How do i get over her. the pain of not seeing her is great and it dominates me. after 6 years i just don't know how to deal with this.
2007-02-21 00:36:06 · 8 answers · asked by varia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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Man up! After 6 years, you shouldn't be asking this question.
I mean, after 6 years, if she hasn't asked you back or made resolutions to bring you back into her life like you were - here's the reality: she's moved on. It's time for you, too, as well.
Man, don't allow the memories to distort your perception. You're hung up on the convenience of having a partner that you lived with, not necessarily HER.
The women you've probably dated were disqualified because you've measured them up to her - which is not fair to those ladies, if you have been dating.
Let go and appreciate where you are right now. After all, it's BEEN 6 YEARS!
MAN UP!
2007-02-21 01:04:14 · answer #1 · answered by HottNikkels 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get busy. do some form of sport. pick up a new hobby. meet new people. do volunteer work. get a pet. take up a new course. learn a new language. the list goes on. life is out there, but you have to take the first move to go get it! you've got to believe there's life after her.
2007-02-21 00:50:51 · answer #2 · answered by Jade Ice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i know how u feel! i've been through it myself with a guy that i loved a whole lot so i really do know how u feel! i just wasn't wit him for 4 years it was like 2 years. But all i can really do is wish u luck and just try and talk to her just tell her u need to talk to her to try and keep this relationship! good luck!
2007-02-21 00:46:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to look beyond the hurt. join clubs be with other people, find a best friend, hearts do heal and mend but only if you focus on healing not what was ..
2007-02-21 00:42:03 · answer #4 · answered by Tapestry6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say call her. I am more than sure she still cries 4 U. more often than not she feels the same & yall belong together. keep ur head up & give her a buzz....
2007-02-21 00:42:45 · answer #5 · answered by k2cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drugs.
2007-02-21 00:39:05 · answer #6 · answered by Edub 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
go drop by sometime or ask her out for some coffee or somethin
2007-02-21 00:39:10 · answer #7 · answered by shirubiah 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
give it time and stay busy
2007-02-21 00:39:13 · answer #8 · answered by amanda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋