I have a huge crush on this girl who has a BF in another city. I'm a 2nd year MBA and she's a 1st year. I helped her out with intrvw preparation and got the feeling throughout that she seemed interested in me as well. We have a lot in common, grew up in the same city, have similar career goals. Fortunately for me, I'm going to the most desirable firm in that field post-MBA -- so she's seem me repeatedly at various school events as a panelist, organizer, etc for these interview assistance events. I have a feeling that she admires me for this. A few weeks ago, at our third meeting, I helped her with intrvw preparation and we shared a LOT of laughs and talked about other stuff as well. She seems like a real sweet girl and her BF is very lucky! She emailed me the same day and suggested that we do dinner or get drinks after all the intrvw tension is over for her. We're having drinks tonite and I'm nervous, realize I shouldn't mess with a girl who has a BF, but she's just gorgeous! What now?
2007-02-21 00:34:44 · 8 answers · asked by riddler 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks for all the answers so far. I completely realize that I shouldn't mess with a girl who has a BF, but she's the one who asked me for drinks and reminded me like 3 times about iit. Could it be that her relationshipo with her BF has not been going well for a while? How do girls typically change BFs? Do they always dump whomever they're dating first and THEN start to even entertain thoughts about drinks with other boys? Or do they casually go out for drinks with other boys to "feel it out"? I definitely don't want to be with a girl who could be a cheater, because I realize the same thing can happen to me -- but if she's genuinely in a sour relationship right now, I guess it's ok for her to look around, yeah? Thoughts?
2007-02-21 00:49:03 · update #1
you are the lucky one ...GO!...let her handle the boy friend...it would be different if she were married...have FUN
2007-02-21 00:39:59 · answer #1 · answered by Robert P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drinks and general chatting aint bad but you should ask yourself if the girl just likes you for what yu are or for who you are. In sddition consider that yu were in the boy friends position would you be okey with this since lets say she becomes your girl friend she might do th same thing with a guy who is in a better position career wise. Take care?!?
2007-02-21 00:42:32 · answer #2 · answered by sonic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This woman needs some exciting. basically basic meaningless intercourse with somebody mutually as she is removed from her bf. that's what she is making an attempt to help you be attentive to. That she could no longer interrupt up along with her bf, yet she is open to the sexual dating with you in the journey that your up for it. so which you would be able to settle on in case you choose this way of dating along with her. you may get some awsome intercourse, yet no longer something from her. are you able to try this without getting emotionally linked? are you able to try this and nonetheless paintings along with her in analyze and problems with that nature? Will you have the skill to attend to assembly her bf whilst the time comes? (and it probably will) She has given you all the alerts of being attracted to intercourse with you , yet has informed you flat out she isn't dumping her bf. So, in case you like warm meaningless intercourse with a hott woman and it won'tcontinual you loopy emotionally or at school, lay the wood. in case you do no longer think of you may take care of that, then save your distance and that i could stay removed from having beverages anymore.
2016-10-02 12:04:01 · answer #3 · answered by dorais 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it man. She has a boyfriend, not a husband. Besides she wants to go out with you but even so don't assume she means for you to do anything but go out and have drinks.
What will be will be............
but take some condoms anyway....and when you ask her who was the best lover she ever had don't get mad when she says that I was and still am on the 3rd thursday of every month!!!
And don't feel bad cause you can't fit in my pants........hahahahah
2007-02-21 00:38:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello riddler!
You say this girl has a boy friend and she asked you to have drinks with her.
If it is a friendship drink why not!
If she is hinting at something else"Run !.
If she is this way with her boyfriend you will be her next victim,it will be done to you!
five minutes of excitment followed by a whole lot of pain .
Take care!
2007-02-21 00:42:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
def. let her know the situation your in. drinks may be harmless but in todays world going out with someone for "drinks" is so symbloic of wrongdoing. Im sure your intentions are good but like you said you shouldnt mess with a girl who has a bf. tell her you value her friendship and in fact feel something for her but due to the circumstances thats just too shady. I admire you in even being concerned with this. I have a girlfriend who has guy friends and im very much so the jealous type, i love and trust her but thats just who i am. if she told me she went out with a friend for dinner and drinks i would def. be weirded out, just knowing my girl is out to eat with another guy.
2007-02-21 00:40:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anthony C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have drinks; maybe she just wants to socialize with you. If not, that's her choice. Maybe she has bailed the BF and you are the one she wants now.
2007-02-21 00:39:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go
do it
2007-02-21 00:37:10 · answer #8 · answered by q6656303 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋