I am finding it VERY hard to move on. I met this guy 8 months ago, me 24 he 28. We gelled RIGHT FROM THE START. We were like best buddies as well as lovers, he said to me at the time that he wasn't looking for a relationship right now, but that he really likes me etc and got so close to a point where he wouldn't get intimate with me anymore after 1 0r 2 occasions as he didn't want to hurt me or lead me on which use to frustrate me!! Then over the months we started getting even closer so we started talking about starting something. We even lived togther 4 a while. But then he would go through a fase of not acting like the perfect boyfriend, probably because he just WASN'T in the frame of mind and probably knew what he was talking about from the start as it wouldn't be fair on me! So we would argue & then the final break at the end of the year where he said lets be friends for now temporarly as it is not fair for him to put me through this but that he does want to b wit me in the future.
2007-02-21 01:17:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
EVERY TIME within the process of the 8 months that I tried to move on he would ALWAYS come back and tell me how much he misses my company, someone to liaise with and that he does care about me. From me knowing him I know that he does care, so why would you let someone that YOU YOURSELF find so special go? just because of that? Please try and have an open mind.. thank you
2007-02-21 01:19:10 · update #1
Why do you think you're a "good thing"?
2007-02-21 01:19:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard the saying, If you love someone, let them go and if they come back it was meant to be? Let him go!!! And stop making excuses for him, he wasn't in the right frame of mind? Girl, let him go! I answered your other question, and I have been through what you're going through. If you're going to be together in the future it will happen, but in the meantime let him work on himself and you work on yourself so you can build a better relationship. Good Luck! If you're really a good thing, he'll be back.
2007-02-21 01:28:15 · answer #2 · answered by Cocoa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, if he really really wants you, he won't create any excuses to take a break from the relationship. If he does many times, then he made it clear that he is not the one. He is like the roller coaster, up today and down tomorrow. You can't build yourlife on something like that!
2007-02-21 01:26:11 · answer #3 · answered by Holmes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that he has already told you the truth but it seems you're being overwhelmed by too much emotions. This guy has someone he loves more than you - that's the bitter truth, if you would take it.
2007-02-21 01:37:27 · answer #4 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they really dont love you. guys dont let the girl they love go. The right girl can change even the most "uncommitted" guy. Sorry, your wasting your time. move on
2007-02-21 01:20:03 · answer #5 · answered by just wondering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they scared they will love some one more than there self they are also scared they will change and become different guys hate change but they think gals will hurt them thats why they try not get to involved
2007-02-21 01:27:10 · answer #6 · answered by persian gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe cuz their not really ready for a relationship at da moment
2007-02-21 01:29:45 · answer #7 · answered by Sxyprnces0 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All in the game.
2007-02-21 01:39:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋