Family & Relationships - 21 February 2007

My MIL is putting a stress on my marriage. She has been nothing but trouble since we had our daughter 4 years ago. We have rules that she will not follow and she is quite rude. When ever we tell her of her rules she starts to cry and bad mouths us to the rest of the family. When my daughter was a baby she use to grab her out of my hands while I feeding her. She use to pinch my daughter to wake her up so she could hold her. She would be at our house every single day. We resolved that issue since we moved 25 minutes away, now she tells the rest of the family that we are taking her grandchild away from her. I found out through another family member that she was trying to find an apartment big enough for our daughter to move in with her. When I confronted her she told me that my daughter was her baby and should be living with her. If I tell her not to come over anymore it will cause a rift with the rest of the family. Please help me any advice will be greatly appreciated.

2007-02-21 01:01:14 · 3 answers · asked by snugglesrn 2 in Family

HELP!
She's one of my best friends and she can be very spiteful and vindictive when she wants to be. And I'm afraid she will never forgive me after she finds out this. She recently started going out with this boy, and she's madly in love with him. I made friends with him as well (only friends!) and lately he told some people that he fancies me. I don't like him in that way and I've tried everything to lure him away (including dressing like a hobo and eating garlic!). Me and my other friends have tried to tell her that he's not a loyal boyfriend but she just won't listen. =S I'm so scared she will find out.

=S

2007-02-21 01:01:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

why do guys use girls even if the girls are models and in a band and are really nice ?

2007-02-21 01:01:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is an image i've found, a wedding bouquet consisting of mysteen orchids....can anyone tell me which ones are those....
http://chineseweddingsbytheknot.com/odb/themes/chineseweddings/DetailView.aspx?type=1&p.style=chinese&wedding_details=gown&id=15561

2007-02-21 01:00:09 · 2 answers · asked by Blackmore 1 in Weddings

2007-02-21 00:59:27 · 4 answers · asked by june 2 in Family

we blow,lovers come nd go, but a friend like u i'll never let go.

2007-02-21 00:58:35 · 6 answers · asked by mz.bowwow 2 in Singles & Dating

Im 13

2007-02-21 00:57:44 · 19 answers · asked by Katja ie tattybow 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for about 6 months now, but the only problem is when i met him he already had a girlfriend and also two kids. For the last couple of months he has been lieing to me telling me they were over and that he wanted me. But a couple of days ago his so called girlfriend that he was with before me rang my phone so i asked questions for example if they were together an had they slept together and she told me different to what he told me. For the last couple of months he have been sleeping with me and also sleeping with her. But he had ended it with her yesterday and told her he wanted to be with me. So i asked him if we are going to start fresh i want sum answers so i asked him if he as back with her when he told me he wasn't an he said yes, i asked had he slept with her behind my back an he said yes to that. Is there any1 that can tell me what to do cauz i cant find the answers. plz

2007-02-21 00:56:46 · 30 answers · asked by ABBY X 1 in Singles & Dating

how would you know what to say around a really.. really hott guy?????????

2007-02-21 00:56:25 · 3 answers · asked by tiffany h 1 in Friends

2007-02-21 00:56:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Someone asked me, what is it like being married? I baffled by this because i never thought of it! I enjoy being married,but finding the words is a bit tough!Help!

2007-02-21 00:54:40 · 14 answers · asked by puzzled 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I had to go to a beach party with my bf tonight but due to unavoidable reasons i cannot make it . But as their is couple entry he is going along with some other girl ( I don't even know that girl ).
This has upset me and i am very disappointed with my bf.
What should i do ?

2007-02-21 00:54:35 · 13 answers · asked by nishi 1 in Singles & Dating

I mean do you think circumstances and/or locations (such as being far away from friends or family...including wife...for work for a LONG period of time) plays a roll in someone screwing up and cheating...making bad choices. I thought my hubby would NEVER cheat and he always said he never would and nevr condoned it by anyone....but he had to work in a different state for 9 months and he cheated. He regrets it to no end, and I always said I would NEVER stay with a cheater...but I did...and we are doing great. My question is people on here always say they would never cheat or that they KNOW their spouse ould never cheat...but how do you really know. Do you believe that everyone given certain circumstances would cheat if theythought they wouldnt be found out? Just curious. I blamed myself as well as him, but after counseling and talking with my hubby, he says it had nothing to do with me, that he was stupid and selfish and was not thinking and cannot give me a good answer as to why.

2007-02-21 00:53:12 · 26 answers · asked by hurtand still in love 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex-husband moved due to job reasons. I live in another state and came back to see how my daughter was doing. I am living in my ex-husband's house for now.

I have given my daughter a choice - she can come back and live with me or stay here and her grandmother will take care of her.

She said that she will let me know today what she wants to do. She is 14 years old.

I can not stay in this state because they (my ex and his mother) will not let me live independently and in peace.

If I go back without my child, should I worry about what people will think?

Also, while I am here my ex-husband keeps asking me to take care of his relocation matters and sell items from the house. I don't want to get involved in this and have told him that.

2007-02-21 00:52:28 · 11 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-21 00:52:27 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why do girls think guys only see them as sex objects or fellow blokes (ie sister)


Ie just as a guy thinking you are attractive, have nice boobs or say you are a nude model, stripper or whatever.



Why is it that girls think guys only see them as a sex object and would not want to get to know them as a girlfriend or mates as well.


And the sex thing only gets them interested in the first place.



likewise... if girls do not want to be seen as sexaul...


Why would they want a boyfriend or to get married as dont boyfriends and husbands see you as sex objects whilst your brother does not?

2007-02-21 00:52:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i would like to experiment and would like a male to join us in the bedroom for a bit of raunchy fun! anyone interested? re reow

2007-02-21 00:52:12 · 11 answers · asked by minkpink88 1 in Singles & Dating

A boy asked me out and I like his best friend what do I do I want to say no!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-02-21 00:51:44 · 10 answers · asked by Emma R 1 in Singles & Dating

to feel like i need a boyfriend from time to time? y'know, somebody to talk to who would be understanding, comforting, etc. Somebody just to be there with you......is this making sense?

2007-02-21 00:51:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There's this neighborhood kid that my brother hangs out with. He's my age. My family knew him for about 5 years. People always asked us if we like eachother, or if we're "going out." And at family parties when he would come, all my cousins and family will say things like " is that your boyfriend!?" And stuff like that. But the thing is, he is always flirting with my 2 best friends infront of me and stuff. I know I'm more attractive then them so I'm wondering if he's just doing this to get me jealous. On my street all the kids hang out and stuff and we tackle eachother and wrestle. He's always throwing snowballs at my 2 best friends and tackling them and stuff but he NEVER does that to me. Why do you think that is? When he flirts with my 2 best friends it annoys me a lot. I don't like love him though but I don't know why it irritates me so much!
So what I'm asking is
1Why does he flirt with my friends infront of me
2Why does he tackle and wrestle them and not me
3 does he like me?

2007-02-21 00:51:24 · 7 answers · asked by Liyanne 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this lad and whenever he comes close to me I just walk away from him. I'm too scared to even be near him should I just say hi or do nothing?

2007-02-21 00:49:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if you were a guys and one of your friends showed up at your bball game that was 4h away what would you thing

2007-02-21 00:49:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I live in a flat ..alone with my cat. I feel pretty lonely but i do the usual girls nite out..I still feel like i need to start dating again...Any nice guys out there?

2007-02-21 00:48:48 · 13 answers · asked by WHATEVER!!` 2 in Singles & Dating

Like, yeah i think he wants to try and kiss me, becasue while I was at tutoting during lunch, my friend asked him if he wanted to kiss me...and he said (his all time favorite word)possibly... what does that mean???????? I AM NOT PLANNING ON MAKING OUT OR DOING THINGS THAT MOST ADULTS DO,,but it is really awesome to know a guy likes you and wants to kiss you. Do u think I can kiss him lightly on the lips IF I GATHER THE COURAGE?????????????

2007-02-21 00:48:43 · 5 answers · asked by Hershey's Kiss 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-21 00:46:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

At the time I was still in shock over the break up,and feeling low in myself. The new guy was asking me everyday since how I was feeling and my ex hasn't even made contact with me again. I think he expected that I would turn up outside his house or something. Although I was heart broken, I was strong. I don't think he will get in touch with me now. I am meeting the new guy again on Thurs.I am nervous as I think he is cute. He has been hinting that he had nothing serious recently with a girl and that every cloud has a silver lining that I broke up with my ex and met him. He has also text me some really nice texts hoping I am ok,I think that is sweet.
I am wondering how to proceed at the next coffee (not) meeting!
Any advice?

2007-02-21 00:46:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He hates it, but I think it's so cute. It's like at that 1960/70's cuteness. He looks like Paul McCartney did, but with sex appeal! But he refuses to style it or lack of style it like that and does this awful 80's fro! Is it so much to ask of him him to put his hair like a beatle because I think it's so sexy? I dress up in playful little outfits for him and do naked strip dances for him! But he won't go with the cute hair style just for the next few months until his hair grows out?? What do you think?

2007-02-21 00:45:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-21 00:45:37 · 16 answers · asked by Urvi 2 in Friends

Should I tell my cousines whom I don't like that I don't like them? Or should I be more "Lassaiz Fair" with them and not do anything. Just ignore them and not go to any of the parties?

I'm not happy with their attitudes. I just don't like their personalities or their ways.

2007-02-21 00:45:19 · 7 answers · asked by AviTech 3 in Family

2007-02-21 00:45:09 · 8 answers · asked by deeps 1 in Singles & Dating