What do you think about someone that says he fell out of love with her and then a week later says I love her?

Question

Which is it?

Answer 1

the reason i believe this happens is because he is having an affair with someone else, and isn't yet sure of the other woman, so he keeps u there just in case it doesn't work out with the other woman he is seeing. but this is no good for the wife, she is confused, doesn't know what to do, and can't make a move either way, because she thinks there may still be a chance for her. he is playing with your heart. i would believe the first thing he said before i would believe anything else. talk is cheap i would look at his actions first. he is just not getting along with who he is seeing so he has to tell the wife he still loves her, so he will not find himself out there with no one.

Answer 2

It's a load of crap. No one falls out of love within a week and then falls back in love. The guy obviously doesn't know what love is. The fickle thing can be figured out easily. There's usually a third party involved. In other words, he's met someone else and thinks he might want that other person but, he really can't decide. Time to make up his mind for him and dump the fickle bastard.

Men like that aren't really men. They're just boys trying to be men. Sickening.

Answer 3

Ok, am I the only person in this world that thinks the line, "I love you, but I'm not IN LOVE with you", is the biggest crock of **** ever? If my man told me that he had 'fallen out of love with me' then **** him, its over! He can't decide to love me every other day or week, that's just crap!

Oh and to answer the question, he doesn't love her.

Answer 4

I fully agree with 'Xena's Keeper' Crisp plain talk and you will be well advised to listen to her advice.

Answer 5

I'd think it's time to look for the loose screw. It's got to be in there somewhere.

Answer 6

not even the quoted party can probably answer that question......