Are there ways to not get any man's attention other than wearing a fake wedding ring, dress awfully, rude personality, or bad hygiene? I've looked this up on the internet and couldn't really find a reliable source or answer. Guys, what would make you not want to approach a stranger or "hit on her"? Suppose I'm eating out alone and not want any notice, would wearing sweat pants and plain t-shirt help?
Thank you in advance for your honest answers.
2007-02-21 05:51:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
avoid eye contact....eye contact sends a signal your open for approach....be polite yet direct if they approach...no need to be rude
2007-02-21 05:56:18 · answer #1 · answered by kevin c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess if you were picking your nose you wouldn't have to worrying someone trying to pick you up. I'm just having a stupid moment. Sorry. I would say do not look around, no eye contact, and maybe messy hair. I don't think the seat shirt or t-shirt will turn a guy off. Bury you nose in a book or newspaper. Good luck in not getting hit on.
2007-02-21 14:03:09 · answer #2 · answered by Hibbler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you not just say no? Or are you soooo hot that men are just flinging themselves at you from every angle? lol Poor thing!!! Try borrowing a baby from someone. Buy some action figures and play with them everywhere you go. Or have conversations with yourself. If you see a guy approaching you maybe punch yourself in the head a few times and say "shut up shut up shut up!!" That should make them turn around pretty fast.
2007-02-21 14:00:57 · answer #3 · answered by ♪ ♫Jin_Jur♫ ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think it matters, I've tried all the above except wedding ring and I still get hit on.
Try not to make eye contact, that might help.
2007-02-21 13:57:19 · answer #4 · answered by Tab 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So sad to say it, but if vagina was a street, every man would go for a ride. I have been looking my worst and someone will still try to hit on me. I have had bad hair days, bad outfit, houseshoes on it don't matter somebody will try to hit on you. I don't think they turn off, they have on switches only.
2007-02-21 14:00:33 · answer #5 · answered by MsTruthful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wear a hair net, go to town on the makeup and wear a wooly jumper and baggy pants
2007-02-21 13:56:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a sex change. Then go for a meal in a place where homosexuality is deeply frowned on (Saudi Arabia maybe?). That is the only way to stop chaps from trying it on.
2007-02-21 13:57:51 · answer #7 · answered by ironmainiac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here are a few suggestions.
-fart in public or pick your nose
-eat like a horse
-laugh incessantly with a deep nasal sound
-scratch your "areas" indiscriminatly like some men do
-talk to- and answer yourself in tongues.
-If a man walks up to you- say "OMG! Mark? Didnt i see you at the clinic last week? My test was positive- dont you just hate that!?"
-Carry around the Anarchists Cookbook with a notebook and pretend to make notes on how to kill someone.
-Tape toilet paper to your shoe.
If a guy actually does make it close to you....
-take out your gum, put it on the plate and when you are done put it back in your mouth
-eat off of his plate and not off of yours
- fart at the table- and dont have manners about it
- talk about rashes you dont have (but make him think you do)
- Ask about his exes and how they were in bed- then turn around and talk about all of your partners (or made up ones) and only touch on the best points- like he was HUGE, or awesome in bed...lol
- after you eat ask tell/ask him "i hope you dont think we are having sex tonight just because you spent money on me"
-flirt with all other men in the place. the old ones...
Sure ideas to KEEP or CHASE a man away.
2007-02-21 14:01:28 · answer #8 · answered by glorymomof3 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i judge only by reaction. if i saw you being mean or rude, or handling a situation very poorly that would make me stray for fear of you pulling me into any problems you may cause. My life is not problem free, but the problems are kept at a bear minimum
2007-02-21 13:56:21 · answer #9 · answered by aphotic nostrum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you could try telling them your not intrested or primp yourself up to be the hottest one there then it would take balls to talk to you cuz your beautiful and it is hard to do that unless you get the one guy that thinks he's all that but it is better than a bunch of guys comming up to you. well good luck with you issue hope that helps
2007-02-21 13:58:43 · answer #10 · answered by fuller_0_2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋