How do you stop from gettting into the friends zone with women? I mean im 21 years old,im a decent looking guy,nothin special but you get me,im a gud person,and im supposedly really funny ok,now thats not me talkin thats how ppl talk about me and im flattered by it to be honest but i seem to struggle with women,i mean i have alot of girl-friends but not enough girlfriends you get me..id like to know were im going wrong as ppl tell me im so great but yet cant get a decent woman and i know guys who are complete a$$ holes to women and they get them throwing themselves at them,doesnt make sense..i mean i just want a decent woman so i can treat her good and be the man she wants now i dont think myself thats to much to ask for in life is it? i need help anyway plz! thanks..your answers on my last question were brilliant and i thank you very much guys and girls!
2007-02-23 05:56:43 · 5 answers · asked by John A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just by reading that..u really do sound like a great guy..
goodluck.
2007-02-23 06:02:35 · answer #1 · answered by Gõlden angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should just be patient and you will meet that one special girl. If you are looking for more than friendship, then let the girl know as soon as you get to talking to them. I don't doubt it one bit that you are a good person, but maybe there is one out there just waiting to meet you. Decent woman may be looking out for "complete ***holes" and may forget that there are some decent men still out there. Just give women a sense of "more than friends" when you meet them. You are not doing anything wrong, I think. Maybe you should keep your status of a good guy and at the same time, let the girl know you are interested in being more than friends....
Good Luck with that!
=)
2007-02-23 06:08:55 · answer #2 · answered by y@y@ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, let me tell you something good, "Being in the friend zone with women is a great place to be!!" If you really think about, they come to you all the time for advice. They'll talk to you about anything and actually feel comfortable. I myself stay from the friend zone with men. If I talked to them about everything I'd find myself getting emotionally attached. Instead of going to my boyfriend, I'd go to my male friend for everything. (not money) I'd look forward to seeing my male friend everyday just to talk and laugh and cut up with. Then, my boyfriend would just have the title of 'boyfriend'. My male friend would actually be my 'boyfriend' being that he'd be the the one who I'd look forward to seeing and talking to everyday and the one to go to with my problems for advice.
So you shouldn't be worried about the friendship zone, the guys whose girlfriends you are friends with should be worried.
2007-02-23 06:11:30 · answer #3 · answered by Blondie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wouldn't want those types of girls anyway ... stay being yourself and I'm sure a woman will come along and blow you away ... it just takes time and patience ... good luck with the search ... !
2007-02-23 06:03:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ou are young and just wait and you find the gal that is right for you...And yes it happends some males are bad with the gals and nice gals there they are by the male that is not good to her...It called blindes that is confused with love...Love is not bad...So don't worry this happen to good people always but not forever so...
2007-02-23 06:04:37 · answer #5 · answered by nena_en_austin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋