Im 13
2007-02-21 00:57:44 · 19 answers · asked by Katja ie tattybow 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ireally need lots of advice! n im 13 not 4!
2007-02-21 01:05:34 · update #1
Kiss or not? what kind of kiss!
2007-02-21 01:14:38 · update #2
Im not to young!!!
2007-02-21 01:21:23 · update #3
Im going on the 2nd date soon! i need help
2007-02-21 02:47:34 · update #4
We wondered around town, talking!
2007-02-21 20:06:17 · update #5
keep talking and have fun
2007-02-21 01:02:44 · answer #1 · answered by Deep Bone 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hi Sweety.
Well with me i love to get to know each others likes and dislikes without getting boring. I always love to go and do something special whether its a movie or a walk in the country or even the park.
Now the second date is what we have arranged between us as we had so much fun on the first date, if you were more than 13 i would of told you a lot more, mmmm.
Love and kisses and hugs
xxxoooxxx
P.S. the most important thing is to keep safe and always tell someone whether its a family member or a close friend where your going to be.... xxxxxxxxxxxxx
2007-02-28 15:36:26 · answer #2 · answered by Julles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do what i did which was to fall off the kerb and sprain my ankle right in front of him lol!! Hurt like hell but i made out i was ok. We ended up dating for nearly two years so it must have been endearing!! You just have lots of fun and laughter and find out as much as you can about each other and let him move in for a kiss if it feels right, nothing heavy just a little smooch!! If you are truly 13 then you're too young to be on this site really and abit too young to be thinking of boys so please be safe and careful and if needs be talk to your mum about it.
2007-02-21 09:20:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am substantially older than 13 and what I did on the first date was have a nice quick kiss! Hell, I like her!
We walked around and chatted too.
Second date - it's up to you - just be relaxed and it will come easily to you!
Good luck!
2007-02-27 13:44:32 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Depends how old the guy is and how you feel and your relationship. If the guy is older, be careful - you know the saying they are only after one thing! If he is the same age, still be careful but chances are he is just as nervous as you. Dont put out too soon. By all means, have a snog and possibly a fumble if you feel comfortable but dont go to the final steps. He will respect you more if you arent easy.
2007-02-27 08:21:34 · answer #5 · answered by millayhighsociety 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Teens are not as naive as you may think. She does and can be on this site as she has a question that needs answering.
Ok so after the first date just keep talking to him as you would normally. For the second date just be yourself, he obviously likes you unless there wouldnt be a second date.
Good luck :)
2007-02-21 09:08:05 · answer #6 · answered by Mistress_T 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
relax and enjoy yourself first and foremost.
If he asks for a kiss tell him YES, if it feels right for you, but make it clear that NOTHING else is on offer! because that is certainly something that should be avoided until Adulthhod.
I am ashamed of my fellow so called adults and all their lecturing when without doubt they all had a kiss and fumble behind the bike shed and probably at a younger age than you.
GO GIRL AND ENJOY THE MOMENT
2007-02-28 15:48:12 · answer #7 · answered by hrt2hrt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can have a boy as a friend but nothing else.
You are really too young I am sorry but there are too many young people starting life off on the wrong foot.
You must be sensible & it would be better if you talked to your mum you know she loves you & wants what is best for you.
getting them selves
2007-02-21 09:18:18 · answer #8 · answered by ANDREW H 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just hang out. Have fun. Relationships are about having fun and getting to know each other. Remember just relax, be you and don't be forced into an uncomfortable situation. I hope your date goes well. Best wishes.xx
2007-02-24 17:40:04 · answer #9 · answered by maria bartoninfrance 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
on the second date u go buck wild let him kno u like him , kiss him , do whatever kiss u want im sure he wont mind only if hes gay
2007-02-28 16:40:46 · answer #10 · answered by kandi gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until he kisses you and you can kiss anytime but dont leave it too long.
2007-02-28 06:09:48 · answer #11 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋