Is this a bad sign? Only a few guys have liked me as far as I'm concerned, and I have liked a fair share of guys. Although I have had many infatuations, I can never imagine getting close to anyone.
I have never been in love, is there something wrong with me?
Comments/Answers welcomed.
2007-02-23 06:00:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, you just haven't met that right one yet.
2007-02-23 06:06:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you feel like you will be 18 years old forever. TRUST ME - you won't. You will grow older and look back over your life and 18 will seem SO young. (I am much older than you.) Why would you think there is something wrong with you?
I feel so strongly that if there is one thing females need to do beginning as early as possible is to LOVE and VALUE OURSELVES, exactly as we are - not as what the media, our parents, men, friends, or anyone thinks we should be. Just be the very best YOU that you can be. Enjoy what you find enjoyable about life. Be a good person. Tell the truth. Help others and try to be true to yourself. Believe me - love will come into your life when it is the right time. In the meantime, how about really enjoying your youth, your health, your vitality - - these are all precious gifts that I know you take for granted. We all do when we are young and sure that we will live forever. Do not waste a second of your life on regrets and worrying about what is "wrong" with you - especially when there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with you at all. Enjoy all of your blessings and I hope you will just be happy. It takes some effort to be happy. You have to decide you would rather be happy than miserable.
2007-02-23 14:09:45 · answer #2 · answered by Alice laughing 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not a sign of anything, really. I am 24 and have not been in love. I too have had my share of crushes, but like you, I haven't wanted to get too close to anyone. However, I recently have started dating someone that I believe I can get close to, unlike anyone else. So, don't worry. It'll happen for you but you are only 18, don't rush it!
2007-02-23 14:08:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is bad cuz u need to figure out who u can really trust or the u can never know who the right guy is for u and u can not get married or engajed u need to find someone fast take this from some one who has a friend and her friends sister is not engajed and shes 25 wooooooooow shes old
2007-03-03 13:49:54 · answer #4 · answered by *0_o* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, there is nothing wrong w/you! Actually I think you have an edge over girls who have been boy crazee for years, falling in & out of love, such nonsense! You have saved yourself for the right one, how precious is that? You are young - many years ahead of you. Stay the course and Mr. Right will come along & he will appreciate you and you will know him. Have fun, enjoy life and when it happens, you'll be ready! :)
2007-02-23 14:06:45 · answer #5 · answered by Forever 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you at all... You just haven't bumped into him yet... When you are in love you'll be wowed! NO rush... I didn't really fall in love until I was 19 and married at 21... Sometimes it comes from the most unexpected place..
2007-03-03 13:59:59 · answer #6 · answered by *G* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no falling in love is a big step you just cant do it with anybody in some it takes time to love someone other times it hits you over the head like a ton of bricks but when you do find this person just hang on for the best ride of your life ok
2007-02-23 14:05:09 · answer #7 · answered by finnlecarb 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO, THERE IS NOT CERTAIN TIME YOU HAVE TO BE IN LOVE ACTUALLY I'M GLAD TO HEAR SOMEONE SAY THEY HAVE NEVER BEEN IN LOVE AT 18 SO MANY PEOPLE USE THE WORD LOVE WITH EVERYONE THEY HAVE A CRUSH ON I THINK YOU ON THE OTHER HAND KNOW WHAT LOVE IS AND YOU WILL KNOW WHEN YOUR IN LOVE BUT DON'T WORRY YOUR STILL YOUNG TO BE IN LOVE YOU'LL SOON FIND THAT PERSON YOU WILL LOVE.
2007-02-23 14:08:16 · answer #8 · answered by vanessa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with not being in love. In fact, you're best concentrating on the things you need to do to make a career first. Love will alter your path.
2007-02-23 14:05:43 · answer #9 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I am 36 and never been in love...Not is no a bad sign means you gard your feelings that is a good sign...Sometimes people say they love a person but is just not truth love...And dies after a few months etc maybe years etc...So you are ok...
2007-02-23 14:08:04 · answer #10 · answered by nena_en_austin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not a bad sign at all, we all find love at different times in our lives, some people find it early on in life some not for years, just keep experimenting and having fun, your only young,, you'll meet someone sooner or later and when you do you'll know your in love.
2007-02-23 14:04:02 · answer #11 · answered by nutti_chick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋