My question entails loosing of wives the both ways.To elaborate.. Two men were EXTREMELY in love with their wives.
First man's wife dies after a short illness ... While other's betrays, cheats and deceives him after a good 20 years of a HAPPY MUTUALLY LOVED married life.
Which man will be in more sorrows ?
2007-02-21 05:59:45 · 13 answers · asked by truefriend100 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The Widower might've actually had a good wife. HA!
2007-02-21 06:03:29 · answer #1 · answered by What gives? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The man that was betrayed, especially after 20 years of happiness. Death of a good wife leaves a widower that's at least trusting and not as damaged as the betrayed man. I wouldn't want to have to pay for what someone else did to a man I loved.
The betrayed man would hurt the most. His marriage was a delusion and he doesn't even trust his own judgment then. Sad.
But you don't know if the widower was ever betrayed by HIS wife and had forgiven her, now do you?? Very tricky!! You almost caught me on that one!! @8-)
2007-02-21 06:10:24 · answer #2 · answered by Dovey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A widower is someone who has lost the other partner(death), as for your question it depends on the relationship between the man whose wife died, or what she died of, if there relationship was great, he would be in sorrows but he knows death is envitable but for the other man , he would wish he was dead, so i believe he would be in sorrow more.
2007-02-21 06:09:43 · answer #3 · answered by ritando 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could answer extra questions so i can get my point 6 advantage badge.... permit me be blunt, it rather is a B.S. huge distinction, In my books she's the two your lover or no longer. while marriage works, husband and spouse stay fans. Feeling in love comes and is going, a splash endurance and a few advantageous potential many times does the trick for me nonetheless...2 an prolonged time and counting.
2016-11-24 22:16:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Impossible to answer; depends on the man/men and their abilities to respond to the events that have affected them.
Widowers often bounce back and get remarried...some don't. Some men that are cheated on move on and marry again, some murder people and some do nothing but wallow.
Sorry, but you can't compare the two.
2007-02-21 06:04:58 · answer #5 · answered by Slimslimmer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is the same because both wives will be dead the one who died is certainly dead and the husband of the cheating wife is going to shoot her a ss so what is the difference.I guess the guy might feel
better who shot his cheating wife..
2007-02-21 06:51:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The widower would be sadder,he can never touch,talk or see his wife again.The other guy LIKES his life,to put up with that stuff for so long.No one can be truly happy living with infidelity and knowing it..Hope this helps.
2007-02-21 06:16:23 · answer #7 · answered by Maw-Maw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The man whose wife betrayed him. There is closure when someone dies. But when someone betrays you in that way you never heal, you never trust again. You are haunted by it forever.
2007-02-21 06:04:36 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one who got betrayed
2007-02-21 06:10:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a widower will be in more sorrows
2007-02-23 14:36:21 · answer #10 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋