i am in love with a girl whom i love too much for her i left my country,my family even my job to get her.she is 9years junior to me.she also love me too much but she afraid of her mom to accept me.as her mom dont like me.but she promise me she will marry me after two years but its not possible for me to stay in another country for that long.so what should i do now please advise me.
2007-02-22 17:11:00 · 16 answers · asked by amit s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
No she is not ready for marriage if she is still afraid of her mom. You sound obsessed and you should see someone professionally to get some help. Like I said before in your other question, Leave the girl alone, she is a girl and not ready for the commitmment of marriage. Chill out, dude and give it a rest.
2007-02-22 17:14:18 · answer #1 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this girl underage? Why is she so worried about what her mom thinks? You already know what you have to do. You don't have much of a choice here. She's going to marry you in 2(!) years?!? Come on, if you're gonna do it, do it. The mom isn't going to like you in any more in two years than she does now. This chick is blowing smoke up your a**. Find someone who isn't afraid of their mommy. She's using her mom's lack of approval as an excuse to not marry you. Odds are, she really doesn't want to marry you at all. Sorry. Time to go back to your country and find a real woman who says what she means and means what she says.
2007-02-23 01:15:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
MARRY HER! She loves you so much that she's afraid to accept you. Do the spelling.
And yeah, I think you guys are compatible. Immature and desperate go together. Wait, is she 4 years old?
2007-02-23 06:09:33 · answer #3 · answered by Dar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have to decide on whether you think its worth waiting for and possibly marrying, or just giving up and leaving. No one can answer this question but you, if you feel she will hold to her words then stay. If she does what her parents tell her then maybe she isnt ready for real commitment anyways. You need to really think about this.
2007-02-23 01:17:15 · answer #4 · answered by manny 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love is a curious thing , but ask yourself this can I grow old with this person, and then answer the question, then work on all of it and then talk to the person.
2007-02-23 01:15:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok which version would you like to hear....
a) (the answer you want to hear) definatly go for her you love her she loves you whats wrong with that.
b) (the answer you NEED to hear) NO way dude find someone who's parents exept you and whos not soooo much younger than you that she's still afraid of her mum
xoxo
sarah
2007-02-23 01:19:09 · answer #6 · answered by Lostfairytale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take hike home Borat. You loser creep. Girl Mom smarter you than. Find sheep or goat you love better.
2007-02-23 01:53:20 · answer #7 · answered by warhorse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not seeing her mother. Her mother should not play any role in her decisions on whom she sees. Your woman should be independent and secure with herself and rely on her own decisions. Love can be blind, just make sure that she is not pulling the wool over your eyes and using her mother as an excuse as to not seeing you.
2007-02-23 01:17:42 · answer #8 · answered by Adriels Mom 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Did she really loves you or not? Can't she fight for you for the sake love. So what !!! if her mother doesn't like you I guess she shouldn't be afraid because you will marry her not her mother!!! What's the reaSON TO BE AFRAID hE HE He!!!
2007-02-23 03:38:49 · answer #9 · answered by rach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude. Go back home and get a home girl whose mom and dad will approve. sometimes you will need them when the road gets tough. you do not need that drama and interference!
2007-02-23 01:15:12 · answer #10 · answered by Arene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋