2007-02-21 02:34:32 · 21 answers · asked by Chelsie M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Telling anybody (except a politician) that you hate them is immature in the extreme.
Wait a few year, maybe they will learn something.
2007-02-21 02:43:28 · answer #1 · answered by Gaspode 7 · 4⤊ 2⤋
There may be reasons to actually hate your parents--like if they are physically abusing you--if that's the case, you don't need to tell them a thing, just get out of their house. If you just don't like them as human beings, remember the fact that you are here because of them, and everything you are is because of them. A little gratitude is probably more what you should be expressing.
If you really "hate" them, you should move away from them and never look back, but don't be surprised when you're older and find yourself all alone, as well. Life has a way of repaying us for our actions...
2007-02-21 02:41:53 · answer #2 · answered by melouofs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most children that dislike their parents don't have a valid reason. There are those that have been beaten, abused, etc. and the feeling is then understandable, but I'm guessing you don't fall into that category. What did your parents do to you? Ground you for staying out late or getting a bad grade? I'm sure whatever it is it can be overlooked and you'll appreciate it someday. Be thankful that you have parents, and definitely don't tell them you hate them. What would be the point?
2007-02-21 02:41:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever tell them you hate them. You are too young to appreciate them, probably, unless they have really done something to harm you in a terrible way. Most young people say they hate parents over trivial matters anyways. Things that a parent may be protecting you from may seem wrong to you, but are usually right for good reasons.
2007-02-21 03:04:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you, about three? If you hate your parents so much, then why not get a job to support yourself? Here are a few of the things the people you "hate" are probably providing for your ungrateful little butt- a roof over your head, food, utilities, 'cell phone bill, cable tv, high speed internet access, car payment, car insurance, clothing, personal care items, shoes, make-up, vacations, prom dresses, year books, doctor and dental bills, and the list goes on and on. But by all means- make sure you tell these people who love you so much that they work hard to provide you with everything you want, that you "hate" them.
2007-02-21 02:45:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Chances are that if you want to tell them you hate them, you probably don't hate them. You're probably angry at them, losing respect for them, or something along that line and you would like to tell them that in an attempt to have them change whatever it is that they are doing that you don't like. If you really hated them, you wouldn't even bother trying to figure out how to say it.
That being said, I'll assume that you are having problems with your parents and you would like to address these problems to them.
Be clear. Communication is very important. Talk to your parents about the problems when you are not angry and when they are not angry. (this will help avoid emotional responses and defensive responses.) Be honest with them. Tell them what you feel and don't wait until it is bottled up so that you explode. Also keep in mind that they are your parents and as such they deserve respect. So communicate your feelings respectfully.But be clear. (example: If one of your parents is constantly lying about important things, it may not help to walk up and call them a liar. Rather tell them that when they omit parts of the truth or try to change the truth it hurts you and makes it difficult for you to trust them.) If necessary write down what you want to tell them and edit it like you would a research paper to make sure that it says exactly what you really need to say. Then talk to them. (Have notecards handy if needed). This will help you stay focused on what you need to talk about and it will also help you remember things that you want to say.
Don't be afraid to stop the conversation and ask to continue it later once everyone has calmed down.
Good luck.
2007-02-21 02:46:35 · answer #6 · answered by Zonte 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you hate your parents? Did they do something to you? If you tell your parents, you'll have to tell them why. It doesn't make sense to tell someone that you hate them but without a solid reason to back it up. I didn't speak to my father in 3 years and we lived in the same house and I never said outright that I hated him. Takes a lot to hate someone...especially your parents. Do you really want to tell them?
2007-02-21 02:42:11 · answer #7 · answered by BKYW 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you feel the need to tell them? Best that you dont as you may well regret it later on in life. You only get one set of parents so make the most of em. Think of all the unfortunate people who have'nt got any parents and think yourself lucky.
2007-02-21 02:43:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do not hate your parents and find ways to love them because they have only brought you up the best way they know how that they thought was beneficail to you. Have a family decussion and talk to them about how you are feeling and this may set some things straight about how you feel toward them.
2007-02-21 02:51:50 · answer #9 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might help IF you explain WHY you hate them. Not too many people can comment on something like that. Agree???? Tell us more. Add to your comment at the bottom of your question and then you'll get the answers you seek. OK?
2007-02-21 02:46:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
IF you hate them and they gave you life and made you this big. How do you think they will feel toward you and you gave them all the pain...espcially saying you don't love them
Hate is a very strong word. you must be careful...if you HATE your parents, it will be very hard to love anyone else.
2007-02-21 02:39:38 · answer #11 · answered by Ariana 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋