Family & Relationships - 22 February 2007

hello, i am getting married to a girl in a couple of month. but i have some suspicions about her loyalty. if i get married with these doubts,it is going to ruin my marital life later.. how should i handle this situation?

if i tell her won't it make her angry.? and what is the surity that she would tell me the truth? what would be the best way to know it all. plz.... i am really depressed...

2007-02-22 16:50:03 · 8 answers · asked by alone in 6billion 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-22 16:49:53 · 8 answers · asked by candi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

like in akons song i wanna love youwhen he say i see u windin and grindin up on that pole and i know u see me lookin at u and u already know..........

2007-02-22 16:49:40 · 9 answers · asked by someone 2 in Singles & Dating

i wish my mom still loved me like she used to.

2007-02-22 16:49:37 · 11 answers · asked by leens f 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

getting others to show empathy in the world..

2007-02-22 16:49:12 · 11 answers · asked by Blake M 1 in Friends

for those of you who seen Drake's I got spanked!!!!! Listen people parents need/HAVE to be in control at all times!!!! the fact that this boy has such an anger problems indicates to me that someone else in his family also does...most the time kids learn that somewhere...if he didn't learn it from his parents then maybe something more is going on at school....telling him he was what he deserved and such is NOT gonna help him to calm down at this point! this family needs help ALL of them...it shows me that at least the day has a probelm keeping control of his anger to.....

when you 'displine' a child cuz it makes you feel better...well that's when it becomes ABUSE!!!!!!!

2007-02-22 16:47:47 · 6 answers · asked by mrs_b40 3 in Family

2007-02-22 16:47:39 · 10 answers · asked by vyas j 1 in Friends

i was with this guy, and we had been having problems, well last weekend i found out that he had slept with my friend, someone who i saw as a lil sister, in my house while i was at work... i broke my heart and i was angry of course, i lost a friend and a bf at the same time... but for some reason.. i cant get this boy out of my head... i miss him.... i want to forget about him and move on with my life, but right now i cant even function at work... all i can do is cry.... wut do i do??? how can i get over him!!!! i dont any friends, the only person that i can talk to is my little sister.... but she is only 16 and really doesnt know much.... someone please help me... i need to get my life back on track.

2007-02-22 16:47:02 · 26 answers · asked by ~ * ~713PR!NC3$$713~ * ~ 3 in Singles & Dating

this guy i was talking to is leaving for boot camp for 8 weeks on march 22. when he gets back i'll be very close to graduating from high school if not already done so. i knew him for a short time but we connected && i feel strongly toward him. we don't talk much anymore && i think it is because he doesn't want to start something when he knows he's leaving soon. he'll be gone a year to his first base when he gets back. it maybe florida, hawaii or cali. we dunno. i want to be with him. at least try something because we haven't got to yet. what do i do? what do i say? should i just spill everything? i've come on to him pretty strongly the past few weeks casue he hasn't spoken much to me. i'm number 1 on him myspace && he is on mine. i've supported him && wished him luck && he's talked to me a little about it &&he's excited about the navy. && i've told him i'm happy for him. he knows i'm crazy about him...&& i think he feels the same towards me. what do i do?

2007-02-22 16:46:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am in my 2nd year of college (19 years old) & had my heart on being an anesthesiologist... but looking furthur into it i'm not sure.

I want to start a family by the time i am in my late 20's. Are they on call like surgeons & doctors are?

Basically i am looking for a job that pays amazingly & i'll work for it, but i also want a family life (working in the hospital has always been a goal of mine)

I'm not into doing surgeries or anything, but i'd like to do something important & get paid well.

Any advice?!

2007-02-22 16:45:46 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We broke up a month ago. We've been making nice and emailing. We work at the same place, but on oposing shifts until now. I'm going back to her shift, and we're going to be practically elbow-to-elbow all day. Overtly, we get along fine, but inside, I'm still dealing with a lot of anger over the break up. We were good friends before we got together; I want that again. I'm afraid, however, that my current resentment will show through. She's very perceptive. I'm going to be a good boy, of course. We both NEED this job. Any tips you can offer for dealing with this in my spirit would be helpful. Thanks!

2007-02-22 16:45:24 · 9 answers · asked by aquaman2964 3 in Marriage & Divorce

please answer asap

2007-02-22 16:45:05 · 23 answers · asked by Briana 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Which is it?

2007-02-22 16:44:22 · 6 answers · asked by Tgirl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i just broke up with my 26yr old ex of 3 yrs cos i found his cheating behind my back with a colleague of his who's 18yrs old. we ended it after a painful arguement. he's still staying with me till my housemates are back cos my place is not really that safe for me to stay alone in. my problem is last nite after he came back from his date with his gf (celebrating their 1st anniversary together - and we just broke up 5 days ago!) we had sex. i feel so bad! i didnt know wat i was doing. it was great at first but now i feel it was a stupid thing to do. i feel pity of myself and his gf. so im asking should i warn the girl or just let her find out for herself. cos this is not the first time he cheated on her with me. like i said we only recently broke up. HELP ME...

2007-02-22 16:43:11 · 17 answers · asked by ZaZa b 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I recently broke up with my boyfren coz my parents thot he wasnt rite 4me.he realy hates me now,and doesnt wanna speak 2me at all,but there are some moments when he does.but i feel sry for him n jus wanna contact him,even if its jus to say hi n ask how his day has been. should i do this? should i tell him how much i miss him? advice needed!!!

2007-02-22 16:42:55 · 13 answers · asked by quest 1 in Singles & Dating

I wanna know who has, if you know somebody or if you would...
or what you thikn about the question.
Mabey storys

2007-02-22 16:42:55 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2007-02-22 16:41:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

So we've been on three dates.We're both into each other. I asked her out again on Tue and she said yes. 3 hours later, she textd and cancelled, saying her friend was at the hospital having a baby. I tell her to call me the next day. The next day, she texts me around 11pm to tell me she got off work. I decided to ask her where I thought our relationship was going. She answered with "its complicated because of my past." Basically, shes not ready to move on past her last boyfriend (who died in a car crash 2 years ago). She said she enjoys me and that she wants to live each day. So I ask her to get together the next night (tonight) and she says yes. She calls me today and asks me to help her out with something for school. I meet her at the library. She is with her partner (for the presentation). I help her out and she treats me unusually bad (my friend even noticed it). Afterwards, she never calls me back to hang out and ignored my text message asking her if she was coming by my house.

2007-02-22 16:41:42 · 13 answers · asked by MHL 1 in Singles & Dating

this chick i like at school and she came up to me and asked to sit on my face im not sure if shes doing it to embarrase me to see what il say or if she actually wants to do it which i would let her so im sort of in the middle what should i do

2007-02-22 16:41:16 · 9 answers · asked by Richy W 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so theres this guy who i've been friends with for a really long time and i started to like him after the summer. For a while, he just wanted to be friends. But then, we were hanging out more and became closer. Things were going good. Now, one day he acts like he's interested in something with me, and the next day he doesn't even take a second glance. What does this mean?

2007-02-22 16:40:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When you go far away from your girl? do you have moments like what the "HERE WITHOUT YOU" song say of 3 doors down?

2007-02-22 16:39:32 · 8 answers · asked by Cess B 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-22 16:39:02 · 2 answers · asked by someone 2 in Singles & Dating

i need help..i'm terrible with speeches..this is for my brother's upcoming wedding and they made me their maid of honor.

2007-02-22 16:38:25 · 5 answers · asked by YENG 1 in Weddings

I'm a guy, a little shorter than 5'10"...is it possible to find a girl who is 6' tall with big feet?

2007-02-22 16:38:18 · 31 answers · asked by navigne 2 in Singles & Dating

How i stop loving.....here's the story i have liked this guy for a long time hes my brother's friend here's the prob.hes 20 and im 15.....i know hes way to old for me but i just cant stop thinking of him so How can i get my mind off him......

2007-02-22 16:37:58 · 4 answers · asked by HeartBroken023 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-22 16:37:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it wrong to fall for a woman who is married?
And also would it be wrong if she fell in love too?

2007-02-22 16:36:39 · 26 answers · asked by vulu 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-22 16:36:00 · 7 answers · asked by cool joe 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Im shy so its hard for me to talk to girls i like.

2007-02-22 16:35:54 · 10 answers · asked by MuRdEr 4 in Singles & Dating

Well, I haven't been seen her for 2 years now, the last time I saw her, her hair was in shoulder length, and she is Malay, honestly, she love to smile, but she never smile in photos and she never show her teeth either. Someday if I wanna fix a date to meet her, I will love to take photos and using camcorder to video her, do you think she will smile? cause I don't even know how to make girls smile, and her teeth is pearly white & straight, like she wore braces before. (She never wore braces.)

2007-02-22 16:35:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating