Ok I just met this guy a week ago and he asked me to sleep over tonight and he knows that I have a daughter and that I can ask my sister to watch her. I want to know what to tell my mom. I mean I told my sister and she said to go but she dont know what mom would say. Hes been nothing but sweet. Can someone tell me what to do? What to tell mom? I need answers please. Make an excuse. Oh and were in Hawaii.
Mahalo!
2007-02-23 05:51:29 · 12 answers · asked by kuhilanigurl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'll be 21 next month
2007-02-23 05:57:54 · update #1
go ahead stay overnight.
2007-02-23 05:54:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're a lady no matter where you're from. Remember you have a child now and that should be your first priority. You should have some fun (be spesific) now and again, but no sleep overs. Think about it first, it's not going to work out. It's not worth lying about and Is it worth the risk a night without your daughter. I cant ever find an excuse away from my little one, no matter how tempting. If you're going, just say you wont be able to sleep over, you will miss your child too much. If he refuses to understand, then insist on staying at home.
2007-02-23 14:02:41 · answer #2 · answered by Spicemom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ummmmmm You met a guy a week ago and he's asking you to spend the night?? Do you honestly even KNOW this man?? You're putting yourself at risk and your child if he doesn't turn out to be the person you thought he was., he can get your address etc from your wallet..I think to meet him again, quite a few more times...go for dinner and a dance club, or movie theatre...but I don't think you should be spending the night at his place* I feel You Know it's NOT the right thing to do* You never know what could happen* You're 21 with a Child* You NEED to Be More Responsible~
IF you choose to go......I would definately be Honest with your mom....do you have a phone number you can be reached at? and the address of his place* If something happens to you..and you can't get to your cell...NO ONE will KNOW where you are! AGAIN>>I advise you NOT to be spending the night with someone you've met once*~! (it also shows HIM you're "easy")
If he's for real...he will RESPECT your wishes and will meet up with you for dinner and a fun night out..then back home you go to your child and family*.....perhaps after a few times out..and him then meeting your family....maybe you can spend the night but for now..........NOT A GOOD IDEA* Think of Your Daughter*
GOODLUCK* Aloha
2007-02-23 14:02:01 · answer #3 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm. It's hard to guess your age and that might be pertinent. Do you have to make an excuse to your mom if you are an adult??? Do you have to tell her anything? Do you really want this this soon? I hate it when people deceive others, but if you have to do it, then make it something as close to the truth as possible. I guess you could say you were helping a friend with something that would be best if your daughter weren't there.
2007-02-23 13:57:28 · answer #4 · answered by Lisa A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so, you want to find an acceptable lie to tell your mom? Are you a teenager? This is so pathetic. You need to grow a backbone. Either be honest with your mom or don't go. 'Sweet' gets sour quickly when you get pregnant without thinking.
2007-02-23 13:56:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
...I generally don't care what my mother thinks about my having a woman sleep over...that's my business...not hers! How old are you anyways? Sounds like you want your mothers stamp of approval on this sleeping over at this guys house idea. Yikes honey!!! Sister...you have one daughter already...you want another one? Who are we to tell you who to sleep with honey. If you need to ask permission to do this,...you probably shouldn't be doing it. Hmmmm...!!!
2007-02-23 14:01:18 · answer #6 · answered by scott s 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1st. u might like this man but you have to put your daughter and your mother before him, your sister said she cant watch her and your afraid of wat your mother might think correct? so you have to ask yourself is one night of passion worth enough to have to deal with a few dozen awkward moments with your mother,
2nd. what do you tell your daughter when she ask were your going, are u going to lie to her?
3rd. are you sure u want to have sex a person u just met last week, ask your self these questions and you will know what to do
GoodLuck^^
2007-02-23 14:00:44 · answer #7 · answered by dizzyman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old r u ? and why do you want to tell your mom about your sleep over ?
2007-02-23 13:55:39 · answer #8 · answered by Sumitha 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell your mom your going surfing and then your going to get something to eat then say you wont be back till 3:00AM come back at like 5:00AM and your set
2007-02-23 13:57:03 · answer #9 · answered by brian l 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
since you have a kid... your mom is no stranger to the fact that her daughter gets laid now and then!
2007-02-23 13:56:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey listen all you gotta do is tell her is sweet and your going to get to know him more and go girl go!!!!!!!
2007-02-23 13:56:03 · answer #11 · answered by cherry*lynne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋