My boyfriend has cheated on me three times in the past he hit me once too. I don't understand how he tells me he loves me then treat me like trash. He calls me names too. He has a nice side he really cares about em but when he gets angry he hits me and cheats to get back at me what should I do end the relationship or what?
2007-02-23 06:40:01 · 26 answers · asked by Ana T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You shouldn't put up with him don't let him put his hands on you and he cheats and let you know about it doesn't care about you girl back your stuff and leave you deserve much better. He doesn't love you, you don't hurt the one you love.
2007-02-23 06:44:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to leave him and see if that may help him straighten out. Put the law on him the next time he puts his hand on you. You're not his child. I was in a relationship with this dude, he cheated, so I broke up with him, but he didn't want me to talk to any other guys. I know you are confused, I've been there myself. I had to let him go. He may have loved me, but I loved myself better. If you stay with him, you're going to end up being depressed and you'll have a low self esteem. Do what's best for you. Yes, its gonna hurt when you leave, and yes, you will feel lonely at times, but its better than him hitting on you.
Oh yeah, that guy never hit me again once I put the police on him.
2007-02-23 14:47:23 · answer #2 · answered by Blondie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he doesn't love you. You are in a very bad relationship and you need to get out as soon as possible. If it is necessary you should involve the police (ie. a restraining order, or a police escort while you move out your stuff). You need to take a stand and better your life for yourself. Once you break up with him, do not ever talk to him again. He seems manipulative and will probably try to win you back. Change your phone number, don't give him the address to where you're staying, nothing! Do not have any contact with him. Violence in a relationship will only escalate, which means one day you will be in fear for your life. Get out now.
2007-02-23 14:45:46 · answer #3 · answered by crooney27 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
End it ASAP. It's one thing to cheat but to hit you. Abusive relationships always mean trouble. & Don't make excuses for him by saying that "there's a nice side to him", if you don't walk away now it will only get worse Because he knows he can do what he wants & you will accept it.
Have some selfrespect cause he definately doesn't respect you.
2007-02-23 14:58:35 · answer #4 · answered by Tinkiegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he does not love you. He loves the fact he can control you and take advantage of you. You should end the relationship and attend a domestic violence support group. If you are living together and you are afraid to leave contact a shelter for battered women. Also, that out a restraining order. Keep him away. The most dangerous time for a battered woman is when she leaves.
2007-02-23 14:44:42 · answer #5 · answered by Lily 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok i have been in your shoes but the only differnce is we had a daughter together and he pushed me around and choked me he cheated on me 1 time THAT I KNOW OF - he called me every name in the book and made me feel so dumb and low that's called domestic violence- you can have his butt arrested for that -he just wants all the control - does he love you i can't answer that my daughters dad loves me but you see i left him in well for good in 05 and i love him with all my heart. should you end it in my opinion yes- let him know how you feel and he's anything like my ex he'll say something like you cant control me or it's just the way i am - im sorry - or something like that but you need to show him he can't control you and that you have a life outside of him -make him think about how you feel for a change- and the best way to do that is for him to be away from you -old saying you never know what you had till its gone!!!
2007-02-23 14:52:08 · answer #6 · answered by Yvette 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should totally end this relationship and find someone who not only cares enough to not hit you, but is true to their word of committment and won't cheat!
2007-02-23 14:43:41 · answer #7 · answered by yoyomama 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your partner is abusive.
If he has hit you once, he will do it again. I am sure he is also verbally abusive sometimes, right?
And his cheating is jsut another way to hurt and control you.
You need to get out of this relationship ASAP and find out why you are attracted to someone who hurts you.
2007-02-23 14:45:24 · answer #8 · answered by DeeGee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
End it! Start a new life, be single for a while, go on a Holiday come back start saving money and start a new life, go skydiving etc. Enjoy life single for a little bit. Dont feel insacure!
2007-02-23 14:46:25 · answer #9 · answered by kalloggs40 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you should not go back with him. he doesnt show that he likes you because if he really liked you he wouldnt be doing all that bad s*hit to you . if you love someone you never hurt them he might have a nice side but what are you going to do if he is always in his ugly side...dont go bak with him and defenetly END that relationship..ok......if you get back with him....he will be laughing at you and thinking you are easy and gulible
2007-02-23 14:46:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋