I remember when my boyfriend and I met, we used to be all over each other, we could not wait to meet each other, he used to tell me so many beautiful things.. we have been together 3 years and I feel that we are no longer this way. Is it normal? I wish we had some of this back? I wish my boyfirend would be like he used to be? I worry that he loves me less or he is interested in me less?
2007-02-23 05:53:17 · 9 answers · asked by Elisa N 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yess after the first 2 years u are off of love... and u see fault u were blind to before.. now u have to use your brain instead of ur heart to work things out
2007-02-23 05:56:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
If things are not the way it used to be then maybe you should find out from your guy what he feels about the relationship ,find out what changed between you and go from there .
You can also find ways to get that spark back by planning an special event like a weekend getaway or candle light dinner . .
Good Luck
2007-02-23 14:20:43 · answer #2 · answered by Constance M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is called boredom, and it really has nothing to do with you. It is just they guys are made. They will get bored because it is a biological trait. They have been biologically programmed for 100 million years to spread their seed as far and wide as possible. Now they are told they have to hold it down to one person. It ain't easy. He still loves you, but biology is a tough one to overcome.
2007-02-23 13:59:05 · answer #3 · answered by bocasbeachbum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...absolutely normal stuff! You're not happy with normalcy though...so shake up the rules alittle bit darling. Start flirting with him again. Hopefully he'll flirt back with you. If he doesn't get your message hun?...drag him around a little bit by his ear. Communicating what you want is up to you sweetie. He's not a mind reader otherwise. If he doesn't take your sweet sensual hints properly?...smack him upside the head witha little bit of teasing behavior hun. If this doesn't work...get a new boyfriend...this one's dead!
2007-02-23 14:11:35 · answer #4 · answered by scott s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Completely normal. And don't automatically assume that he's the one who's changed. I'm sure you've changed a bit too in 3 years.
2007-02-23 14:00:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's your first problem .. instead of waiting around for him to make the first move ... why don't you start leaving him little love notes, make his lunch or send some naughty text messages ... the more you show him attention and sweet gestures the more he will want to show you ... change the way you think ... and make the first move ... it will start coming back ... !
2007-02-23 14:00:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup.. very normal thats what happens.
Normally turns into loving friends who have sex now and then... and if your lucky are comfortable with that and dont look elsewhere.
2007-02-23 13:57:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes is normal people get bore...so yes is normal...
2007-02-23 13:59:02 · answer #8 · answered by nena_en_austin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-02-23 13:57:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋