2007-02-23 05:52:39 · 7 answers · asked by Joey 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Three simple things. First accept whats in the past, is in the PAST, 2nd focus on the present and 3rd, BELIEVE in the FUTURE. Sometimes things happen where a relationship for some reason doesn't work out but be glad you have a second chance at love with this new woman and you are not alone. Besides you both have something in commom and its not failure it's simply realizing that living is learning and you both are two different people from your X's and just because it didn't work with them doesn't mean it can't work with the two of you.
2007-02-23 06:01:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look back and try to figure out all of the reasons why your previous marriages didn't work and then make an extra effort not to make any of those mistakes. Keep good communication going and be honest...
2007-02-23 05:58:09 · answer #2 · answered by Cute But Evil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What makes you think this one won't work? Are you having problems? Sit down and talk about things. Figure out what caused the collapse of the first marriages and steer clear of the same mistakes.
2007-02-23 05:56:53 · answer #3 · answered by janice 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication , trust, and stay away from swinging of any style!
Work together for a happy marriage not against each other, and make sure she knows your alway on her side.
2007-02-23 05:58:03 · answer #4 · answered by Free-Lance 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shouldn't the both of you thought about this before you got married again?
we are different with different people. but step back and loOK at yourself through your partners eyes. Ask yourself,would you want to be with you? Would you like yourself? and if you were her what would you say you would change about him(you)? nobody likes to be with a self absorbed, anal, condescending, possessive or jealous type, so don't be any of these. and you should do ok.
2007-02-23 06:04:11 · answer #5 · answered by Hi its me again 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First each of you search within yourselves to discover what YOU did wrong in your previous marriages (don't try to blame your ex-spouse)!
Then COMMUNICATE with each other! A LOT!
2007-02-23 06:39:01 · answer #6 · answered by wijit13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be more adventurous in the sak . start there and then move on to a more active lifestyle.
2007-02-23 05:55:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋