Guys please!
2007-02-21 01:16:57 · 9 answers · asked by Holmes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, I'd like to sit here and say that it doesn't matter and that her past sexual experiences would have nothing to do with our relationship, but that isn't the case.
My concerns would be if she was that easy for all those men to get into bed, how do I know that she won't have an appitite for different men in the future.
Some people will tell you that love concures all, an that she will commit to just you and not want to sleep with anyone else.
But what about 10 years down the road?
Is her sexual appitite for different men big enough after time she will want to satisfy it if there is a rocky part in the marriage?
In a day in age where marriages are disposable, it is a legitamate concern.
The "for bettter or for worse" doesn't apply anymore, most run when the "worse" part comes.
Now the other side of the coin, marrying a virgin.
(interesting how you identify the virgin as a "girl" and the experienced one as a "woman")
After time, will she wonder what it's like with another man?
I guess many guys mouths start to water at the sound of the word "virgin" as well as the guy's mothers.
But again, in our modern era, the odds that anyone is marrying a virgin is very small. (unless you are in a state where you can marry at 12 or 13)
As far as which would I prefer, I would hope to base my decision on marrying someone on many, many different factors besides how much sex they have had. Believe me, marriage has a lot more to deal with than just sex.
I have been married for 18 years.
2007-02-21 02:17:13 · answer #1 · answered by Mr R 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
like some of the others listed above or below- hopefully she's not diseased, (no one wants to eat a rotten apple!)
i don't mind if a girl has been with others
if she has been with alot of others then there is no pleasing her, some times girls like abuse and that's alot of their relations.....in which case shes only looking for the next black eye
show her something shes never had before, it can be tough, good luck
2007-02-27 05:30:57 · answer #2 · answered by Commander 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me i do not care as long as i love her and she love me that what count in my book. Any girl ether virgin or not will at one time become the best you ever had. Because you love her
2007-02-21 01:22:59 · answer #3 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i would rather marry that woman that has had more then one lover, because she now knows what she wants and what is out there. a virgin, will always be curious what is it that she is missing out there, she will always be thinking about experiencing new d--k because she doesn't know. then you will have to train her to your liking because she knows nothing.
2007-02-28 05:42:34 · answer #4 · answered by soto_a81 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd prefer a girl who knew what she was doing. A honeymoon is a bad time to learn that a girl doesn't like having sex.
2007-02-21 01:25:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
definetly a virgin but yet then again i wouldnt care just as long as they love me
2007-02-28 03:40:32 · answer #6 · answered by chad m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me it does not make that much difference. I look for a woman who would do anything to please her man, because I am the kind of guy who love to please a woman.
2007-02-26 16:36:33 · answer #7 · answered by joe 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dozens no substitute for experience use it or lose it so i wanted one experienced and well used
2007-02-21 04:02:45 · answer #8 · answered by JR 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
As long as she was nice and not swimming with disease I don't mind.
2007-02-21 01:22:25 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋