My boyfriend broke up w/ me what should i say to get him back because we were engaged and i know he still care

Question

please answer asap

Answer 1

you should just get on with your life

Answer 2

This doesnt make any sense. If he still cares about you, then why would he break up with you in the first place? I'd sit him down and ask him why he broke up with you. There's got to be some kind of reason behind it. If you feel you can fix it and still be together then propose that you work through it. If love wasnt a fight then what would it be worth? If you cant work through it then let it go. HE broke up with you, not the other way around. He obviously missed how great you are, otherwise he would have stayed with you. Good luck :)

Answer 3

Why do you want him back? If he broke off the engagement you should consider yourself lucky. Stop trying to get him back. Obviously he does not love you enough to marry. If you push this you are gonna be sorry. Play the sad songs and get out the ice cream or whatever you need to do to get this behind you because girlfriend I am sorry to tell ya this is not gonna work out and your are probably much better off even if you don't feel that way right now. Do not sell yourself so cheeply. Do not chase the man that broke your heart, he will only do it again if you give him the chance

Answer 4

this is a very touchy thing. it isn't what you should say but what you should do to get him back. he is confused about how he feels otherwise known as "cold feet" the thing to do...which this has been worn out, but it really works... you should ignore him and be sure to "have lots of fun" and if it is really broke then date someone else and make him jealous. this jealousy should snap him back to his senses and he won't be afraid to love you anymore. if not then he just isn't ready and ask him if he would like to start slower by casual dating. give him this little bit of space he obviously needs because he is confused. tell him it is fine with you that the engagement is off because (even if you are lying) tell him you were having some second thoughts to and you would like to take it slower. it will work if you still loves you i promise...... good luck.

Answer 5

Why did you guys break up? Did you cheat on him? If you cheated on him, then pucker up because you have a lot of *** kissing to do. A letter might help you get him back. But you have to express your deep feelings or just be a good writer. Let him know that you are sorry.

If you did nothing wrong and he just dumped you, then do not call him. Begging a guy to take you back is bad for business. You should let him realize on his own that he cares. Let him act on it. A friend of mine just got dumped and she kept calling him and calling him and calling him. He eventually got annoyed and stopped picking up her calls and blocked calls.

You need to let him miss you. Don't let him see you down and out. Thats the biggest mistake that a woman could do. Everytime you see him, act super nice, happy, look great. Watch how quickly he'll come crawling back. Things happen for a reason. He might not be the one for you or you not the one for him. You've heard the saying, "When you love something, let it go, if it comes back to you, its yours. If it doesn't, it never was." I know you two were engaged but you need to let him know that its his lost, not yours. If you gained a couple of pounds, lose them. LOOKING GREAT IS THE SWEETEST REVENGE. and KINDNESS KILLS.

one last thing, if it doesn't work, then just know that sometimes you can't help the way you feel. And if he felt that he didn't see you in his future, then don't hate him for that. Respect him for it b/c he could've let you make the biggest mistake of your life, as well. I would rather a man be with me because he loved me and couldn't stand to be without me, then a man who married me out of pity. You wouldn't sacrifice your happiness for another person, would you?

Answer 6

Briana Honey, if he still cares he is the one who should be asking this question. So give him time to work up the strength to come back to you. If he does not come back in a week, then I am sorry sweetie, but I guess he was never yours in the first place. God works in strange ways and this break up may be for the best. Trust in God and get along with your life. God Bless you...I'll say a little prayer for you.

Answer 7

Why did he break up? Maybe he just needs some time to think it over. Tell him you are still around if he wants to talk, and then pursue your life, and show him what he is missing. Maybe if he sees that you are able to keep the relationship functional even though he is having problems, he will feel more comfortable with taking the next big step.

Answer 8

Here is somethin that you can tell him:

I love you and I feel so miserable without you . I think that we should give ourselves a second chance or we might end up regretting we never took the chance. I know that we can work things out . I promise I will love you more .

I hope this helps if it don't then its his lost since I feel that you truly love him.

Answer 9

Tell him you love him and ask him if he really wants to alter you and his future by not continuting on with the engagement and marriage. Tell him times ticking and he needs to make the right decision or he will regret it for the rest of his life.

Answer 10

There's nothing you can say that will guarantee he will come back. The best you can do is tell him that you love him and are willing to sit down and talk about what ever is bothering him. Maybe it is something simple that can be fixed and maybe not. All you can do is ask.

Answer 11

depends why he broke up...if you were engaged then it must have been something pretty big that made him do it because guys dont like breaking up with girls. dont nag him and give him space because then he will start to miss you...thats all i can say without knowing the situation