my friend died in a car wreck at 17 how should u deal with this my grandfather died last year too?

Answer 1

I am so sorry to hear of your friend's death. Dealing with death is a hard thing and I can relate because I lost my dad, and two best friends right after. One was also due to a car accident. All I can say is you have to let the grief run its course. You will never stop missing them but you will find it gets easier as time goes on.
If you are needing counseling then go get some. Sometimes talking to someone will help and there is nothing wrong with that. Good luck and again I am so very sorry about your loss.

Answer 2

This is not something that anyone can advice you on cause theres emotions and all sorts involved. You can go for therapy and the therapist will probably tell you what you already know and u end up back at square one still feeling the same. What you need is something spiritual. Perhaps when you begin to understand that they are now with God and have eternal life and are having a better life than we are now on earth perhaps you will receive closure. They may not be around anymore but their soul is still around. There is a reason for everything and when we understand christianity better we will not fear death nor will we feel so sad with the loss of a loved one.

Answer 3

There are five stages of grief, execute all of them- then and only then, you will know how to continue your existence.

There is nothing you can do to recreate the life you had, so you are forced to accept it.

Answer 4

if it is really effecting you i would seek professional help...you dont want to get into a depression.....God bless and good luck