ok so i called my boyfriend yesterday and he was in his car and he was laughing with a girl and he was at work he is r rent a cop and he has lied and cheated on me in the past so i got up set and i told him he should have asked me if i cared if he drove with another girl he didnt tho so i broke up with him and to make me feel better i called his lady boss and told her that she doesnt know what is going on between me and him and she should have driven herself and that next time she BETTER what do u guys think???????
2007-02-23 05:52:20 · 8 answers · asked by evwetherell07 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
its ok youre alright... go out on the town and have fun tonight
2007-02-23 06:13:59 · answer #1 · answered by smilingontime 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why did you not break up with this guy before and spared yourself the heartache, if the lady in the car with him is his boss and she needed a ride then he could have asked you if he could borrow the car to take his boss or whoever she is, If he is lying to you and still cheating on you then you need to leave him because it seems right now that he will never change and if he does it is going to take some time and thinking on his part. You don't need this drama and you deserve better so you need to do what makes you happy and what you will be comfortable with.
2007-02-23 14:17:53 · answer #2 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I applaud you for breaking up with him, but as far as telling his boss some irrelevant information, you've overstepped your boundaries. You have every right to be angry, but don't take your anger out on that girl. She is his co-worker and more than likely, she probably didn't know that he had a girlfriend. Once a cheater, always a cheater so continue to love yourself and meet new people. Don't get back together with him because he lost your trust when he chose to cheat on you. You deserve so much better for yourself. You will find somebody worthy of you someday. Just hang in there. I hope my advice heals your wounds. Good luck!!
2007-02-23 14:35:56 · answer #3 · answered by Lady S 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You did a good thing by breaking up with him, but maybe the calling the boss was a bit much. We all make mistakes no big deal, it is overwith now. Just move on and forget about him, he is not really interested in having a stay put relationship and you deserve better.
2007-02-23 18:26:41 · answer #4 · answered by trhwsh 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok, so u hav a rite 2 b suspicious if hes cheated on u in da past, but is it rly fair to take it out on the other girl? she mite just b a friend or mayb she didnt no he had a girl friend, and mayb it wasnt a good idea to say that 2 da boss either! however i also think that u obviously hav trouble trusting him and so u were rite 2 dump him if u have issues. get out and find a guy who respects u more! gd luck
2007-02-23 14:12:53 · answer #5 · answered by minxi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you broke up with him, which is good! But, you should have left it at that. I think you overstepped your bounds by calling his boss, though...you probably only sounded like a nutcase to her. And as far as "next time she better," you're broken up, so why bother saying that? You deserve better, so just stay broken up !
2007-02-23 13:58:33 · answer #6 · answered by karen p 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
That's great you broke up with him. Yet is was wrong for you to tell his boss that because it wasn't her fault it was his. I think you shouldn't go back with him after this because "once a cheater always a cheater".
2007-02-23 14:07:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You've got serious trust and loyalty issues.
He was laughing with a COWORKER.
You had no right to call his boss up like that.
2007-02-23 14:07:08 · answer #8 · answered by Terri 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋