Family & Relationships - 21 February 2007

Long story short: My ex & I broke up last summer & he is married now.It was an ugly break up. He has been married about 7 months.When we see each other out places he flirts alot, ask me to eat lunch with him & makes sex jokes about what we used to do.My best friend is usally with me & she always says how he has began acting the same way he did when we first met.I got into a heated arguement w/him 2 nights ago & I told him to stop playing games with my head because his behavior is leading me on & I dont want to be hurt.He says he isnt cheating, "it's just talk"..I walked away from him & told him to leave me alone.Yesterday he spotted my friend & I and followed us to a gas station and pulled up next to us just to say hi.He was starring at me.I said hi. He said a joke to make me laugh before they pulled off.Why does he keep doing this? I told him the night before that his behavior is leading me on & he is acting things out without actaully touching me.Has any one else had this problem?

2007-02-21 00:44:01 · 12 answers · asked by Wisdom 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-21 00:43:52 · 8 answers · asked by snehesh 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-21 00:40:12 · 8 answers · asked by kittygirlwhoilove 2 in Singles & Dating

before sleeping with him. just in case you may need it later. do men quickly give you their socials and if a man does give you his social does it mean he loves you?

2007-02-21 00:39:59 · 20 answers · asked by little lamb 4 in Singles & Dating

if you had a boyfriend and you had broke up with him and you wented to go out with one of his home boy or bestfriend will it be wrong to do that or not. and i went some help and gave ideas.

2007-02-21 00:39:30 · 7 answers · asked by mz.bowwow 2 in Singles & Dating

"She’s not put off by my bad habits”
The case history: “Marissa is the only girl I’ve dated that doesn’t get grossed out by my bad habits. I’ll put the empty OJ carton back in the fridge, and I’ve been known to make certain bodily noises at inopportune times (like when I’m standing right next to her). I knew she was a keeper, though, while I was clipping my toenails in bed one night. A toenail flew out and hit her on her eyebrow! Most girls would have freaked out, but she just laughed and punched me in the arm. Obviously, I have some bad traits… so for her not to hassle me about them? I’m the luckiest guy I know.”
—Danny Murphy, 31, Clarksville, TN; dating Marissa for three years

Just wondered what it would have been if it was her toenail...
What do you think?

2007-02-21 00:38:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Check out this video guys, and girls if you want but mostly this is a video for guys.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lg9IkttTQtk

Personally I am not attracted to huge breasts, most of the comments for this video seem to indicate that most guys are. Figured I'd pop over here to get some additional commentation.

Don't bother with the she must be uncomfortable comments and just assume that they don't bother her.

So what are guys opinions?

Are they...

a. Too big.
b. Just right.
c. There's no such thing as too big.
or
d. I didn't even notice her breasts....

2007-02-21 00:37:06 · 3 answers · asked by Justaguyinaplace 4 in Singles & Dating

should i go to the person i like last bball game??
it is like 3h a way from my house my mom would be driving me and a friend she wont let me drive down ther =( so should i go there might not be any one els from are school the idk if i should or not its friday!!

2007-02-21 00:36:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do i get over her. the pain of not seeing her is great and it dominates me. after 6 years i just don't know how to deal with this.

2007-02-21 00:36:06 · 8 answers · asked by varia 1 in Singles & Dating

All u loved up people out there who know their with the1,their true love,their soul mate-how did u know they were the1 and when did u know it?
Did u just feel it and know from early on? xxx

2007-02-21 00:35:57 · 16 answers · asked by jo 4 in Singles & Dating

But the problem is we dont really communicate

2007-02-21 00:35:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It has been 2 years since I have dated. I could use advice, suggestions as to getting back into the dating scene.

2007-02-21 00:35:38 · 1 answers · asked by mcneill_35 2 in Singles & Dating

i skiped school to go see my boyfriend and get me some and my parents told me not to but they dont get home untill an hour after schools out so what kind of excuse should i use to get myself out of trouble if i get caught waht about somthing along the lines of i told u i was fealing sick and about 7:00 i threw up like 4 times and by the time i got all cleaned up it was to late to get to the bus i had allredy missed it!

2007-02-21 00:35:37 · 4 answers · asked by krissy m 1 in Singles & Dating

this new guy of mine, really likes to get into things, sometimes a bit weird lol (but a good weird) it is "my turn" to think of something really fun, guys (and girls) I need your idea, NOW!

Thank you, Amanda

2007-02-21 00:34:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a huge crush on this girl who has a BF in another city. I'm a 2nd year MBA and she's a 1st year. I helped her out with intrvw preparation and got the feeling throughout that she seemed interested in me as well. We have a lot in common, grew up in the same city, have similar career goals. Fortunately for me, I'm going to the most desirable firm in that field post-MBA -- so she's seem me repeatedly at various school events as a panelist, organizer, etc for these interview assistance events. I have a feeling that she admires me for this. A few weeks ago, at our third meeting, I helped her with intrvw preparation and we shared a LOT of laughs and talked about other stuff as well. She seems like a real sweet girl and her BF is very lucky! She emailed me the same day and suggested that we do dinner or get drinks after all the intrvw tension is over for her. We're having drinks tonite and I'm nervous, realize I shouldn't mess with a girl who has a BF, but she's just gorgeous! What now?

2007-02-21 00:34:44 · 8 answers · asked by riddler 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-21 00:34:28 · 17 answers · asked by jana s 1 in Weddings

can some body be my friend

i'm a teen and puerto rican

2007-02-21 00:33:54 · 18 answers · asked by jerenluis 2 in Friends

I've been in a long term relationship- 2 years now and i broke up with the guy. i used to be popular and had guys eating out of my palm. I seem to have forgotten the rules of the game and the strangest thing is i do not remember how you're supposed to act on your own.
I have started a relationship a month ago and i seem to be unwanted. the guy says he doesn't want to break up with me and keeps the problems to himself...
And yes, i do not know how to get a guy, nor do i know how to handle this one...
What should i do?

2007-02-21 00:33:51 · 13 answers · asked by Madeline 2 in Singles & Dating

He wants to put a tatoo with his name on me but I don't like tatoo into my skin. and I don't want to upset him...How I am I supposed to tell him the truth?

2007-02-21 00:31:23 · 37 answers · asked by sweet 1 in Family

does it mean that im not ready for sex, if i want to have the lights out, i am 29 and have not had sex yet, but am thinking of it, no lights can be on though, is this a bad thing

2007-02-21 00:28:11 · 30 answers · asked by jen 1 in Singles & Dating

Although we share the same birth date, he is 7 years older than me! We are both quite forceful characters, although he is more able than me to listen to others and accept their view points - Can it work?

2007-02-21 00:28:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

like I mean in the dark out in the back yard, anyone done that? Planning on giving it a try tonight lol

ANY IDEAS???

2007-02-21 00:27:19 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am not getting along well with the girl I'm dating right now. The thing is, she is so clean and tight down there! I don't want to let her go because of that. So, if I were shopping for a new gf, how do I know she will have the same level of quality?

2007-02-21 00:25:14 · 10 answers · asked by Poster_22 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, there is a guy I like very, very much (so does my best friend and some more girls from my class). We have come closer this year but we're just friends. I don't think he has a girlfriend.
The problem is that I can't tell if he feels something for me, what he thinks, or how to make the first move, he's pretty popular you see and i don't really have much experience. Some say I shouldn't do anything cuz I may ruin a friendship.. What can I do??? I don't want to hurt my best friend but I can't take this situation much longer! Help?

2007-02-21 00:25:12 · 5 answers · asked by selini 1 in Singles & Dating

I been married for 7 years we been together for 10 years we have two daughters 8 and 2. I think it's wrong for him to go to the strip clubs. Is that wrong? He can watch and and look at anything at home. I hate it when he wants to go out and see these girls. It hurts.

2007-02-21 00:25:01 · 23 answers · asked by Stay@homemom 1 in Marriage & Divorce

from the elimentary school I dint like being so close to someone, when friends tried to be close to me I felt a little bit uncomfortable. I usually loved being alone doing something by myself . this character contiued until now.

I graduated from university and learned life( I am still learning)

honestly , in this material world , I think true friendship or love is almost impossible to get.

they say " you are my friend" " I love you" but sooner or later they are disappointed at each other.

So I dont try to make relationship at all now, I know it will make discomfort . I have a gf but we know we are not posessive.we will not marry.but we repect each other.

am I COLD HEARTED person or do i live wrong life, sometimes I wonder.

2007-02-21 00:24:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay. Short story:
Taken guy. I like taken Guy. Signs Taken guy lies me?

Long story:
Okay. I'm a freshman. He's a sophmore. She's a Senior. (Grr)
I am completely in love with this kid. I've known him for about 6 months, and sat next to him in many classes. He just makes me smile, laugh, and love everything. He does these stupid little things, and says the dumbest stuff, and i just can't see myself with anyone else. Its gotten so bad, that I'm just not attracted to other guys anymore. I dumped my own boyfriend be cause I realised i just didn't like him. And It's not even that this boy is physically attractive. Its just his personality.

Signs he gives off:
Well he always makes and holds eyecontact for the entire conversation.
He gives me huge smiles
In bio, we have swivel chairs, and he spins around just to wave to me.
He has stupid little names for me
He treats me like one of "the guys"
He steals my gum (jerk!)
And when he looks at me, its like.. his eyes get softer.

2007-02-21 00:24:02 · 3 answers · asked by Me 1 in Singles & Dating

I want the best of the best but am unsure where to start looking. Any answers appreciated. Thanks

2007-02-21 00:23:46 · 27 answers · asked by Matt W 1 in Weddings

This guy I was talking to...and then I told him I had to talk to another guy and he signed out..why can't he wait...what is wrong with him? He is a 9th grader.

2007-02-21 00:23:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am getting married at City Hall and I really don't want to dress up but I don't know what I should wear.....any suggestions?

2007-02-21 00:23:04 · 9 answers · asked by free_spirit5230 2 in Weddings