this guy i was talking to is leaving for boot camp for 8 weeks on march 22. when he gets back i'll be very close to graduating from high school if not already done so. i knew him for a short time but we connected && i feel strongly toward him. we don't talk much anymore && i think it is because he doesn't want to start something when he knows he's leaving soon. he'll be gone a year to his first base when he gets back. it maybe florida, hawaii or cali. we dunno. i want to be with him. at least try something because we haven't got to yet. what do i do? what do i say? should i just spill everything? i've come on to him pretty strongly the past few weeks casue he hasn't spoken much to me. i'm number 1 on him myspace && he is on mine. i've supported him && wished him luck && he's talked to me a little about it &&he's excited about the navy. && i've told him i'm happy for him. he knows i'm crazy about him...&& i think he feels the same towards me. what do i do?
2007-02-22 16:46:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was in corp, and live in an army town. You have two choices. You can tell him, and be willing to marry, and move to be with him, or you can leave it as it is. If you tell him now, you may add to stress he will have on him while at boot camp, if you get married things happen in the miltary life that you can't control, and even though he can go to jail for cheating it happens alot. really. but you said you don't think he wants to start something right before he leaves, I would say let it go. when he gets back from boot on leave is when you might, want to say something if you think this will work.
2007-02-22 17:06:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Think you should tell him, How you feel cause I had boyfriend
i never told him that I was in love with before. to make long
story short Things would have turned out differently if he knew.
he got back in touch with last year when he was in Iraq.
we both wished we would have said I love you, but never did
so he now married and is happy. So do not leave anything
un said.
2007-02-22 17:17:14 · answer #2 · answered by Krissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, my guy lives way far away too, I knew him for a really long time, if I didn't tell him how i feel then we might not have ever known the truth and that would have been a real shame. I think that you should tell him how you feel and see if he feels the same. Good luck! :D
2007-02-22 16:53:53 · answer #3 · answered by sunshineangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hasn't said anything to you yet probably because he's afraid of hurting you in the long run or take the friendship very serious. You could try talking to him, I'm sure it wouldn't hurt anything. But be ready for anything just in case.
2007-02-22 16:52:48 · answer #4 · answered by shy_gal2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show him that you support his plans and whatever happens you will be there for him (if you can really wait lol)... Its gonna be tough you know he will be gone for a year for bootcamp after that he will gone for longer again... so you might want to think too that he dont want commitments yet... and if you can understand that and still wait for him... GOOD FOR YOU...
2007-02-22 16:59:21 · answer #5 · answered by Cess B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for him it will grow into something on its own, if you both feel the way you say yall do then it will happen just take it slow.
2007-02-22 16:50:36 · answer #6 · answered by molenz69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he knows what you want...tell him anyway to reiterate the point and let him know that you might not wait for him-(although you probly feel like you could)...at least get him thinking, and ask his opinion
2007-02-22 16:50:18 · answer #7 · answered by MrMeT00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋