Family & Relationships - 21 February 2007

i have had the same two best friends since i was in the 6th grade now we're seniors and we have got into this big fight...it hurts so bad they are ignoring me and leaving me out of everything....and the worse part is that i dont even know why their mad at me....so heres me situation one of my bf's lets call her michelle is mad at me for some reason, and she told my other bf jane and now jane is mad at me too but it has nothing to do with her shouldnt she be trying to help us with our fight rather than join sides and just ignore me too for something she has absoultly nothing to do with??? iv tried to confront them both already very politely asking them to talk but michelle just laughs and turns her back and jane just stands there like an idiot ..... look i love these girls and dont know what to do without them can someone help what should i do

2007-02-21 01:17:25 · 10 answers · asked by manda_kookie 1 in Friends

I am finding it VERY hard to move on. I met this guy 8 months ago, me 24 he 28. We gelled RIGHT FROM THE START. We were like best buddies as well as lovers, he said to me at the time that he wasn't looking for a relationship right now, but that he really likes me etc and got so close to a point where he wouldn't get intimate with me anymore after 1 0r 2 occasions as he didn't want to hurt me or lead me on which use to frustrate me!! Then over the months we started getting even closer so we started talking about starting something. We even lived togther 4 a while. But then he would go through a fase of not acting like the perfect boyfriend, probably because he just WASN'T in the frame of mind and probably knew what he was talking about from the start as it wouldn't be fair on me! So we would argue & then the final break at the end of the year where he said lets be friends for now temporarly as it is not fair for him to put me through this but that he does want to b wit me in the future.

2007-02-21 01:17:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Guys please!

2007-02-21 01:16:57 · 9 answers · asked by Holmes 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-21 01:16:38 · 5 answers · asked by INDER S 1 in Friends

i like this boy hes looked at me a few times and ive done everything to get his attention and impress him but it hasnt worked what can i do to impress him please please please help me

2007-02-21 01:16:03 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The other morning, I was sick with this stomach bug that is going around...it really knocked me for a loop.

Well, my wife made lunch plans with her cousin that day...

So, as sick as I was, my wife INSISTED I come out of the bed/bath room to greet her cousin...so I made my way to the couch.

Some small talk insued, and just when my wife was leaving she said:

"I think I forgot deodorant" to which she inserted a finger into her arm pit, removed it and sniffed...

She noticed she didnt' have any on, and went into the other room to apply deodorant.

Her cousin shook her head at that gesture, to which I made the comment:

"You think thats gross, you ought to see how she checks to see if she has her period"

The cousin gave me a dirty look and left.

They went to lunch and she told my wife about the comment...My wife came home FUMING at me for disrespecting her in front of family and is quite angry...how do I correct this situation???

2007-02-21 01:15:24 · 15 answers · asked by Ted Arcidi 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband and his mother(who i love dearly)keep leaving me out on sittuations. like my husband will call his mom and ask her to get stuff for him and not even tell me what he needs. and she will ask him for money or whatever and niether of them will tell me. what do i do? do i just leave it be... or do i put my foot down? how do i do it?

2007-02-21 01:15:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-02-21 01:14:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

should u try 2 fight her or try 2 make peace wit her since she's ur friend.

2007-02-21 01:12:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I just have to walk down the street and men go crazy...as if they've never seen a woman before. I'm disgusted by the way some men are. I can't even wear a short skirt anywhere coz men are too perverted.......yuk!

2007-02-21 01:11:49 · 36 answers · asked by WHATEVER!!` 2 in Singles & Dating

I work with a girl that i have a huge crush on. We always joke around and laugh so much at work together. We have a great deal in common. I enjoy her precense immensly and it seems to me she enjoys mine as well. We have a great deal of respect for each other, and I feel there is some type of bond between us. The only problem is I'm in love with her and am not sure she feels the same for me. I think she may have a crush on me too, but since we work together we are both hesitant to do anything about it because we have a great relationship as it stands now. How can i find out if she likes me more than a friend without asking her?

2007-02-21 01:11:45 · 3 answers · asked by jigga 1 in Singles & Dating

I broke up with my boyfriend about 2 months ago...our relationship lasted for 4 years. With him, i was happy but a lot of times he always blame me for everything, he cheated me twice by internet chatting, when hes mad, he shouts at me and he says things that really hurts my feelings. I got fed up and i gave up...since then he never stopped calling me, crying over the phone and asking me to forgive him for all the things he did that hurt me. In that 2 months time i started chatting to help me move on, I used myspace and i met a guy... we talked since then, and then we decided to meet in person. we had a date and everything went smoothly..he is so sweet and i thought he liked me for what i am coz i was a bit chubby. Then after we went home he started to change suddenly. I felt really sorry for myself. What should i do? should i go back to my ex-bf? or should i stay single and focus my attention to just my self and school. I need a serious advice... thank you...

2007-02-21 01:10:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was offered a really good job but it requires us to move half way accross country. I feel it would be a great fresh start. It is going back to were he grew up at. He (my boyfriend and father of my two children) doesn't want to move but i have lived here all my life and I really want to move. Where we are now is bardly scrapping by check to check. The job offered would put us in a much higher pay bracket which neither of us has ever seen before. So my question to everyone is how do i convince him to go with it. Making our lives much better.

2007-02-21 01:09:28 · 7 answers · asked by kat 2 in Family

he has a girlfriend but might not even like her

2007-02-21 01:09:10 · 8 answers · asked by kaylene s 1 in Singles & Dating

I was just wondering, because I have been really checking out this hot chick everyday..and I need her to make me stop!

2007-02-21 01:08:28 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It's been a month since the split, should I wait for her to call or should I call her.

2007-02-21 01:08:07 · 8 answers · asked by sean m 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-21 01:07:49 · 10 answers · asked by ♥mcmanda♥ 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-21 01:07:27 · 6 answers · asked by atbkkj 4 in Singles & Dating

i rele like this 1 boy and yesterday he sed he dont want 2 b friends with me anymore cos i have changed (meaning my clothes and stuff the music im into) he said he had really strong feelings for me and wanted 2 be more than just friends... i dont want 2 change but should i for him? but then i think it shouldnt matter what i dress like im still me on the inside im just changed on the outside please help me.xx

2007-02-21 01:07:06 · 20 answers · asked by MissJay 3 in Singles & Dating

I asked a question whether or not ladies obtain a man's SS# before sleeping with him. Every single one of you thought that it was strange and basically an invasion of privacy. QUESTION: What do you think is more precious your body or your social? You think of identity theft and all the possilbe wrongs that can be made against you with someone having that valuable information.
Do you all not feel that when you engage in sexual activities with someone that you are not only opening your body up to that person but also your soul. I believe that the invasion of your soul can create far greater loss would occur with a social security number. What do you think which one is more precious your social or you soul?

2007-02-21 01:06:22 · 6 answers · asked by little lamb 4 in Singles & Dating

i just talked with this guy which happens to be from a gang,and it went kinnda awkward,would u just give me a clue about what i'm gonne say next time?and to make it clear i'm 16.

2007-02-21 01:04:47 · 9 answers · asked by ursis 1 in Friends

I have been having problems with my Husband, He brought frustration to my heart. He started disrespecting me seriously, embrassing me infront of people,having no time for me, coming late home early in the morning saying he has been dinking with friends, having phone calls where i suspected that he is taking to a girl if i ask who that was he will say its a friend. Last Friday he reached home 01:00 it really hurt me badly, it made me wonder why iam with him he found me packing my clothes ready to go back to my parents i wanted a divorce seriously. He pleaded that i shoud'nt but i had made up my mind he cried and said he wants to be frank coz he loves me so much he said he has an affair with a certain woman it shock me i was touched i cried painfully he said he will take me to my parents and tell them he loves me i should forgive him and start a new life he will change , i said enough is enough, but we went they were told it toched them too but adviced me to go back forgive and forget.

2007-02-21 01:04:16 · 22 answers · asked by Poki 1 in Marriage & Divorce

☺ok i'vew got 3 sucking projects that i've got to work on from today onwards until the coming monday! i don't how i'm going to submit it.. anyway let me tell you that every project will be about 50-60 pages. i'm searching all around and i'm not finding it.

well, i thought of not going to school tommorow to search once agian, but i have to ask mom for it >>> my life suckes yeah?
and i know mom will get mad at me because she will say you have to attend lessons in school which you can't miss. Mom don't understand it!

My friend (she will not come tommorow to school) told me that if i'll be absent she will come to my house in the morning to work on the other project that we should do togather.

So i need to tell mom now but i don't dare to tell her !??? what can i do ????
uh... i'm tried of school.mom. researches, projects!

2007-02-21 01:03:58 · 2 answers · asked by Joelle 2 in Family

he said he loved me too much and thats why he had to leave

2007-02-21 01:03:14 · 16 answers · asked by vickylou 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My fiancee. Because of small misunderstanding. She got married to some one else. Will she support him in all means.
Or she will still worry about me. Am still not yet married.
What generally all womens think. Everytime I see her on the market, beach. She just looks at me. I keep my head down and move on. What I should do

2007-02-21 01:03:06 · 8 answers · asked by Shanthi R 1 in Singles & Dating

is my turn to think of something - and I cannot think of a damn thing lol

HELP

what is your kinkyest fantsay? I need help

2007-02-21 01:03:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it maybe because shes not as sexy as them on the sites like hidden voger cams and that

2007-02-21 01:02:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

There are too many romantic songs out there so I need help picking one!

2007-02-21 01:02:31 · 31 answers · asked by Louise B 2 in Weddings

2007-02-21 01:01:54 · 9 answers · asked by deeps 1 in Friends

I am 17 and have been dating a 21 year old man for 7 months. I made a HUGE mistake in not telling my parents becuase 1) i was scared of what they would say and 2) I didn't think the relationship would last. Now I am head over heels in love with this man, and I want to tell my parents. However, I'm really scared to how they'll react. Any advice on how to approach them? I was thinking of tellimg my mom first and seperatly. ??

2007-02-21 01:01:23 · 8 answers · asked by KnottyJ 5 in Singles & Dating