What do you do when you like a boy but they dont like you and your to scared to talk to him?

Question

I like this lad and whenever he comes close to me I just walk away from him. I'm too scared to even be near him should I just say hi or do nothing?

Answer 1

find a boy that likes you.

Answer 2

How do u know he doesn't like u if u don't speak 2 him?

U can't just do nothing if u want something 2 happen............I went through the same thing, I really liked this guy, but went bright red and shy whenever I went near him. I managed to get hold of his e-mail address and started IMing him (anon. though). When we were getting on well, I told him who I was, turned out he didn't like me in that way because I wasn't his type, but that we could be friends, and we are, still to this day.

U obviously don't have to do the same thing, but I would recommened that u do start at least sp him, or 2 start with u could just smile at him every time he walks past and when u feel more confident, say hi, u never know, u could get into conversation.

Answer 3

Oh the joy. I remember how that feels and I always acted like I hated the boy even though my heart was doing sommersaults. Stand your ground next time and give him a compliment in a casual way. You will have to think of something nice to say. He is probably thinking you can't stand him as you always walk away when he is around. Giving him a compliment will make him wonder and keep him thinking about you all day and probably the next one too!

Answer 4

If the boy don't like you then find someone else.

If he is as shy as you seem & you want to make his acquaintence then when you see him rather than just walk past why not walk slowly past & say Hi how are you today & that should prompt a response.

You could then tell him that you have seen him around & you like what you see.

You can then get on chatting..

Good luck & don't be free with your body.

Be sensible

Answer 5

I also feel similarly nervous sometimes, and I'm 18....! Just be yourself, smile at him and keep eye contact for a while. It works like magic. If he doesn't really like you, does he really matter then? Forget about him. I don't agree with mzbowwow's opinion. I tried that (writing a letter) when I was 15, and got burnt. It's better not to say anything in writing till you really know each other. Stick to my above advice. Trust me, it really leads to things!

Answer 6

You better speak up or he'll run off with a girl who will show him some attention. Shyness usually doesn't get you anywhere with the nice guys. Only the bad boys like to take advantage of shy girls, so stop being shy and speak up! Get that good guy!

Answer 7

well, how would you know he doesn't like you too if you keep on walking away from him? C'mon, girl. Just be yourself and try to keep that feelings secret until he comes to you and tell you he likes you. It would be scary if you do the first move, especially that you said you think he doesn't like you. Well, i guess, if he really doesn't like you i think you just have to like him secretly. Believe me, if you flaunt your feelings to him and he doesn't reciprocate the feeling, you'll look stupid. No offense there. But just try to be friendlier with a simple hi/hello, because you are not still sure about his feelings until he says so himself, so try your luck, he might like you too, you know!Just control the wiggling feet :)

Answer 8

I guess it's ok to say hi. he is probably quite a nice lad.

Answer 9

i think of it quite is by using fact of lack of self belief by using fact once you confer with the lads your not attracted to you do not could say a definite variety of element and act a definite way yet then once you confer with a guy your attracted to, you are able to look sturdy and not say something stupid.

Answer 10

If he doesn't like you as you said, you shouldn't sweat it. Just move on with your life. There are too many fish in the sea.