Family & Relationships - 22 February 2007

I have a girl friend that I have an ongoing friends or more thing happening. We were partners at a dance class a few days ago. While dancing, we continued to hold hands after being stopped by an instructor to watch. I also led her onto the floor by the hand twice. Neither had ever happened before. We also had a good conversation, but she disappeared with her best friend for the rest of the evening. Anyway, I sent an email, and in the email, I suggested we dance more at the next class. She sent back and email and has now asked me in person at least four times whether I had fun at dance class last time. Why does she keep asking??

2007-02-22 17:24:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Like I exercise from time to time, but I don't look that over weight when I wear my clothes since I have broader shoulders and I hold it aright. So do girls just go for guys that are usually fit?

2007-02-22 17:24:12 · 10 answers · asked by Nick 1 in Singles & Dating

How many tears must I cry b4 u realize im upset? How much blood should I bleed b4 u notice im in pain? How long do I have 2 stand infront of a mirror crying till u no how much i hate myself? How much alcohol does it take 4 u 2 realize my attempt 2 escape? How many drugs must I abuse b4 u realize I have a problem? How many fights must I b in till u notice my build up of anger inside? How many more smiles should I put on till u notice there fake? What more do u want from me 2 satisfy u? How long must I hold u till u realize im alone? How much longer must I shake from substance abuse till u see I need help? How much longer must i slowly kill myself till u realize its 2 late 2 turn back? How many more yrs must I live this way till u notice im truely unhappy? When I die how long till it hits u that u could have saved me but ignored all the signs?

2007-02-22 17:24:01 · 8 answers · asked by Ellen B 1 in Family

2007-02-22 17:23:51 · 3 answers · asked by Brad 2 in Singles & Dating

I have this friend, a male friend, who I have been extremely close to for a very long time. He moved away while we were in high school, and we kind of dropped contact. I started dating someone that we both knew, and have been with this guy for 4 1/2 years now. I have a child with this guy, and we have been talking about getting married.

But recently, the first guy, my good friend, moved back closer and re-establisehd contact with me. After I started dating my boyfriend, he flat out forbid me to talk with my friend, so now for about two weeks, I've been 'going behind his back' and talking with my friend on the computer. I am very emotionally invested in my friend, going so far as to be disappointed when I sign on and he's not there to IM.

I recently heard the term 'emotional affair', and am not entirely sure what it means.

So I guess my question is am I having an emotional affair with my friend, or am I just talking to him secretly because my boyfriend doesn't like him?

2007-02-22 17:23:49 · 4 answers · asked by eternal_phoenix_fire 1 in Singles & Dating

12 years ago I was in love with a girl from Nagaland. Due to some reason I could not get merried with her. We both have enjoyed all and crossed limits of society. In 1997 I left that place and we never conntected each other. In 2005, I posted to Assam and visited my girlfried place and come to know she is married and blassed with two kids. One day, we both enjoyed in absence of her husband. I am also married. Some place in my heart i feed guilt for such relation with my ex girl friend. We both still love each other. please help me out.

2007-02-22 17:23:07 · 17 answers · asked by amru 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I need you guys/gals opinions. Ok, the other night my mom called me. Well, she brought up a very interesting question that i'm trying to figure out. My parents are divorced. My mom is still single but my dad got remarried. My mom didn't make enough money to have her own place so she is staying with her sister. Well, her sister hinted that she wants my mom to move out. My mom doesn't have anywhere to go. So, she is supposed to come visit me in june/july. She asked me if she liked idaho could she move in with me until she got a job and got her own place. Well, this has put me in a bit of a bind. I'm married and my wife and i are fairly young. (23 me and 19 her) I haven't talked it over with my wife yet because she's still in italy and i'm in idaho but that's gonna change in a week. So, here's my question to you guys. What would you do if you were in my situation? My mom lives in Texas so i would have to shell out money to help with gas and moving her stuff.

2007-02-22 17:22:54 · 13 answers · asked by wwfattitude_98 2 in Family

I m engaged two days back. i accepted the marriage due to my father's compulsion. every one in my home likes the girl whom i m
going to marry. when i talked to her after my engagement, i find tht she s not of my kind . i plan to marry a girl with more exposure to the outer world. but she seems to be little childish..no matured talking. what shall i do now? my marriage fixed on june. i dont know how to expose this to my parents. i also fear abt the future of the girl. please help me

2007-02-22 17:21:42 · 7 answers · asked by +Venki+ 1 in Marriage & Divorce

cute charming................really annoying???????? Wat do u think?

2007-02-22 17:21:31 · 5 answers · asked by lynette 6 in Singles & Dating

He looks at me and he gave this note to this boy in my class.than he look at me.Help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-02-22 17:19:58 · 12 answers · asked by Jessica W 1 in Family

family
friends
money
sex
smoking weed
eating
clothes
drinking
sleeping
music

2007-02-22 17:19:12 · 15 answers · asked by puma 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend is away for the next 18 months..and ideas how i can make the time go by fast til i can see him? i know you cant make time go fast..but you can do things to make the days speed by..i just need ideas as to what are good things to occupy my time..thanx

2007-02-22 17:18:12 · 10 answers · asked by synn 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-22 17:18:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, my question is: If you already have someone who loves you and cares about you, why do you get scared and run away from it? Why do you have to find someone else when you already have what you are looking for?
How come the person you already have isn't good enough, if you loved them then something was right. true? So why give up on it and throw it all away because your scared and then go look for it again, so you can run from it again? Why can't you be happy with the person that you are with, if they love you and care about you, shouldn't that be good enough? I just recently went threw this and i feel like im not good enough, i'm not enough. It's like my love and care for him didn't matter. So if you could please just tell me why when you already love someone, you have to go look for something that you already have. It would help alot & thanks.

2007-02-22 17:17:51 · 14 answers · asked by linderlou2006 2 in Singles & Dating

How many times must I ask 2 do somethin with u but only b denyed 4 other thing r more important. How much do I need 2 tell u 2 give u understanding on the person i am. How many times & yrs did it take 2 realize & believe me in when I told u I was alone. How many bruises does it take till u stop the beatings & uncalled violence from my brother. How much more happiness brought apon me must u take away, how many more tears must i cry at night till u stop tellin me 2 stop & go back 2 sleep & realize somthins wrong, how much should i share w/ u when drunk & yell the hatred i feel 4 u until u realize i want nothin from u, how many times must u slap me 4 being honest 2 only get a bloody & bruised lip in return, how many times must I say I hate being home & coming home full of anger till u realize my fight for escape?

2007-02-22 17:17:45 · 6 answers · asked by Ellen B 1 in Family

My wife of thirteen years, told me and my two teenage daughters to move out. I have two daughters from a previous relationship and she has one teenage son from a previous mariage, we also have a ten yr old son together. Something has not been right for a while with our relationship as she has been very distant from me and doesnt spend any time with me. I thought she just needed space and I stopped pushing. I moved out and she calls every day and comes over once or twice a week. Mostly for sex then gets dressed and leaves? I miss her and my son very bad and strugle to deal with this every day. It is effecting my job and my health. When we talk she tells me she loves me but wont give me a good reason for wanting me out. She has said the problem is with my daughters because they dont like her. this is not true at all, she is all they have known for a mother for there whole life (my X is not around or part of there life) She refuses to see a counsler is it over? Do I just move on? HELP

2007-02-22 17:15:23 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-22 17:15:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, both my parents, both his parents and me and my fiance are contributing to the wedding, what would be the correct wording for the invitation?? Thank you

2007-02-22 17:14:42 · 8 answers · asked by Breanna's Mommy 2 in Weddings

2007-02-22 17:14:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Wat is it that I do wrong, but I have problems with communication, i run out of words when I am with a lady. Plis help guys, I have lost too many hot babes because of this. How do I do it,? Your help will be of great importance

2007-02-22 17:13:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-22 17:13:24 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i am in love with a girl whom i love too much for her i left my country,my family even my job to get her.she is 9years junior to me.she also love me too much but she afraid of her mom to accept me.as her mom dont like me.but she promise me she will marry me after two years but its not possible for me to stay in another country for that long.so what should i do now please advise me.

2007-02-22 17:11:00 · 16 answers · asked by amit s 1 in Weddings

my man likes it when i leave him lil messages and stuff in his email while hes at work..unfortionatly im running out of things to say. What are some sexy/kinky/hot things i can say to him?

2007-02-22 17:10:16 · 12 answers · asked by angeliss 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-22 17:09:55 · 15 answers · asked by Nick 1 in Singles & Dating

My husbands boss is totally abusive verbally. Last night my husband forgot to do something and his boss called him up after hours and called my husband back to work. as my husband was leaving he called again and I picked up the phone and simply said he was on his way and I hung up.. He calls me back 5 minutes later saying "how dare I talk to him that way" and that he was the one that paid the bills in my house since he is my husbands boss and called me a dumb f***..... My husband is going to find another job but what I am wondering is what can I do legally about the way he talked to me. This man thinks he is above everyone and that he is always right and everyone else is wrong.

2007-02-22 17:08:24 · 4 answers · asked by greeneyedredhead 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My fiance and I are getting married July 19, 2008. We wanted our colors to either be white and red or white and blue. We decided on white and red. Recently I thought it would be fun to add blue in, as an accent color. My fiance likes it, but other people have said they think red, white and blue are weird colors for a wedding... but hello! We're getting married in JULY! But anyway, I also thought about switching to blue and white because my fiance and I both have blue as a favorite color. Then maybe have red as an accent color... just want an opinion on this... what do you guys think would look best: red and white with blue as accent, blue and white with red as accent, or red white and blue all as main colors... what do you think would make a better wedding?

2007-02-22 17:08:23 · 10 answers · asked by jlg_jdf 2 in Weddings

I have just been on a date with a man I met a few weeks ago. He told me when we first met that he was 32. Tonight he told me that he is actually 40. He has 2 children a son at 20 and a daughter at 17. I am 22, I am not sure what his intentions toward me are and if he is too old for me. Help.

2007-02-22 17:08:18 · 35 answers · asked by Debbie M 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-22 17:08:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-22 17:07:50 · 6 answers · asked by Nick 1 in Singles & Dating

I wanting to tell my Boyfriend that without him my life wouldn't be so overwhemling fun and happily filled, but i want to do it in a way that will shock and aww him. So please anything you can think of would be great.

2007-02-22 17:06:27 · 5 answers · asked by Vampriess Amanda 1 in Singles & Dating