So I was walking out of my work last October-ish (I live right down the street so I walk; I'm a hostess in a restaurant), and I pass this guy on the street and he's wheeling a shopping cart. He starts talking to me about random stuff, like my restaurant, work, money, society, whatnot, and then I make my way right into my apartment complex. I guess two weeks later I see him again on the street and he asks, "You live in those blue apartments, right?" I nod, and he's like, "Yeah I tried to use the gym and the pool in there but it was locked. Do you think I could come by at night and you could let me innto the gym and pool?" Just to humor him, I say, "Uh sure" and he says, "OK I'll meet you at your work....when do you work next?" "Monday, and get off at 8", so he says see you then. That Monday when I get off work I'm a little freaked out because this presumably homeless guy is meeting me at work. I'm just too nice to lie, I guess, lol. So I start walking home and I see him on the other ...
2007-02-23 06:46:14 · 7 answers · asked by Timothy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
side of the street I guess making his way to my work. Being on the other side, I'm hoping he doesn't see me. I mean I don't think he's dangerous, just a lil weird. So I fast-walk home and he never saw me.
Months go by I don't see/hear from him. Probably b/c I quit that job in December and got a new job and lil further away. Well this week I get on the bus and there he is! He's like, "Oh I went by your work and asked for you and they said you weren't there." "When was this?" he asked. "Uh about three weeks ago." So I told him I quit in December.
2007-02-23 06:48:53 · update #1
You need to be more careful around strangers. This guy knew way too much about you. It's ok to be a little paranoid.
2007-02-23 06:51:08 · answer #1 · answered by katydid 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to be honest and tell him that you don't think is a good idea. Tell him that you donlt want to be rude but you wish to be left alone. If he doesn;t then call the cops and tell him that he is stalking you.
You have no bussiness telling unknown men where wereabouts, I know that youa re trying to be polite, but this is more than you have bargained for and could compromise your safety. Do not tell him where you work , explainthat you don;t feel conmfortable giving your personal information to strangers.
Good luck
2007-02-23 14:58:16 · answer #2 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a touching story.
Based on how the other questions are going here today, can we assume you want to know whow to fake an orgasm with this guy so he can get you and your sister pregnant so he can then have full custody of the children?
2007-02-23 15:32:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have been careful what you had said to this homeless man since he could have been hitting on you, so be careful what you say the next time you see this guy.
2007-02-23 14:55:16 · answer #4 · answered by Roxas of Organization 13 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are alot of freaks and although he SEEMS harmless, I wouldnt trust him..never give any stranger your true addresss or where you live...also, you should never tell someone where you work or what time you will be there next...the less said, the safer you'll be....
2007-02-23 14:56:32 · answer #5 · answered by SassyGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure....just keep intertwining your life around a stranger. Ever think that someone may find you someday with your throat cut from ear to ear?
Use your head for Chrissakes.
2007-02-23 14:54:59 · answer #6 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah and thanks a lot for NOT getting me into the pool!
2007-02-23 14:58:27 · answer #7 · answered by MrNiceGuy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋