Family & Relationships - 23 February 2007

I love her and I am sure she loves me. I failed to live up to her and she faced hell caught between me and her parents. She had been in email contact with her classmate for one year and I found her passionate loveletter to him. I was shocked as I always felt her love for me all the time even though I was giving her hell. She asked me today why she has to suffer because of us? I have no clue. I want to start it afresh and I love her more than I ever did. She is more hurt than me as she never thought of doing something like this at any time of her life. I am not jealous of her classmate as I always consider him a joker. It is me that fell from the admired and loved and married to the tolerable and then to the terrible. My sins bother me more than what she did and she more sad than me for having hurt me! Please advise as we love each other and don't want 14 years of her love and 5 years of my abuse need to be reoriented as we will never ever give pain to our kids at any cost?

2007-02-23 06:28:26 · 8 answers · asked by havah 2 in Marriage & Divorce

if u were in an unhappy marriage or relationship and cause of your spouse fix income causes u to qualify for all kinds of grants would u continue going to college even if it meant you arent happy with the relationhip?

2007-02-23 06:28:23 · 8 answers · asked by princess_gurl903 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-23 06:28:11 · 5 answers · asked by chespir 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm completely atracted to my History teacher.Is not like I'm in love with him, but I keep having dreams and fantasies about him all the time!I In class, he looks at me more than at the other girls, and when me my friends are at the school cafeteria or library, or anywhere outside the classroom, and he sees any of my male friends touching my hair, or hugging me, he keeps looking with a ...I don't know...a weird look on his face. also, I'm the only girl in class that he don't use to chat...like friends, even when he's talking with the girl beside be, he only looks at me with the corner of his eye, almost like if he didn't want me to notice. A friend of mine told me that he already kissed a few girls from the senior year, and when the school takes the students in a field trip, he gets a little more "close" to the girls. This is the first year that I'm having classes with him.Should I show him(discreetly) that I'm interest, or leave it the way it is?

ps: I'm 15, a junior.

2007-02-23 06:27:40 · 34 answers · asked by br15 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-23 06:26:27 · 19 answers · asked by Keila Baby 2 in Singles & Dating

It was soooo much fun, but idk how to approach it again

2007-02-23 06:26:07 · 34 answers · asked by Nooka 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-23 06:24:56 · 42 answers · asked by Keila Baby 2 in Singles & Dating

I dated this boy for two years and we broke up over several different reasons. We later gave it a try and it didnt work out we've both seemed to change we try and try to make it work but theres always a problem. So i decided to call if off he took it hard and did everything i knew he was going to do. He tells me the same thing over and over agin, i know him like a book. I knew everything he was gonna say before he even told me, he says that i dont love him and that i doubt all the possibilities but there are none to me. If nothing is changes why should i contiune to go down the same path, im done with him. AM I WRONG?

2007-02-23 06:24:31 · 11 answers · asked by Micka 2 in Singles & Dating

let me know you think !

2007-02-23 06:24:29 · 29 answers · asked by maddie xx 4 in Singles & Dating

Yea I know i'm young and I have my whole life ahead of me. Im just looking for more. Im tired of the young immature boys in school that dont care about their future. I want to be with someone who has a future ahead of them. Right now I'm pretty busy with work and school so it's hard for me to do alot. I love to travel and am willing to go the distance. I just need to find someone to do the same. If there is anyone out there who feels the same (guys) please feel free to email me at plastksweetie07@yahoo.com I would love to talk and get to know you. Im 18 and from Virginia. Is this too much to ask for?

2007-02-23 06:23:53 · 5 answers · asked by plastksweetie07 1 in Singles & Dating

And I might be to fast but who knows I too might get it right on Reason as always this is the older generation and not young love.

2007-02-23 06:22:59 · 1 answers · asked by David H 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-23 06:22:28 · 12 answers · asked by Margaret W 1 in Weddings

My boyfriend is in the process of a divorce. He was married 6 years and has 2 kids with her. She had an affair and admitted to it. Right now they have shared custody of the kids with him having primary care. She signed the seperation papers stating he would have primary care but now has changed her mind and won't sign the divorce papers because of that. He wanted try to settle out of court but she refused to meet with him and discuss it. How likely is it they will rule that they have shared custody rather then my bf having primary if she already signed the seperation papers?

2007-02-23 06:22:16 · 10 answers · asked by Vanessa 2 in Marriage & Divorce

but once we got together she said no more
sex and that I had pressured her into it.
How can I resolve this??

2007-02-23 06:21:27 · 32 answers · asked by John 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is standing up in his sisters wedding. There aren't any cousins that are around my age, and I don't know any of her friends. Her and I are the same age, and we talk to each other when we see each other, but it's kind of formal and more like acquaintances than any kind of actual friendship. Where might I expect to be sitting at during the ceremony and the reception?

2007-02-23 06:20:57 · 10 answers · asked by Nicole N 2 in Weddings

There is this guy at work very cute, nice and a gentlemen. I work at a clinic and every once in a while he works here to, he is a cop. He opens the door for the patients and helps them if they need help. Lately he has been talking to me more. He told me i looked for cute today. One of my coworkers told him i had a crush on him. What do yall think?

2007-02-23 06:20:31 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-23 06:20:04 · 3 answers · asked by marie w 1 in Weddings

wher do you meet gay guys

2007-02-23 06:19:52 · 4 answers · asked by James N 1 in Singles & Dating

my bf is allectric to them...so im on birth control...do u think ima get std's?

2007-02-23 06:18:20 · 18 answers · asked by ~*~la chula~*~ 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-23 06:18:05 · 20 answers · asked by bpgveg14 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

This guy that me and my friend both like choose me over her and now she is being so rude and saying things about me. So I hpoe one of yall can help.

2007-02-23 06:17:50 · 8 answers · asked by cherry 1 in Singles & Dating

i had girl friend she died due to cancer five years ago , now i am only no friends around i always wanted a gurlfriend again but now just searching for a friend . friend who is always with me

2007-02-23 06:17:30 · 4 answers · asked by silentears 1 in Friends

A Florida man could not stand to see his wife of 50 years suffer from a terminally ill Cancer that had her on Morphine daily and the pain unbearable. She finally told her estranged husband to shoot her so she could have peace so he did. He got 20 years for it.

2007-02-23 06:17:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Research shows that men are more turned on than women to have sex with a virgin but why?

2007-02-23 06:17:06 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-23 06:16:44 · 2 answers · asked by David g 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-23 06:16:40 · 14 answers · asked by Adara 3 in Marriage & Divorce

In Pride and Prejudice, etc. two people who are hostile to each other are masking some kind of secret love. Does this happen in real life? My male friend and I are recently acquainted and clearly mutually attracted, but we have never really discussed this due to both of us having kind of messy personal situations. We make strange excuses to see each other, pretending there's some thing he/I need help with etc. We have recently begun bickering, and not about trivial things. It's more like a direct attack on each other's character. No really hurtful words are used, just "You seem to think everyone has something wrong with them," or "You're rude," things like that. We also seem to express irritation with each other frequently. I know this is not really media-worthy but it's weird because I don't usually hang out with people who insult me, and whom I insult, so early in the acquaintanceship. Is this normal repressed love-behaviour or just normal hostility

2007-02-23 06:16:38 · 2 answers · asked by beatrice 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-23 06:16:17 · 8 answers · asked by bpgveg14 5 in Marriage & Divorce

allowed to look at topless women,without being a perv??

2007-02-23 06:16:11 · 12 answers · asked by a.c 3 in Singles & Dating

I am a grad student about to finish. I am marreid from last 3 years. I met this guy is school, we became friends and everything was fine. I was being helpful to him and I am helpful to all my friends!! And now this guy seems to have some feelings towards me...he said he loved me!!! And it was an "i love you" in a romantic way. he was really serious when he said that!!

I was shattered and dissappointed because all along i thought i had found another good friend! And how could he say something like that despite knowing i am married!! What should i tell him....now i feel so uncomfortable even talking to him!!! Gosh guys always spoil a good friendship.

P.S: I never flirtied with him. I have all along treated him like a good friend and thats it!!!

2007-02-23 06:15:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating