I had to go to a beach party with my bf tonight but due to unavoidable reasons i cannot make it . But as their is couple entry he is going along with some other girl ( I don't even know that girl ).
This has upset me and i am very disappointed with my bf.
What should i do ?
2007-02-21 00:54:35 · 13 answers · asked by nishi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell me one thing, how much faith u have on ur BF??? Do u think this one night outing change luv between u guys??? IMO u should tell him that u r happy for him that he got someone to go for beach party ... Reason is its not his fault that u couldn't make it buit then why u want to spoil his mood/evening ... Its jsut matter of one evening, jsut do what I say and u will find how much more he respect u.
In relationship we all needs space and if one try to be obsessive then many time other partner thinks to cut the relationship.
2007-02-21 01:05:37 · answer #1 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You do not own your boy friend and you do not own your husband even.
It is a matter of comitement and understanding between, you two, looks like....
You do have right to be upset and disappointed, do nothing but at a proper movement discuss this, you may be surprise if he has all together different understanding of the whole affrair, in that case make a clean amicable break up, be wise for it and concentrate on building carrier, study hard, play some, and enjoy the freedom of being sigle.
2007-02-21 01:13:00 · answer #2 · answered by minootoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should better forget him he is not for u because if he cant just choose between u n the beach party i think u should come first. if u cant go thn he should just plan it another day but he is just going with other girl without any bother whether he is hurting u by going with other. if he is really ur bf he will not plan to go with other .if u r in his postion will u go with other guy just think tell him y u r breaking up with him n go on with life
2007-02-21 01:14:13 · answer #3 · answered by ahsu254 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why is it so important for him to go? can't he say that u won't be able to come with him, so that's why he's not gonna attend either?? u should tell him that u r upset with him for thinking abt going with some other girl.
2007-02-21 02:56:44 · answer #4 · answered by ayesha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him what u feel!and ask him if he would like if u go with other boy to a party what will he do?
2007-02-21 01:00:14 · answer #5 · answered by ♥dark-angel♥(இலங்கை) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him, but dont show you are jealous or else he mite try something. Like the cookie jar, tell a kid not to have one and they want it even more.
2007-02-21 00:59:21 · answer #6 · answered by chickyboo222 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let him go why do u have to upset about he going with someone else as u cant make it. don u trust ure boy freind.
2007-02-21 03:35:21 · answer #7 · answered by yourfreind_forlife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shall tell him how you feel! then you shall bring up how he will feel if you go to a party with another boy he does not know.
2007-02-24 10:50:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tough situation!!!
see, to control such things are not in yr hand, the thing is how much he likes you!!!
talk to him in a calm way, if you make mistake anywhere in this conversation , you might loose him,,so be calm!!
Thats it!
2007-02-21 01:09:50 · answer #9 · answered by Sugar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it was me i would tell him he better not go with a girl because how would that make you look.Not Fair at all.
2007-02-21 00:59:13 · answer #10 · answered by bette69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋