Family & Relationships - 21 February 2007

I've sent a girl (who I know is real from her pictures with signs) pics with my email in them, and even video of myself, but she still refuses to believe I'm real.
Is this her problem or mine? Why would she ask for proof if she's not going to believe any of it?

2007-02-21 06:00:16 · 11 answers · asked by Cameron L 4 in Singles & Dating

Way too much to explain, but the bottom line is my girlfriend started hanging out with this guy that she met through a family friend. It went from talking with him a few times to every day she goes to see him for some reason or another and hangs out there till all hours in the morning. Literally till like 3:00 am. I used to like him but now I hate him... We fight over her seeing him every day but no matter what, she still sees him regaurdless of how upset I am getting. She tells me every time she goes there, but she stays there until 3 or 4 a.m. We have faught about it until I have been blue in the face but she won't stop seeing him. She does not have alot of friends & she uses this as an excuse. If I was included it would not be an issue but I am never included in thier chill out sessions.
WHAT DO YOU THINK?
Is she sleeping with him, or interested in him or is she just excited to have a new guy friend that is funny.

I am racking my brain over this.
Please advise...

2007-02-21 06:00:13 · 7 answers · asked by warscoob 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My question entails loosing of wives the both ways.To elaborate.. Two men were EXTREMELY in love with their wives.
First man's wife dies after a short illness ... While other's betrays, cheats and deceives him after a good 20 years of a HAPPY MUTUALLY LOVED married life.

Which man will be in more sorrows ?

2007-02-21 05:59:45 · 13 answers · asked by truefriend100 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Way too much to explain, but the bottom line is my girlfriend started hanging out with this guy that she met through a family friend. It went from talking with him a few times to every day she goes to see him for some reason or another and hangs out there till all hours in the morning. Literally till like 3:00 am. I used to like him but now I hate him... We fight over her seeing him every day but no matter what, she still sees him regaurdless of how upset I am getting. She tells me every time she goes there, but she stays there until 3 or 4 a.m. We have faught about it until I have been blue in the face but she won't stop seeing him. She does not have alot of friends & she uses this as an excuse. If I was included it would not be an issue but I am never included in thier chill out sessions.
WHAT DO YOU THINK?
Is she sleeping with him, or interested in him or is she just excited to have a new guy friend that is funny.

I am racking my brain over this.
Please advise...

2007-02-21 05:59:37 · 6 answers · asked by warscoob 2 in Marriage & Divorce

When it comes to past sexual partners how many is too many?
For instance for a 46 year old man? For a 26 year old woman?

2007-02-21 05:59:14 · 15 answers · asked by clints_wench 2 in Singles & Dating

Way too much to explain, but the bottom line is my girlfriend started hanging out with this guy that she met through a family friend. It went from talking with him a few times to every day she goes to see him for some reason or another and hangs out there till all hours in the morning. Literally till like 3:00 am. I used to like him but now I hate him... We fight over her seeing him every day but no matter what, she still sees him regaurdless of how upset I am getting. She tells me every time she goes there, but she stays there until 3 or 4 a.m. We have faught about it until I have been blue in the face but she won't stop seeing him. She does not have alot of friends & she uses this as an excuse. If I was included it would not be an issue but I am never included in thier chill out sessions.
WHAT DO YOU THINK?
Is she sleeping with him, or interested in him or is she just excited to have a new guy friend that is funny.

I am racking my brain over this.
Please advise...

2007-02-21 05:58:50 · 9 answers · asked by warscoob 2 in Singles & Dating

I was recently in the hospital for several days. After staying with me in Emergency Room and seeing that I was settled I told my husband to go home and get some rest. I asked him to bring me some personal items the following day before he went to work (he was due to be at work at 1230pm). He said he would be. The next day around 1130 am when I hadn't heard from him I called home and left a message. The day went by and around 800pm I still had not heard from my husband, he go off of work at 530pm, so I called him, he answered and I just asked him if he could bring me the things I had asked, he said he was on his way. From our house to the hospital it is a 5 minute drive. By midnight he had still not came by nor did he call. I had passed the point of being upset, I was hurt and scared. My MD earlier that day said one of the tests I had indicated I may need to have a very complicated surgery. I was hurt because I was all alone, and my husband had not called or come by to see how I was doing. By the next morning I still had not heard from my husband. My best friend had called me late in the evening and I asked her to call my house to tell my husband I needed the items. I also called security in my apartment complex to go by my house to leave a note saying I needed him to call. When I still had not heard from husband I sent an email to my parents, my husbands parents, my sister and two of my best friends and asked them if they heard from my husband to tell him to call me. At this point I was so hurt, but I was also concerned about him I couldn't imagine him at least giving me a call. So finally my husband came by and brought the items I told him about.
Now this is not the first time that this has happened, over last two years I have been hospitalized several times. I just don't understand how to get him to understand how his actions (or lack of action) affects me and what it is doing to our relationship.

2007-02-21 05:58:39 · 8 answers · asked by Babydumplings 2 in Marriage & Divorce

write now im friends with everyone is that good or should i be more in one click .but im not friends with the super pop. ppl just semi like the preps and im friends with the goths the jocks the mean ppl punk sk8ers but im not really friends with th rejected that much ill say like hi is that good what im inwrite now or what ?

2007-02-21 05:57:17 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-02-21 05:56:53 · 5 answers · asked by RAKESH G 1 in Singles & Dating

Say you are dating/talking to this guy/girl that you have met online but not have met in real life...You made several attempts to me but for whatever reason you do not meet...He/She says the reasoning is because they are affraid? Affraid of what? Should he/she wait until the other is no longer affraid if the bond is that strong? Or is it all BS?

2007-02-21 05:55:59 · 17 answers · asked by flctya 1 in Singles & Dating

For spring break my friends and I are going to Disney world and MGM studios and things around that area.....are we to old to go to those places? We are all either 20 or 21 years old.

2007-02-21 05:55:39 · 43 answers · asked by cutejenna008 1 in Family

Hehe...Got cha didn't I??? Well, the reason this is in dating is because this section is probably the most widely read. Oh...yeah...the nose picking isn't my question-I don't have that problem. I have a few questions that I NEED...oops...WANT answerd. Well here's #1

1. Is Pirates of the Carribean 3 on DVD yet?

2. Speaking of the movie-how old is Orlando Bloom??? In some pictures he looks older than he does in others. That's not really important, I was just wondering.

3. How far is Ashville, NC from Kingsport, TN?

4. Do you know of any nice houses w/ atleast 1 1/2 and more acres and the house have atleast 4 bedrooms. and under $250,000 .

The person that answers my question most completely and correctly will get 10 points.

-thanx!

2007-02-21 05:54:58 · 20 answers · asked by Southern Dixie 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-21 05:54:48 · 18 answers · asked by bowmanhots 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Like me I made most of my bf's cry. I felt sooo bad. Should I come with a warning?

2007-02-21 05:54:46 · 12 answers · asked by Steph1490 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-21 05:53:25 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

When the guy you like has Erectily Dysfunction. I want to help him. He means so much to me. I am very sexual. Please help...

2007-02-21 05:53:03 · 12 answers · asked by Guess Who? 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-21 05:52:37 · 8 answers · asked by connorlovenoodles 2 in Singles & Dating

Are there ways to not get any man's attention other than wearing a fake wedding ring, dress awfully, rude personality, or bad hygiene? I've looked this up on the internet and couldn't really find a reliable source or answer. Guys, what would make you not want to approach a stranger or "hit on her"? Suppose I'm eating out alone and not want any notice, would wearing sweat pants and plain t-shirt help?

Thank you in advance for your honest answers.

2007-02-21 05:51:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My family is Italian (I'm 1/2). I would like to incorporate as much Italian traditions as possible. Any ideas? Also, any ideas for an Italian theme/decorations? Where I live there are not many Italians, so I don't want people to think my wedding is wierd (for example - if I had a money bag at the reception, no one where I live would know to put money in it). I want to incorporate some traditions and decoration-type things.

2007-02-21 05:51:25 · 9 answers · asked by Belle 1 in Weddings

I have had my ups and downs with this guy for 2years. We have ahd a very unhealthy relationship between his 3 baby mama's and my flirting. I thought i loved him, he so down to eartha dn understanding and sex is great!! but for some reason i was never secure with our relationship. I can't find a way not to call him or text him because it's so hard for me to let him go, but i know we both have to move on!! Please help me...im heartbroken

2007-02-21 05:51:14 · 11 answers · asked by MAMA 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-21 05:50:55 · 21 answers · asked by Miss Twix 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im moving into this wayyy larger house. its in a bigger area with many places to shop and all. my old house was in a small area. nice sized house, but everyone knew everyone. now, i know no one at my new school. ill start going to my new school for 8th grade next year. how do i meet new people, and make friends with the popular people. also, how am i supposed to know who is popular? i want to make friends with them while im still new. but how do i know who they are. the school is so much bigger.

2007-02-21 05:49:57 · 26 answers · asked by youjrys 1 in Friends

well my ex boyfriend randomly imed me talking about how amazing and beautiful this one girl "kayla" is and how they just met today and how she is already so perfect. he told me they made out all the way up the chair lift and wouldnt stop rubbing it in my face and stuff because he knows i still like him
and i was like why are you trying to get me jealous and hes like hah do i really gotta try?
seriously.. idk if he really did meet her or if hes just trying to get me jealous. but its working! by alot

do you think he really does love her or he is trying to get me jealou and get my attention. i need some advice please

2007-02-21 05:49:01 · 7 answers · asked by i love him. 1 in Singles & Dating

I know that the words "tell me your feelings" can be scary for a guy, but what if I just want his opinion or what he wants or what he thinks is right? My guy friend doesn't seem to know how to relate to these questions. He feels as if I'm asking him to tell me about his personal life and that isn't it. He seems reluctant to tell me his side of the story. I would like to receive his input without sounding as if I'm trying to get him to tell me about his personal life.

2007-02-21 05:48:09 · 2 answers · asked by Cherrybomb 1 in Singles & Dating

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2007-02-21 05:47:59 · 34 answers · asked by Franky 1 in Marriage & Divorce

title asks it all

I'm an 18year old male, need to know a few icebreakers IF things get quiet on our date

2007-02-21 05:47:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend, have been going out for about a year, I really love him but sometimes we get mad at each other. My parents won't let me go out on dates with him, and that makes him feel bad and he tells me and it makes ME feel bad. And we always end up breaking up. What should I do?

2007-02-21 05:47:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-21 05:47:52 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My wife and I married and she seemed to be fine with my kids at first and she has a daughter from a previous relationship. As time went on, she’s jealous of the money I give my ex. Wife and the things I have to do for my kids while expecting me just to accept a daughter she’s had with another man as my own and for me to do everything for her daughter. She resents everything I have to do with my kids and expects me just to take on her daughter as her own (her daughter’s father never has even seen her). I keep saying that if you decided to get child support from her dad and stuff then you wouldn’t be jealous of the money I have to give my ex. (she didn’t because she wanted total control). She also doesn’t like the fact that my kids are raised differently than what she wants with their mother which I have no control over. It’s like she wants my kids totally out of her life and to me just to raise her daughter the way she wants. I’m getting extremely frustrated and she won’t even listen to reason or see that she could have money as well but she chose not to. Seems like she’s got a case of the suppose to’s or picked the wrong guy. I almost feel like telling her to go find another guy that will just accept all her baggage. I don’t mind accepting hers if she accepts mine. FYI she’s also jealous of my ex. Wife even though I can’t stand her which she knows. What do I do?

2007-02-21 05:47:45 · 11 answers · asked by golf4everdude 1 in Marriage & Divorce

In the last year I met my two best friends, and we basically do everything together. Recently guy issues have been getting me down and I really haven't been myself. Today, one of the two, we will call her Girl 1 had enough of me being depressed and has stopped talking to me until I sort out my guy issues. She started passing notes around about me in class, which I thought was pretty cruel.

My other best friend, Girl 2 is still talking to me but is upset as she's now piggy in the middle, and she wanted us to sleep over hers at the weekend but that looks unlikely.

But my question is, how should I resolve the issue? Should I just apologize to Girl 1, will she even accept it? I'm really to scared to solve my boy issues but at the same time I can't help feeling depressed, but it seems if i'm upset it spreads onto her. Should I even just lie about my emotions and tell her i'm over the boy issues?

2007-02-21 05:47:07 · 3 answers · asked by Elle F 1 in Friends