All u loved up people out there who know their with the1,their true love,their soul mate-how did u know they were the1 and when did u know it?
Did u just feel it and know from early on? xxx
2007-02-21 00:35:57 · 16 answers · asked by jo 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i knew straight away i don't know i just got this gut feeling i met him on a school trip and now five years after finishing school we are stronger than ever before. i think that you just get that feeling and smiling from ear to ear i think if you don't even get a bit mad or upset or anything in the first month and you still have butterflies then it might be the right one. (i mean butterflies that are getting stronger)
2007-02-21 00:59:38 · answer #1 · answered by confused 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have always known my boyfriend was special. We meet when I returned home from uni for a summer break , and just hit it off from the word go. A few months into our relationship, I certain he was 'the one.' Returning to uni was a very testing time, and he was amazing, so supportive, loving and caring, often braving the four hour drive to see me.
Almost five years on, and as soppy as it sounds, I think I love him even more! We just love being with each other, miss each other when we're not together, and always want the other to be the first to hear any news we have, good or bad. No matter what, I know he is always there for me, and I for him. Its a bit much, but so true! Loved up as we are, we have spoken about our future together and marriage, as we both know it doesn't get much better than this!
2007-02-21 09:17:04 · answer #2 · answered by hell_ova_arse 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I met him when i was 16 years old, we hung out every now and then, but we didn't start dating until a little over a year ago. I knew back when i met him, he was awesome, but he was also a ho:) So, i guess i always knew he was the one. I am almost 30, and he is not only my best friend, my lover, my companion...and for the first time in my life, i feel safe...and i feel loved. He loves me for me. We are both independant but at the same time, we don't like to be away from each other. We are constantly thinking about one another. And what we have is a true partnership...we do everything together...we cook together, we clean together, etc. But we also do our own things every now and then. He still has his nights out with his friends and i do too. You really will just know when you've found them.
2007-02-21 08:48:48 · answer #3 · answered by jewel3977 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone always says "you'll just feel it" Well i felt it very strongly and after 3 1/2 years i'm strongly questioning it. Time in my case is a blessing and a new set of eyes.
it's very easy to get wrapped up in the moment of meeting someone and really liking them... just keep your eyes open.
The guy i'm with now i felt right off the bat that he was the one i was supposed to spend my life with. However, long distance is very telling of a person and how they deal with relationships of different levels. we've been together for 3 1/2 years and we've grown so much and we're actually differing in a lot of the things we used to feel the same about.
Anyway... All i'm saying is to keep your eyes open b/c people change a lot especially in their 20's. What you may have wanted earlier is completely different now. Don't rush either, if you are meant to be together then time can only make you stronger and closer to one another.
2007-02-21 09:10:08 · answer #4 · answered by Greekangl1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there was a specific time when I suddenly realised that he was the one for me.
At first we were very coy with each other, as you usually are, but after a couple of months we settled into this really cosy relationship.
7 years on and we have had our ups and downs just like anyone else, but I know that I wouldn't be able to live without him.
I'll never find anyone else in the world who would get my sense of humour or be just as silly as me.
I think Comfort is the thing that you may be looking for.
2007-02-21 09:02:11 · answer #5 · answered by fairyprincesscorinne 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first time i saw my boyfriend i knew straight away he was something special (he doesn't believe that tho) it wasn't until about a year after meeting and being friends that we took it further. Now 4 years on we are still together and very happy, we both want to spend the future together but don't wanna have children or get married until we're both a bit older (i'm 20, he's 23) but its defo on the cards. He really means so much to me and i can't imagine a happier time than i'm having now.
2007-02-21 08:44:12 · answer #6 · answered by Kirsty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I no my boyfriend is my soul mate as hes my best friend as well been with each other 3 years we have split up but we always get back together , he tells me he loves me everyday and y he loves me and i look beautiful. I don't know when i knew he was the one though it just happened after time, I'm not sayin we're the perfect couple either we have our arguements like normal couples... we just both no we're meant to be..
2007-02-21 08:56:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i must say when i first met my husband, i did not know he was the one.
as i got to know him better i realised that he is the kindest, most loving, most wonderful man i have ever known, and there couldnt possibly anyone who is better than him for me. and when he asked me if i would marry him, there was just one answer YES....
we always had that connection - we understood each other, we cared for each other and we always longed to be together. our love and affection is constant
now 3 years into our marriage and that connection has only grown stronger. i dont believe in soul mates but i believe that someone up there in the skies knows whos good for you and one day HE will make sure that you meet your 'one' ...
2007-02-21 09:29:16 · answer #8 · answered by GorGeous_Girl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did u just feel it and know from early on? xxx
No you never feel it and you never will.
It doesnt happen we make ourselves believe it happened
No you never know they were the one even if you are married for 100 years (There will still be a day when you will think ahh may be i was wrong to be with him/her)
About true love, You just take it to be true one day and next day you dont and it carries on throughout your life.
2007-02-21 08:50:06 · answer #9 · answered by Unknown Entity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I realised that no matter what may happen to him in the future, if he were to be disabled in any way, disfigured, whatever - I would still love him and want to care for him until the day one of us died. If your feelings for someone aren't that strong, then he's not the one for you x
2007-02-21 08:45:43 · answer #10 · answered by Away With The Fairies 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋