I have an answer that applied to this question if you mean happiness for yourself, or whether you mean happiness for yourself with someone else.
I believe that I have found true happiness. I was only able to do so when I was able to be happy with myself. I allowed myself time to find myself and be self reliant. Within a couple of months I was fortunate enough to find someone just as at peace.
The way you feel attracts itself. If you are truly at peace with yourself you will get the same in return.
2007-02-21 01:02:53
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answer #1
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answered by ? 3
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Dear Friend,
Happiness is NOT A MATERAL THING to find it some where or other.
First of all clearly undrstand the difference between PLEASURE and HAPPINESS.
In this material world , most of us live in, different persons feel in a diferent way mentally in the same circumstances.For example if one is interested in carnatic Music and and he is fortunate to have a chance to hear the Highly energetic vibrant Carnatic music from a maestro in the field, and suppose there are with him some more freinds whose interested in other fields , and they do not know anything about carnatic music, then you feel your self lost in the Music and time passes so happily and in your heart of hearts YOU ARE EXTREMELY HAPPY.Even After the music by the maestro has been completed , you will still be happy..and the music you heard will be lingering in your inner mind and whenever you recolect that programe you feel happy wherever you are because MUSIC IS DIVINE..Simultaneously your friends ,who happened to be with you while you are lost yourself in the music, they,your friends were most uneasy and were there thinking something other and may even feel head ache, since they did not like it..and their minds were elsewhere.
Similarly the happiness that you call as HAPPINESS while eating some delicacies ,or while enjoying(?) in some physical activity....they think they are HAPPY.But observe that so called happiness is quite transitory and lost immediately after some time.Afterwords there comes some dissatisfaction....the so called happiness you thought you enjoyed is lost.it is transitory and so impermanent.
Our learned elders have said that that ''What ever has a name and shape is bound to PERISH IN TIME''.The happiness, s you believe it to be happiness , derived from those things in the world is NOT REAL HAPPINESS.IT IS LOST.IT my be a pleasure.Physical pleasure which may bring worry,mental unhappiness and mentl disturbance and repentance in you after you have underwent that pleasue or after you had involved in that physical pleasure.So do you call this happiness.Not at all.
Happiness is a DIVINE quality, which is permanent ,peaceful,everlasting.
What are the senses...There ae five sense organns.1,Sparsha ( touch) 2.Roopa (eye) 3.Rasa (tomgue) 4.Gandha( Nose)and 5.
Shabdha (ear).
These are five Gnenendriyaas (Sense organs)
But what ever happiness you derive through these sense organs and thruough or frob objects that have a Name, Shape...that is transient and illusionary..and is not permanent,
The true happiness comes through the imortal ,permanent, omnipotent ant and omniscient and omni present thing only.
So, read good scriptures...listen to competent Gurus instuctions...follow and experience the happiness The happiness you experience in this way is non transferable,inexpressible.It's your own.
So that is permanent happiness and that is the only HAPPINESS.the rest are PLEASURES.
Try and feel and experience.none can give you that..you alone can achieve and experiece it.
Good luck and MAY GOD BE WITH YOU TO LEAD YOUR WAY.
I wish you success in your effort.
2007-02-21 02:10:18
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answered by Radhakrishna( prrkrishna) 7
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If u had a daughter n married her n if then she would b happy
thats the true Happiness in true sense
2007-02-23 01:16:26
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answered by annie 1
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You can not find true happiness anywhere in the world because it is within yourself. It is the feeling within yourself. You will find happinesss in every small thing you do which brings a smile on other's face. Never think anything negative. Find joy in your troubles and face the problems bravely with a cofident that you can come out with flying colours.
2007-02-21 00:58:34
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answered by san 2
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You can find happiness in its truest sense when before you sleep, reflect about the things that happened that day and you can say to yourself 'I've done something worthy for myself, my fellow and to the eyes of God'. There's nothing more fulfilling than having done something which cannot be rewarded with material things.
If we are fulfilled, we are happy and contented and everything else will follow...
2007-02-21 00:51:59
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answered by nozmiat 3
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some years in the past i might have stated confident for confident, yet now i'm no longer so advantageous. Having human beings place self belief in you for one subject or yet another is satisfying, and Love, even nonetheless it ought to require you to comprimise your freedom slightly is a few thing which makes you extra advantageous than happy quickly i think of the fee of real freedom is solitude; in case you could guard this with out starting to be lonely, then think ofyou've have been given it made
2016-11-24 21:48:43
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answered by ? 4
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when some like you by heart talks to you.you can fell inborn happiness of true sense in yourself.
2007-02-21 00:56:33
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answered by bhuvana r 2
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In yourself! Find peace and contentment with yourself and happiness will just automatically be apart of it all!
2007-02-21 00:52:37
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answered by Anonymous
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happiness is in the heart of all humans. just try to make it out and be happy.
2007-02-21 00:57:38
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answered by pankaj gatecha 1
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I didn't know that there is a place where one can find true happiness.......
By the way......why the question is in engagements and wedding section....LOL ???? .......hunn ...ya married ppl are less happy ...I guess....
2007-02-24 06:26:20
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answered by Anonymous
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