is it maybe because shes not as sexy as them on the sites like hidden voger cams and that
2007-02-21 01:02:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i just dont understand the point in them looking on sites like voger cams and msn xxx cams and sites like that please can someone give me a insite to this question
2007-02-21 01:09:16 · update #1
but like i said hes getting all he askes for at home i always trying new things with him i do everythink he requires of me
2007-02-21 01:13:53 · update #2
I had this same problem with two seperate relationships and I personally found it very hurtfull ,repulsive,and damaging to myself as well as the relationship. It is an illness. As much as you turn them on, it's not enough. If he's doing it behind your back, you can be sure it's something he's even ashamed of about himself whether he admits it or not. And it's such a heavy burden for a woman to carry, because she starts to doubt herself in every way. Sweety, I'm here to tell you, it's not got anything to do with you! He is sick. And once they're sick they never change. I think you're at the very point I was about a year ago, you have to ask yourself if you can live with this or if it's time to make a new life for yourself. Know that it's not your fault, love yourself and live for yourself. You're probably a very beautiful person inside and out . I asked myself many times "why do I stay and keep going thru this" and then it occurred to me, that I was so desperate to believe that this person loved me and I needed that so much! But, I also decided that I couldn't handle his infidelity, and that's exactly what it is,,,,,,,,,,cheating. good luck to you, and I wish you lots of happiness in your future!!!!!!
2007-02-28 01:44:06 · answer #1 · answered by kathy l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many men say they will look at porn and masturbate until they get a girlfriend, but then when they get one they still do.
1) This may be due to many reasons, not getting as much sex as he needs to feel satisfied.
2) Addiction, used to looking at these sort of sites and finds it very hard to stop
3) The fantasy, people in porn do things that it is very unlikely a man, unless he's a porn star will ever get to do
4) Spontaneious erection, sometimes you get an erection when your not feeling overly sexually aroused but you have to do something to sort it out, so if your not there, porn is the next best thing.
2007-02-27 17:19:02 · answer #2 · answered by hotstuff15951 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men will be men. They look all the time whether it be on the net or walking down the street. Women are gods best creation in all different shapes and sizes. if they see something in one woman that they like they may ask you to do the same whether that be in looks smell or sex.
Let me ask you a question back if he was looking at gay porn sites and looking at guys on the street what would you think then.
There is no harm in looking just as long as he dose not touch.
2007-02-28 04:06:12 · answer #3 · answered by Shaz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is a good relationship, it has nothing to do with the wife being "unsexy" or unattractive. It is as simple as men need stimulation. They could have sex 5 times a day and would still look at porn. It is just something they do. Women buy shoes, men look at porn. It is hard to accept at first, but it is just the way it is. It has nothing to do with a lack of anything or unhappiness, at least in the situation you provided. (Happy relationship, great sex...)
2007-02-21 09:16:49 · answer #4 · answered by spynmepynk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the problem is with him, not you.He may be an addict..
I think it's easy to fall into having the same problem when you try to "join" him, by thinking," well I'll look too , so it doesn't seem lilke a big deal." Some ladies like it, and it's not a problem in the relationship,But if you are uncomfortable with it, something is telling your instincts that it isn't right....It just isn't your thing..
I have personal strong feelings about it ,I don't think its right for the simple fact that where the mind goes... the body follows.
2007-02-28 12:04:35 · answer #5 · answered by iwild 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
considering the amount of sites out there, there must be a great demand for them. i think a lot of men visit those pages but i cant really answer you why they do it. i guess those men would be able to tell you.
i dont think its that they find their wife not sexy its just that need more then what they are getting. maybe he isnt getting what he wants and finds satisfaction through these sites.
2007-02-21 09:08:47 · answer #6 · answered by vanessaoz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because their inconsiderate of their partner. Try looking at porn yourself and show him how it feels, maybe then he'll see things your way. Remember too, much of the porn found on the internet encourages violent sex towards women and children and that's wrong.
2007-02-28 04:59:24 · answer #7 · answered by roger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men looking at porn has nothing to do with his relationship at home, it has nothing to do with what his partner looks like, men need visual stimulation but that can go too far and turn into an obsession, if you botherd by him looking at porn you should disscuss that with him,but dont throw a fit or put him down for doing it thats what most men do
2007-02-21 10:09:45 · answer #8 · answered by christy h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just a way of living his dreams and fantasies, things that he is too shy or crazy to do with the wife. Example some people get turned on by "rape pornography", doesn't mean he wants to rape someone, its just maybe a fantasy.
2007-02-28 05:01:53 · answer #9 · answered by jjoy82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is good for the relationship. give men ideas and position. just to look at it and wish that you and him were doing what their doing on the porn. its educations, fun, and sexy.
2007-02-28 14:35:40 · answer #10 · answered by soto_a81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋