I recently broke up with my boyfren coz my parents thot he wasnt rite 4me.he realy hates me now,and doesnt wanna speak 2me at all,but there are some moments when he does.but i feel sry for him n jus wanna contact him,even if its jus to say hi n ask how his day has been. should i do this? should i tell him how much i miss him? advice needed!!!
2007-02-22 16:42:55 · 13 answers · asked by quest 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lol...I'm goin through the same thing....don't call him.....let him call you. I'm not saying play games but you need to let him know that he isn't always in control of the situation. Girl....stand your ground and let him know WHEN HE CALLS YOU....that its not okay to be an azz hole to you just whenever he "feels like it"....i KNOW ITS HARD BUT ITS WORTH IT!!!!
trust me!!!
2007-02-22 16:47:11 · answer #1 · answered by CMA 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
All I can say is follow you heart. Your parents have been young too and I am sure that they may have had feeling for other people. I suggest if you care about him contact him as much as you can and If he turns out to not be the right one for you, then it is o.k. because everyone learn from life experiences, TAKE THE CHANCE!!!!!!!
2007-02-22 16:52:34 · answer #2 · answered by LiL B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look if you were too young or too wimpy to stand up for your love I do not blame him for being angry with you. So what do you want now. You dumped the poor guy so now leave him alone. Why are you gonna keep pouring salt in the wound? You chose to obey your parents, so obey and stop contacting the boy they do not want you to see.
2007-02-22 16:47:37 · answer #3 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe just trying to be friends will only hurt him more. If you are not going to go out with him again it is time to move on. Speak politely if you run into him in public but do not tell him how much you miss him..... you will only make it harder for your both.
2007-02-22 16:49:27 · answer #4 · answered by GoesBananas 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just leave him alone for now. talking to you probably makes him feel bad so if you keep your space, it will help him get over you.
if you really do miss him and still want to be with him, then why dont you? dont let your parents control who you date.
but dont tell him how you really feel unless you are committed to getting back together with him, otherwise youll just cause him more pain.
hope that helps and goodluck!
2007-02-22 16:48:58 · answer #5 · answered by How Sweet It Is 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my advice is that you listen to your parents it can be hard i know but you see recently i was in the same situations you are now and almost always i was in trouble with my family and law its always best to do what you know is right learn from your mistakes and trust your instinct
2007-02-22 16:59:26 · answer #6 · answered by coconaut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...since you handed that choice of breaking up over to your parents, why don't you ask them if you should speak?
2007-02-22 16:46:53 · answer #7 · answered by oohhbother 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. follow your heart if you don't tell a person how you feel how do you ever expect them to know?if he still doesn't want to talk to you at least you know you tried. it takes some people longer than others to get over there hurt or pain we have caused on them,so if he or when he's ready he'll talk to you if he really wants to.
2007-02-22 16:49:27 · answer #8 · answered by tjenk0308 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
nah i was in a pretty similar situation and my ex contacted me...but all it did was remind me of the good times and make me miss her, it was better just to have her completely out of my life, than litte bits here and there. it was like she was teasing me.
2007-02-22 16:47:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well the wrong thing you did was broke up with him cause how your parents feel about him you are the one who loves him not your parents
2007-02-22 16:47:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋