Family & Relationships - 21 February 2007

I am, by nature, really shy. I'm not used to talking loud unless I'm really comfortable with select people. Sometimes when I am a bit more outspoken or louder around certain people they act like I'm weird. Is it possible to change from shy to outgoing? Sometimes I'm really unhappy because I'm so shy because a lot of my friends aren't, but when I try to be social I feel like I always mess up. I really wish I was more social and comfortable with myself but I'm really not. What should I do

2007-02-21 02:39:49 · 28 answers · asked by blue pirincess 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-21 02:39:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Seriously, what is up with guys and telephones? why doesn't my bf call me???? Guys, why don't you like phones?

2007-02-21 02:38:17 · 14 answers · asked by horsesareforever 3 in Singles & Dating

We are intimate, but he says he isn't ready for a relationship right now. But he says he likes being with me. Why would he buy my son shoes - and kiss my baby?

2007-02-21 02:37:04 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a thought including quite a few questions....was hoping that I could get some open minded responses from others, some different perspecitves.

When I see statistics such as 2 out of 3 marriages end in divorce, I have to wonder...what is it about the institution of marriage that is not working. We are raised to feel and believe certain things, for many of us that includes that when you get married, you are with that person, forsaking all others...til' death do you part. But does this include sexually? We assume so....many of us would say, yes it does! But is that reasonable?! Stay with me.......

If we assume that all women want monogamy, or at least the security we believe comes with it and companionship....and if we assume that all men want companionship, a sexy partner not always the same one...as many men will tell you they love steak, but it doesn't mean it's the only thing they want to eat for the rest of their lives?!.......

2007-02-21 02:36:31 · 24 answers · asked by LoveBiologist 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Parents? Friends that are not in the bridal party? Ushers?

2007-02-21 02:35:54 · 17 answers · asked by LC 1 in Weddings

My boyfriend is inquiring about the type of ring I would like....I know a proposal is upcoming soon. I love tension set rings and I expressed that to him a while back (just jokingly), but now he really thinks that's what I absolutely must have.

But seeing the cost of tension set rings....I don't want him to spend thousands of dollars on it.

What is the range of tension set rings? And for one to look good, how many karats does the diamond need to be? Have not found a store that sells too many tension set rings, except online so I wouldn't know what looks good.

Does anyone know of good stores, online sites, etc that are reliable and good for tension set rings?

2007-02-21 02:35:16 · 8 answers · asked by bubbadoy 1 in Weddings

does any one know any good web sites that has pictures of wedding hair styles

2007-02-21 02:35:08 · 10 answers · asked by pauline_rk 1 in Weddings

please help me im new at this computer thing.thanks for the help he is in lumberton

2007-02-21 02:34:43 · 2 answers · asked by Tewonda S 1 in Family

2007-02-21 02:34:32 · 21 answers · asked by Chelsie M 1 in Singles & Dating

as in the way they used to be with their ex's? do they use the same goofy names or always buy the same flowers? and if they do why?

2007-02-21 02:34:07 · 6 answers · asked by jinx 2 in Singles & Dating

the nicest thing that i ever did was pay a big dept for someone i once loved.

2007-02-21 02:33:38 · 6 answers · asked by Baby Doll 3 in Singles & Dating

When a guy gives you a promise ring, don't you wear it in your left hand ring finger? My son's girlfriend said you wear it on the right hand ring finger. I said no because it a promise of egagement then marriage.

2007-02-21 02:33:27 · 17 answers · asked by honeybunny 3 in Singles & Dating

the nicest thing that ever did was pay a big dept for someone i once loved.

2007-02-21 02:32:04 · 6 answers · asked by Baby Doll 3 in Singles & Dating

my fiancee asked me if i could do an orgazim for him over the phone, and i avoided him cuz i didint know wat it was. and tell stories u when first had ur firsy orgazim.

2007-02-21 02:31:32 · 20 answers · asked by xoxo 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-21 02:31:24 · 4 answers · asked by chardonnayormerlot 2 in Friends

I have slept with both of my roomies (i know i know). One of them was just like a 2 months summer fling before i even moved in and now we are cool like nothing even happened. It wasn't until recently when i slept with my other roommate we told girl #1 and we all had a good laugh about it. This past weekend it happened again prob like 3rd time and now I cant stop thinking about her! During the whole time she would always say I'm not like Girl #1 she has this better than me this and that and I tell her i don't care about Girl1 Now I like girl2 and don't know what to do. She is acting a little bit differently as well, or maybe its my ego, but she is acting shy around me, always trying to impress me I guess you could say, just a bit more talkative and friendlier. Do you think she is waiting for me to make a move or do you think I am over thinking this? What should I do here! I think we would be awesome for each other but she always thinking that she isnt as good as girl1 and so why her?

2007-02-21 02:31:06 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-21 02:30:54 · 11 answers · asked by Jenny Z 1 in Weddings

My female coworker of mine laughs at alot of things I say and do. I don't think i'm that funny. She also get very close to me and touches me alot. Could she possible have a crush?

2007-02-21 02:30:27 · 4 answers · asked by andytime80 1 in Singles & Dating

if size doesn't matter, why are men-enemies always that big? If you know the answer, i'll be more than glad to know.

2007-02-21 02:29:51 · 15 answers · asked by miss_shredder 1 in Singles & Dating

what underwear turn you on the most?
guys, do you prefer girls in thongs, stockings,...?
girls, do you prefer guys in thongs (yuk, lol), boxers,...?
xxx

2007-02-21 02:29:43 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...I need some ideas, PLEASE...

2007-02-21 02:29:02 · 21 answers · asked by ~ Lillie ~ 4 in Friends

My 15 yr old daughter has a boyfriend that I've always thought of as "sketchy". But he was over our house watching TV with her when I heard him say " How would you like to Ride My White Pony ? I didn't realize that his family had a horses. Should I let my daughter go Ride Her Boyfriends Pony ?

2007-02-21 02:28:45 · 15 answers · asked by gotttalovittt 5 in Family

I am 23 and my girlfriend is 34. She has a 70,000 pound a year job as a lawyer which in a few months will become 300,000. I am a primary school teacher.The problem is I never see her.She works 16 hours a day seven days a week.I'm worried for her health and our relationship. I have spoken to her about this and she says"Don't complain if I didn't work long hours you wouldn't have a ferrari in the drive!" I would prefer we lived in low cost housing and she was a cleaner if I got to see more of her. What can I do? Shall I just except this is the kind of life I will have to live as the girlfriend of a high-flying proffesional?

2007-02-21 02:27:57 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am getting married on August 25th, but we can not find a minister. We are having the ceremony outdoors in Rockport Texas. We live in Wisconsin for now so we don't go to a church in Texas so it is hard to find someone to marry us. We are getting marrried there because my fiance is from Texas and all of our family is there. Any ideas?

2007-02-21 02:27:40 · 5 answers · asked by clints_wench 2 in Weddings

i have been with my cousin for several months now and he has asked me to marry him

2007-02-21 02:24:57 · 46 answers · asked by leeanne0107 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Can a guy/girl you've been having a long distance relationship with for 6 months... be honest and faithful?

2007-02-21 02:24:52 · 20 answers · asked by flctya 1 in Singles & Dating

i am seeing some one but only for a few days or so what would be the best way to tell him i don't want to see him as lover ,i know i can tell him anything but this HELP PLEASE

2007-02-21 02:24:42 · 14 answers · asked by cindlemay 2 in Singles & Dating

I got my peircing last thursday I was told by the guy who did it to wash my hands before touching it and not ot play with it to much both of which I have been good on. But he also said to use triple anti- ointment and I was told by a friend of mine to use bactine because the ointment just seals the infection. well I have been using the bactine and its going red what else should I do? I don't want it to get badly infected.
Also I know your not supposed to take it out but I would like to for a minute so I can clean the whole thing, but when the guy put it on he tightend it really hard not hurting me just twisting hard on the ring But now the the top wont come off. am I not trying hard enough or is this a problem.


Which way are you supposed to turn it and it is supposed to come off easy. I don't want to hurt myself or the peircing?

Please give you opinion on both if you can

2007-02-21 02:24:40 · 4 answers · asked by Crystal Blue 3 in Singles & Dating

i have been with my cousin for several months now and he has asked me to marry him

2007-02-21 02:24:37 · 11 answers · asked by leeanne0107 2 in Marriage & Divorce