked me to sleep over tonight and he knows that I have a daughter and that I can ask my sister to watch her. I want to know what to tell my mom. I mean I told my sister and she said to go but she dont know what mom would say. Hes been nothing but sweet. Can someone tell me what to do? What to tell mom? I need answers please. Make an excuse. Oh and were in Hawaii.
Mahalo!

2007-02-23 05:51:29 · 12 answers · asked by kuhilanigurl 2 in Singles & Dating

OK me man lefted me 4 days ago his mom says he needs time off hell be back home sunday. ok but my guy friends are saying hes poberly going out with other girls but i dont see him doing that to me and now im so confused i dont know what ill do if he does go out with other girls i know he loves me i just hope he comes back home. My questionis u as a guy would u go out with other girls and waste a 3yr relationship??

2007-02-23 05:51:25 · 4 answers · asked by jdn85 2 in Singles & Dating

Just to make sure you're really in love with your girlfriend, is it ok to try other women... Not for fun of course, but just to see how strong your feelings are for your own girlfriend?!

2007-02-23 05:50:36 · 31 answers · asked by Rona9 2 in Singles & Dating