Family & Relationships - 23 February 2007

or are they such a coward to even try? are they too insecure to even believe that someone has fallen in-love with them that all they do is hurt the person who is so unfortunate enough to fall for them?

is it advisable to fall for a nerd?

i'm just asking, nothing personal.

2007-02-23 06:49:32 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

guys, i have long blonde hair, blue eys, pale skin and quite thin. would u find me attractive?

2007-02-23 06:48:50 · 9 answers · asked by minxi 2 in Singles & Dating

im totally over it, its been a couple months, but he is not and i think whatever i do will give him the wrong idea....but if i do nothing i think thats mean... what should i do people?

2007-02-23 06:48:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know people say not to mix business and pleasure, we could still be totally professional. Couldn't something good possibly come out of this instead of the negative things ppl are sayin'?

2007-02-23 06:48:16 · 8 answers · asked by fudgemommie 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi I have some questions I hope someone can help with I been with my boyfriend for a year now a few months ago he admitted he lived with another woman for 10 months but before he lied and said he didn;t that was the frist of many lies about this woman.
Everyone kept saying she said he hurt her so questions went through my mind how abuse or what so I finally find her email address and ask her how he hurt her she answered she said she gave up her home and family and came to live with him on a promise he was in love with her they met on a dating site he still was married but separted getting a divorce he didnt tell her that till she moved in .
Within 2 months he was telling her he loved his wife but she still hung around for 8 more months he told her he loved her he didn;t the ex showed up she leaves but she had her bags packed for weeks , She said he cheated he says she did but she kept all his pictures and stuff for 3 years is shestill hanging on? My question iswhy does he keep lieing

2007-02-23 06:46:55 · 14 answers · asked by klynn 1 in Singles & Dating

Can anyone out there offer me any advice on how to convince the man I am having a long distance relationship with that I am not dating anyone else? I have told him and tried to make him feel secure with the fact that we have been honest with one another to this point and if I was dating someone else or had the urge that I would let him know. I am falling for him and want him to know that he is the only man for me, I am seriously thinking of quiting my job and moving to where he is to be with him. I only have eyes for him and I don't know how to make him understand that. If you can offer any advice please dish it out...thanks in advance.

2007-02-23 06:46:28 · 16 answers · asked by BOBBIE 2 in Singles & Dating

I BE NICE ALL THE TIME BUT HE DOESNT SEEMED PLEASED.

2007-02-23 06:46:25 · 16 answers · asked by crystal bisexual 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-23 06:46:23 · 10 answers · asked by Michael F 1 in Singles & Dating

My sister was suppose to take me out for my birthday which was 3 weeks ago. We were suppose to go next week which was going to be okay with me and the rest of the people going. She now called me and said that it is her other friends birthday and instead of us going next week lets go this week to the club. The only thing was I had already planned out my weekend with my family and husband and I really dont know what to say to her. Should I go?

2007-02-23 06:46:18 · 4 answers · asked by Gucci S 3 in Marriage & Divorce

So I was walking out of my work last October-ish (I live right down the street so I walk; I'm a hostess in a restaurant), and I pass this guy on the street and he's wheeling a shopping cart. He starts talking to me about random stuff, like my restaurant, work, money, society, whatnot, and then I make my way right into my apartment complex. I guess two weeks later I see him again on the street and he asks, "You live in those blue apartments, right?" I nod, and he's like, "Yeah I tried to use the gym and the pool in there but it was locked. Do you think I could come by at night and you could let me innto the gym and pool?" Just to humor him, I say, "Uh sure" and he says, "OK I'll meet you at your work....when do you work next?" "Monday, and get off at 8", so he says see you then. That Monday when I get off work I'm a little freaked out because this presumably homeless guy is meeting me at work. I'm just too nice to lie, I guess, lol. So I start walking home and I see him on the other ...

2007-02-23 06:46:14 · 7 answers · asked by Timothy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-23 06:44:39 · 2 answers · asked by danielle Z 7 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend was/is married for the last 17 years, she went on holiday with her husband last summer to Eygpt for 2 weeks and in the 1st week of the hoilday he dumped her (ouch!) anyway we got together in October and at the time even though they were seperated, they still lived together in seperate rooms. When he found out about us, he changed the locks and kicked her out. So now she is living with her parents. He told her before christmas that he would start on the divorce early January, but he hasn't up to now.

What rights does she have? She simply cannot afford to go to her own soliciters (she is only on minimum wage) as he charges £130 per hour!!!

Is there an easier / cheaper way for her to sort it out? He has now got nasty to her and is threatening to release intimate video's of her onto the Internet if she keeps bothering him.

That dont bother me at all, as I know he is just trying to scare her off without having to give her any money,

All help greatly appreciated

2007-02-23 06:44:34 · 13 answers · asked by Paul C 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-23 06:44:29 · 20 answers · asked by flaming red 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, here is my HUGE problem…my X husband and I had agreed to share custody of our daughter (he had residential custody)…well things have changed since he decided to go back to school so we decided that our daughter would reside in my house full time and with him on the weekends since I am paying for her to go to a private school in my town. Well know he is complaining about how far he has to travel to take her to school on Mondays and what a big inconvenience this is to him…so I’ve finally had enough and I’m filling a motion to change custody and visitation arrangements (I will be representing myself) well he said if I take him to court he will remove our daughter from the private school and put her back in a public school in his town…so here is my question, since I do not want to disturb her stability I need to make sure that he can do this by law or does some law out there protect me? What should I do? I’m so frustrated I need help but unfortunately I do not have the cash to get a lawyer. HELP

2007-02-23 06:44:18 · 4 answers · asked by mkoodsi 2 in Marriage & Divorce

well first of all my husband just started steriods last week... now his additude is terrible. he's been going to the gym from 9-12am with his bestfriend.. he's also acting really weird with me, he gets mad for little dumb things, now i feel that he's cheating on me..should i think that or is it just his side effects?

2007-02-23 06:43:56 · 5 answers · asked by PRI 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Confess your sins, because the TRUTH.............shall set you free.

2007-02-23 06:43:49 · 8 answers · asked by Ken 2 in Singles & Dating

We bought a house had kids and have now decided to get married. They say the white dress is back in no matter what ... Or theme is black and white his tux black and I in white which our back ground is black and white so if I go with mother's suggestion then Champaigne won't quite be in the flow of things Do I please mom or over look the Old fashion days of old?

2007-02-23 06:43:03 · 13 answers · asked by K S 1 in Weddings

This is my first question on here, and it's probably a stupid one. I figure I ought to tell you about strange relationships in my life if you're going to be telling me about yours. My parents aren't married, weren't married, my mum lives here (London), my dad in NYC, and they're feelings for each other are so complicated, even I don't understand. They're in love, but at the same time, they aren't. My roommate just recently got full custody of his son who's mother, his ex-fiancee, didn't ever want kids. (Is that considered abandonment, even if he's still with one parent?) Plus, everyone in the neighbourhood thinks I'm married to him.

2007-02-23 06:42:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

an ugly guy/girl or an attractive guy/girl?

2007-02-23 06:42:53 · 7 answers · asked by ♥ms.peREz?♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

Should I tell him or keep it to myself, its been over 8 years now but we are still bestfriend through it all

2007-02-23 06:42:29 · 15 answers · asked by Fruitful1 3 in Singles & Dating

My b/f cheated on me almost 2 years ago on May 3. Can anyone help me get over him cheating and move on in our relationship. We also have a child together and he's 2 months. I know it might sound dumb but we were still together after he cheated and then I got pregnant. Please don't judge me. I am a very sensitive person. I really love the dude though it's just that I can't get over him cheating. I keep thinking that he's going to do it again.

2007-02-23 06:42:26 · 18 answers · asked by lovemuffin 2 in Marriage & Divorce

You're right Chris; you're not 'normal' - and that is definitely meant as a bonified compliment. There are so many people who are your average joes and janes; though really, if you were look inside them, you would discover a whole other person and nature! It's really wonderful that you're staying true and allowing who you really are to show; because alot of people are to scared, or think it is uncool. But really, being average is just as promising as it sounds; it's mediocre- and no one is really average. They just like to pretend they are ; don't you think so?

2007-02-23 06:42:22 · 15 answers · asked by +TheEndIsInSight+ 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-23 06:41:56 · 3 answers · asked by ashley_cade_2010 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Who has custody of a child if a couple is unmarried & seperates ?

2007-02-23 06:41:32 · 10 answers · asked by pam w 1 in Family

2007-02-23 06:41:15 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-23 06:41:15 · 18 answers · asked by susieozbornehiphop 2 in Singles & Dating

Women who lovingly sacrifice their youth for their family deserve the honor and thanks of all humanity. Tell me what I can do to repay my dear sweetheart for her morning sickness, mood-swings and other wild and crazy things this pregnancy may do to her? I just want to kiss the clouds and pick a bouquet of stars for her!!! Got any better ideas for me?

2007-02-23 06:40:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend has cheated on me three times in the past he hit me once too. I don't understand how he tells me he loves me then treat me like trash. He calls me names too. He has a nice side he really cares about em but when he gets angry he hits me and cheats to get back at me what should I do end the relationship or what?

2007-02-23 06:40:01 · 26 answers · asked by Ana T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am having a hard time finding a pretty cake topper for my cake, it is really sad how hard it is to find one. I don't use Ebay, so are there any websites that have pretty ( and at a reasonable price) african american cake figurines?

2007-02-23 06:39:26 · 10 answers · asked by dream 3 in Weddings

Okay, i like this boy for some time now [[since school started]] i told him i like him and aked him out a whole ago like octoberish. he said he only wants to be friends with benifits b/c he likes the single life. but now we talk for about 2 hours every day on the phone. we talk about how much we want eachother to be our first time . i like him soo much its unbeivable. ill do anything for him. now theres a rumor going around school he had sex with another girl. he told me he didnt do anything and started crying in my arms. i beilve him and everything and he wants to make it all go away becasue everybosy else beilves the rumor. he said there are only a couple people he can trust and i am #1. now do i wait till end of this rumor bull or do i ask him again .... i dont no wat to do. i dont know if i should ask him again. please help me .. also email me orr something ..i need some girl and guy advice.

2007-02-23 06:39:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating